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Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Mammieace(f): 11:33pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Definitely.. .By default, we humans are consumers(users),so at one point or the other we've used someone and we've been used. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
A situation where a man pays for a girl's school fees and house rent plus food in her four or five yrs in the univ with the promise of marriage.after graduation she now tells the man she can't marry him cos he's almost her dads age or maybe her parents told her not to marry him cos he's not from their tribe.na wetin u go call dat one? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by almarthins(m): 11:41pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Well, men get used most times fanancially n dump. If na lie make we open ur records. Many dey ur wardrobe wey u buy with our money. Ngbor na lie? |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by almarthins(m): 11:43pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Mammieace: Wetin be "we"? Just say you have used some body nt just somebody many body |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by pterson(m): 11:44pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Yes. By active or once-upon-a-time sex starved Oloshos! |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by almarthins(m): 11:47pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
bbbabes: Blood of Jesus! Destiny snatcher, give me ur address we go know who go use who |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by seedorfg(m): 11:48pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by bravesoul247(m): 11:50pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
pocohantas:both ladies and men get used and dumped so far as emotions are involved. So it happens to both sex, it's not predominant in just one sex. Just that men know how to handle there's well and get on with life. Just saying 2 Likes |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by almarthins(m): 11:51pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Afam4eva: Ehn! U know dem? Men! Enter one relationship first u go know whatsup, nothing is free with naija babes. U go pay one way or another 1 Like |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by MissRaine69(f): 11:58pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
Men do get used and dumped Get used for visas To pay their women for visiting them Being told the child ( children for some)is yours Pay for rent whilst she brings other man Find themselves paying for her school fees only for her to graduate and marry the other man Men do have their hearts broken but come here to boast about the women they fork and how much they enjoy being a bachelor But there is a woman who inadvertently triggered all that behaviour 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Mcowubaba: 12:01am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Men get used and dumped, but the don't make so much fuss about it. The get over it more quickly, or they go on revenge mission But Girls, any small thing the will say "he used and dumped me", when actually it was only Sex you offered in the relationship... Girls equate Sex as being "used", very awkward mentality, as if they don't enjoy the thrusting during sex, na dem shout pass self, screaming with estacy While men equate their finances as been "used" So it's a two way thing... . I think on average, Nigerian men do more in a relationship than most Nigerian girls, providing for someone financially is not easy. The same money we spend on you, can be used to get dozens of Sexual services elsewhere/randomly. Because a typical Nigerian girlfriend, will only give you sex , after lots of spending, scheming, begging, and forming... Before any Misguided Feminist will quote me to say the usual rhetoric of "I don't know the type of girls you're dealing with", "I guess your mother and sisters only offer sex", "you attract your likes" "broke asss nig-ga", "misogynist"... etc Just kindly list the things an average Nigerian Girl bring to a relationship, apart from her problems and Genitals 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Nobody: 12:17am On Jul 11, 2017 |
yeah...the worthless ones |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Freshbaba95(m): 12:18am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Sexually: imagine a girl stopped picking your calls after you guys had sex the previous day. Her reason? she thought you can fvck but you did not live up to expectations. Ofcos most ladies will never say this to the man, but rather serve him the silent treatment. And there is a case where the sex drive of the guy deteriorates, the girls dumps his ass for better service somewhere else. This kind of dumping, most times remains a mystery to the guy, and he NEVER finds out . Financially: Most ladies can endure dating an ugly or a dumb guy during their university days cos the guy is sponsoring her future. once the ladies graduates she drops the guy like a hot potatoe. In some case this type of dumping are made know, the lady comes out and tell the guy she just cant continue with the guy cos they are not "compatible" or they are Na U Be First To Make Sense 4 Here. |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Dreampower(m): 12:24am On Jul 11, 2017 |
I met a girl during my nysc days and we dated for sometime. She was very nice to me, spending and buying me things even as a guy. I never knew her intentions was to have me bang her, after she had enough of me she quit the relationship for no reason. That was when i realized that she used me and dumped me. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by JuicyStar: 12:27am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Relationship is based majorly of feelings which is not predictable. If it leads to sometime serious, favoured are u and if it doesn't, pick yourself up and move on. So for the ladies, the fact that a guy sleeps with u doesn't mean he doesn't have the right to change his mind and leave. On the other hand, the fact that u spend a fortune on a lady doesn't guarantee that she's yours for life. She still has the right to change her mind. My personal opinion is that as long as u took every action with a sincere mind during the relationship, let the past go and move on. The Word "use and dump" can only be found on the lips of bitter and unforgiveb person. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Nobody: 12:28am On Jul 11, 2017 |
JuicyStar: Claps...fantastic...well said.. |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by tosyne2much(m): 12:37am On Jul 11, 2017 |
It happens to both genders but more peculiar to females |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by demefa(m): 12:48am On Jul 11, 2017 |
JuicyStar:u said it all bt lemme add diz. In relationship u ve to b Smart, ur supposed to read all moves made by ur partner. Neva take things too serious even wen u want to end in marriage with ur partner cuz u may receive a surprised package nd die of shock. 5 Likes |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Nobody: 12:50am On Jul 11, 2017 |
demefa: wrong...na lie... JuicyStar's position is mature... what the crap did you just drop here bro..Chai... We need pictures and age beside moniker..can't believe someone can drp such stuv 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Daboomb: 12:51am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Th ebelow is what it means to not only "get used and dumped", but to also get f*cked! http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/woman-convicted-soliciting-firefighter-husbands-killing-48522995 Newly Wed Nigerian Woman Kills Husband For $100,000 | Photos Abusive indeed! This is what it means to get used, dumped and phuckedUp. Everybody and anybody can do it, male of female, but it is the women who whine all day about how Men do it to them. You wont find the Men crying all day, even though they are the victims, most time. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Daboomb: 12:59am On Jul 11, 2017 |
lefulefu: Its always a bad idea to train and educate a lady through Universoty, no matter how much you love her. Let her father and mother educate her...while you just pay the dowry. If you cant marry her "as it is", dont waste your money improving her because when she is done "improved", she will realise that you are no longer on her level and she will have to look for a better person! It also makes you feel she is so much indebted to you and that makes it even more painful when she dumps you for another guy. But the truth is the women dont care a hoot. Show me one unhappy husband and l will show you how he spent all the money he made in his early years of youth, to fund her education, only to be dumped. Serves him right though. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by thesuave10(m): 12:59am On Jul 11, 2017 |
If she's got the finestface IN the world. Hell nah. Oops!! |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Nobody: 1:00am On Jul 11, 2017 |
We all get used and dumped, it has nothing to do with gender but everything to do with human cruelty. One must understand not to allow love to become the master, but the slave to be controlled by the mind. It is only in love that one is used and abused, so be very careful the promises you make and fulfill when you are in love. Love has always been an instrument of deceipt from the days of Samson and even the Days of Judas. Be very careful with love. It is a very useless good thing. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by thesuave10(m): 1:01am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Daboomb: Nah.. This is what it means to be murdered dumped and bleeped up in hell 1 Like |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by philipstanley(m): 1:02am On Jul 11, 2017 |
used and double dumped |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Nobody: 1:11am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by demefa(m): 1:15am On Jul 11, 2017 |
connectpoint:wot do u knw? Ur a novice from look of tynz. Look down on wot a Prof dropped
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Re: Do Men Also Get Used And Dumped? by Shortyy(f): 1:27am On Jul 11, 2017 |
NairalandCS:I'm sorry, what do you mean by you're not bringing anything to the r/ship? Someone you met on your first date and you tell him you need a "no sex r/ship" how would he know you're not bringing anything? |
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