Sagamite:

Yeah, that would be the fine girl that worships me. Not the one I have to chase around and watch fumble.

When you shower her with love and adoration, she will worship you. It is a mutual thing.

The problem is that you guys wants to jump the gun and demand worship without ready to love and adore.

A loved woman will do anything to make her man happy. She will take initiative and do stuffs he does not except.

What do you think propelled that Chinese woman pull her hubby by his boxers? True/fake control?

bukatyne:

When you shower her with love and adoration, she will worship you. It is a mutual thing.

The problem is that you guys wants to jump the gun and demand worship without ready to love and adore.

A loved woman will do anything to make her man happy. She will take initiative and do stuffs he does not except.

What do you think propelled that Chinese woman pull her hubby by his boxers? True/fake control?

No, the problem is they think they should be worshiped without doing nothing, just because they are women.

They feel they are L'Oreal.

And the problem there is that I am the MVP, not her. So I should be L'Oreal.

Na me get market.

What Chinese woman?

Wow. A thread for bitter, low self esteem, illogical, maladjusted, borderline psychotic men sheeple. Nice.

ileobatojo: Wow. A thread for bitter, low self esteem, illogical, maladjusted, borderline psychotic men sheeple. Nice.

No worry and no go warri. No be your fault.

I have no doubt many of you women will know what bitterness in a few years.

Low self-esteem and illogical are already in you people's DNA.

Maladjusted is what most Naija girls are.

Borderline psychotic is what una go display when bobo decides to move on and you know na uphill task to replace am.

Make we dey watch.

I know I am not complaining and will not be complaining in future. I can see women's cards and I know I have the upper hand with more favourable cards. So I don't need to complain, I just need to continue playing a game I know there can only be one winner at the end of it.

bukatyne:

You can only say you are accomplished when you are on your death bed and you are satisfied with the life you led.

When you get that promotion, do you rest on your oars? Don't you strive for a better package/title?

Material things never satisfy. The yearns of your heart can only be satisfied by showering a woman with love (not money or material stuffs)

Go find a woman to love

The problem is; how many of em can define love without the words in bracket... Which implies that, broke guys are not capable of loving or being loved...

Sagamite:

No, the problem is they think they should be worshiped without doing nothing, just because they are women.

They feel they are L'Oreal.

And the problem there is that I am the MVP, not her. So I should be L'Oreal.

Na me get market.

What Chinese woman?

That is the problem... They wanna be worshiped without doing anything to deserve it. That's gross if you ask me... Just because one is a woman doesn't mean they have no part to play, buh the reverse is the case nowadays.

dmcdad:
That is the problem... They wanna be worshiped without doing anything to deserve it. That's gross if you ask me... Just because one is a woman doesn't mean they have no part to play, buh the reverse is the case nowadays.

You no fit blame them na.

A lot of them don dey use too much L'Oreal products, e dey shack dem head.



Dem better start switching to Avon.

Aha! And someone just had to dig out the thread and keep it alive.

I have also been beaten since den I see all woman as same, even till nw am afraid to enter into any relationship

atarapa: I have also been beaten since den I see all woman as same, even till nw am afraid to enter into any relationship

Broda you don't have to be afraid. You just have to be in control thats all!

bukatyne:

When you shower her with love and adoration, she will worship you. It is a mutual thing.

Love a girl that loves you not one that loves the way you love her..

WackyJ1:
Love a girl that loves you not one that loves the way you love her..

You are learning well.

ileobatojo: Wow. A thread for bitter, low self esteem, illogical, maladjusted, borderline psychotic men sheeple. Nice.

The thread is better now

When it just started, it was wacked!

^^

Babe,

seems like you're in control of your man..

I wish he sees this thread.... Lol

fALLs into iya sikira's gbegiri soup...

Manweysabi: ^^

Babe,

seems like you're in control of your man..

I wish he sees this thread.... Lol

Sagamite:

No, the problem is they think they should be worshiped without doing nothing, just because they are women.

They feel they are L'Oreal.

And the problem there is that I am the MVP, not her. So I should be L'Oreal.

Na me get market.

What Chinese woman?

One viral picture about a woman who saves a suicidal husband by his boxers

What does an average Nigerian man bring to the table apart from money?

I agree some women have entitlement mentality because they are 'women' which I completely frown at as I believe everyone should earn respect.

You will however agree that it's the default setting of the society: a man is respected because he is a man; a leader is respected because of his/her position. Don't be surprised Abacha had those who respected him.

dmcdad:
That is the problem... They wanna be worshiped without doing anything to deserve it. That's gross if you ask me... Just because one is a woman doesn't mean they have no part to play, buh the reverse is the case nowadays.

I am sure there are still some ladies who believe in team work and adding value to their men's lives.

2s£xy:


fALLs into iya sikira's gbegiri soup...

I pity you; you will have to pay for the whole pot

bukatyne:


One viral picture about a woman who saves a suicidal husband by his boxers

What does an average Nigerian man bring to the table apart from money?

I agree some women have entitlement mentality because they are 'women' which I completely frown at as I believe everyone should earn respect.

You will however agree that it's the default setting of the society: a man is respected because he is a man; a leader is respected because of his/her position. Don't be surprised Abacha had those who respected him.

I partially agree. Men are respected based on their status, achievement or position.

Not every man in society is respected. Actually majority are not respected.

In a courting interaction, a woman would not respect a man for purely being a man, she would respect him because of his status, achievement or position.

I don't yet understand the Abacha introduction.

WackyJ1:
Love a girl that loves you not one that loves the way you love her..

A woman loves a man that loves her.

You must have feelings (which would later mature to love) before you approach a girl, not so?

bukatyne:

A woman loves a man that loves her.

You must have feelings (which would later mature to love) before you approach a girl, not so?

God forbid I ever give myself to such a woman.

Sagamite:

I partially agree. Men are respected based on their status, achievement or position.

Not every man in society is respected. Actually majority are not respected.

In a courting interaction, a woman would not respect a man for purely being a man, she would respect him because of his status, achievement or position.

I don't yet understand the Abacha introduction.

And does a man respect a woman because she has a V? She must be adding value too to earn his respect

Have you eaten African salad aka Abacha before?

Sagamite:

God forbid I ever give myself to such a woman.

Enu lo ni! Lol!

So you just see a woman and walk up to her?

Or you have microscope to read women's minds?

bukatyne:

And does a man respect a woman because she has a V? She must be adding value too to earn his respect

Have you eaten African salad aka Abacha before?

Maybe I have eaten but don't know what it is called.

Yes, many men kissed the arsse of women because they have been systematically nurtured to think you are suppose to just respect women. They are called "Real Men". The women might add value to their lives but the value is usually far less than the value these men are hustling to give the women all for a pat on the back and called a "real man". They live for this affirmation because they are trained that is what is expectd of them.

It is very similar to the women that are trained to remain with a man that they do not love and beats the fck out of them all because they think a good girl does not leave her marital home.

It is all some form of mugusology.

bukatyne:

Enu lo ni! Lol!

So you just see a woman and walk up to her?

Or you have microscope to read women's minds?

Emi? (Me?)

Mo le nu. Mo mor pe mo lenu. (I get mouth. I no say I get mouth.)

I test women from the word go and within 3 meetings I no which category of my mating interaction she would fall into.

Small, small tests and study and read them. I read her the fck out!

I have a knowledge of psychology more than her, so I know what she is going to do while she is thinking it. It helps to be a non-conforming maverick that does what HE wants, not follow some moronic societal expectation.

Why you think say I could acquire a PhD in Womantology?

Sagamite:

Maybe I have eaten but don't know what it is called.

Yes, many men kissed the arsse of women because they have been systematically nurtured to think you are suppose to just respect women. They are called "Real Men". The women might add value to their lives but the value is usually far less than the value these men are hustling to give the women all for a pat on the back and called a "real man". They live for this affirmation because they are trained that is what is expectd of them.

It is very similar to the women that are trained to remain with a man that they do not love and beats the fck out of them all because they think a good girl does not leave her marital home.

It is all some form of mugusology.

Now you are seeing the bigger picture

I hope the value the real man is adding is not only money sha....

Some men need to soft pedal hustling money and start hustling their women

I was just pulling your legs on the Abacha food; I was actually referring to Gen. Sanni Abacha

Sagamite:

Emi? (Me?)

Mo le nu. Mo mor pe mo lenu. (I get mouth. I no say I get mouth.)

I test women from the word go and within 3 meetings I no which category of my mating interaction she would fall into.

Small, small tests and study and read them. I read her the fck out!

I have a knowledge of psychology more than her, so I know what she is going to do while she is thinking it. It helps to be a non-conforming maverick that does what HE wants, not follow some moronic societal expectation.

Why you think say I could acquire a PhD in Womantology?

Lol!

All na mouth!

Don't worry, you will one that read manology! Remember the manhood lives on (courtesy of Pat. Jonathan)

I understand your point: both parties must bring something to the table

bukatyne:

Now you are seeing the bigger picture

I hope the value the real man is adding is not only money sha....

Some men need to soft pedal hustling money and start hustling their women

I was just pulling your legs on the Abacha food; I was actually referring to Gen. Sanni Abacha

Me? Any girl that falls out of line, will fall out of place.

I am not a real man and I know I am the MVP.

I did not come on Earth to live my life to please a woman and I do not need to live my life to please any woman.

I have the societal, biological and intellectual assets to afford living my life enjoyably with minimal risk and in my best interest, any woman that wants me to please her would have to know it would mostly be on my terms.

bukatyne:

I am sure there are still some ladies who believe in team work and adding value to their men's lives.

Definitely there are those that ain't like that. The worrisome thing is the ratio of such ladies to the others. You will notice that the difference is nothing to write home about.

bukatyne:

Enu lo ni! Lol!

So you just see a woman and walk up to her?

Or you have microscope to read women's minds?

My dear, the problem is that; both the men that instigate the approach and the ladies they approach know nothing about some pre-conceived feelings nowadays. A guy approaches a lady because he wants to sleep with her and a lady says yes to whatever proposals the guy brings to the fore because she knows she would be well rewarded financially. So, you can see that both sexes are guilty of going into relationships without the original or actual feeling or attraction so-to-say that should be there as a pre-requisite.

Nevertheless, there are still those that still do it the right way. The disturbing fact is; how many of these compared to the vast majority?

bukatyne:

Lol!

All na mouth!

Don't worry, you will one that read manology! Remember the manhood lives on (courtesy of Pat. Jonathan)

I understand your point: both parties must bring something to the table

Exactly! That is always the bone of contention why most men act awkwardly with their women because most women these days add very little to nothing in their men's lives. I have always asked this; take away sex, what else do most Nigerian girls add in their relationships? Don't even bother answering cause, e no get wetin you wan talk...

dmcdad:
Exactly! That is always the bone of contention why most men act awkwardly with their women because most women these days add very little to nothing in their men's lives. I have always asked this; take away sex, what else do most Nigerian girls add in their relationships? Don't even bother answering cause, e no get wetin you wan talk...

There are good ones out there, you will find them by God's grace. and when you find her, don't chase her with your control tactics; a girl with healthy self esteem will not stay.

A woman does not bring s.ex to the table; it is a mutual thing except if the man is paying her for it then she is a wh.ore