Tuham:
In one word, struggling guys are not entitled to having a girlfriend they can call their own?

Optional1
Lefulefu

Come help me hia biko

olaszydaruma:
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Its not a funny matter bro. I am a living testimony of the bad effect of bet9ja virtual. I am still suffering from the implications of dwelling in such things.
Ha! Kunle, Michael, Tunde, Ifeanyi it will not be better for you wherever you may be for teaching me baby n sheju!!!

IamKashyBaby:




I agree thats very seXXXy...especially when she gives u head..At least u dont have to worry pulling her fake hair when u nut in her mouth

Rapmoney:
We all have our struggling days. Most wealthy people you know in the society today all had their struggling days; except you were born with a silver spoon. It is nothing to be ashamed of because as the Bible puts it: 'Do not despise the days of humble beginnings'. One true fact is that you won't even remember your struggling days when you finally attain success.

If you were born with wooden or no spoons at all, you need not despair. Success is not only achieved by physical strength; it also has to do with your mental strength. Your level of rational thinking matters a lot, for without it, your physical strength will be equivalent to pouring water into a basket. I believe you know what that means.

Below are some things you should avoid as a struggling bachelor:

1) BEER PARLORS/DRINKING JOINTS: It's not a bad idea to visit a bar for one or two bottles of drink occassionally (that's if you drink). What is killing is when you make it a habit to be there everyday to oblige your urge for alcohol! These spots are pocket-drainers for struggling guys. At the end of the day, you'll discover that you've not been able to meet most of your important needs. Why? Your habit is draining your meagre resources at the expense of self-development.

2) CALL GIRLS: Once you entangle yourself in this unfavourable market where deposits are allowed but no withdrawals, you can be completely compared to a fly that's entangled in a spider's web! If you spend N20,000 monthly on prostitutes and your monthly income is N40,000, my brother, your future is not brighter than the back of a cooking pot!

3) FINANCIAL WOMEN: (Apology to Phyno aka Eze Nnunu). If you can afford a phone of N280,000 for your girlfriend without waving, very fine. After all, we give in love. Bro, but not when you are struggling. There's a time for all things. Leave these set of people for those who are already comfortable, rich or have enough to throw around. Life is not and has never been a competition. You too will get there if you strive. Don't be fooled by flashy appearance. Women are created with brains too; they can work and take care of their needs. Don't kill yourself to make a woman look super fly while you are struggling to survive. It makes no sense, for tides and times come and go. Let whoever you are with know your present state. The good ones will encourage you but the materialistic ones...hmmm. That doesn't mean you should be stingy; give freely but let it be within your means. Give with no intention to receive.

4) COMPETITIVE LIFE: This has never been a helpful friend to struggling guys. What will it profit a struggling guy if he spends N2,500 for a bottle of beer in club, knowing fully well that the neighbourhood shops sell same for N200? The kids who spend lavishly right in the club or elsewhere trust their account balance. Trying to compete with them is useless. My brother, na you go still go house go cry! Regret is a personal thing. Nobody regrets with you Ogbeni, experience na the best teacher but to learn from anoda man own go make you escape paying the high tuition fee.

5) MULTIPLE AFFAIRS: Just like patronizing call-girls (Point 2 above), engaging yourself in multiple affairs as a struggling guy is a fatal blow that can slow your progress. Apart from wasting resources, you will become less focused. My brother, wetin you dey find go Sokoto dey inside your Shokoto o! Even if she's a 'village girl', you can 'package' her as far as you both love and understand each other. Look for an understanding and emotionally mature girl to date; she must also be engaged in something worthwhile. Stop running after these little slay queens! They'd rather prefer a yahoo-yahoo guy to you.

IamKashyBaby:


# 3 tho...

If ur broke or struggling, why not encourage ur woman to wear NO WIGS/ WEAVE

This is the thing, a lot of african women forgets how beautiful their natural hair is..y'all dont need these crap and wrapped ur head for months with fake hair...

maxdosh:


But on ur profile u have your hair wrapped in fake hair too

indodon:
no 6 as a struggling guy, you must stop bet9ja,, especially visual

indodon:
no 6 as a struggling guy, you must stop bet9ja,, especially visual

lefulefu:

not at all..no be wetin op talk
afterall there are shoemakers,okada riders married with kids .
wetin op dey yarn be say make guys dey get their priority in focus instead of spending heavily on frivolity .there"s a woman 4 every man anyway.

optional1:




nothing to say oh...
Other than they should hustle harder..

Tuham:


We go still hustle harder but some people talk say "behind every successful man is a woman"

All this time we're hustling, we still need someone to massage us at the back and tell us

"dear, everything is going to be well. You can do it"

HARDDON:
Avoid Living Above your means.

Buying what you don't need to impress people that don't even like you!


Telling lies to ladies just to get into their pants! There is much more to life than some lil hole inbtw d thighs of these soft dolls.


Clubbing away your life when u should be home strategizing on how to fvcking buy d world n fvck life with the left over change,

hv the world on lock down n travel to space with dem keys tucked in ur jacket pocket.


Stop eating junks. And having multiple bukas as bed mates. Prepare ur fridging meals. They r richer, more hygienic, saves u loads of money n running tummy.


Stop spending all you earn @ a blow. Learn the acts of investment. I am not a savings advocate.
But it doesn't hurt to tuck some away.
To solve this, plan what u wano achieve with the money b4 it comes and when it does, have the balls to stick to your plans.



Now get off my face if you can't keep up with my pace!

Peace !

Tuham:


Now i don get am... The thing true sha.. Some guys fit spend 10x the money they no fit spend for their mama and papa on top of woman wey no be their wife

IamKashyBaby:




I agree thats very seXXXy...especially when she gives u head..At least u dont have to worry pulling her fake hair when u nut in her mouth

sunshineG:
team never been touched
Never been kissed
Team virgin

#TeamTightNunu

I never even tried what i said earlier tho.. I wanna reserve everything to someone who deserved my everything But only if he can wait til i turn 60

IamKashyBaby:


#TeamTightNunu

I never even tried what i said earlier tho.. I wanna reserve everything to someone who deserved my everything But only if he can wait til i turn 60