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Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 10:21am On Aug 15, 2017
IamKashyBaby:


#TeamTightNunu grin

I never even tried what i said earlier tho.. grin I wanna reserve everything to someone who deserved my everything grin But only if he can wait til i turn 60 cheesy




In most of these cases, the asshole is wide open.

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Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 10:25am On Aug 15, 2017
sunshineG:
60 kwa

Hahahaahah grin


Virgin @ 60 sha... wink i bet my babydaddy will need a gallon of lubricants to ease the sexxy pains that i will feel.. grin
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 15, 2017
IamKashyBaby:


Hahahaahah grin


Virgin @ 60 sha... wink i bet my babydaddy will need a gallon of lubricants to ease the sexxy pains that i will feel.. grin
I don't know if a certain sins(papi) lipsrsealed is taking notes
Or is it singledad grin
By the way where is your E bf singledad
I haven't noticed him in a while cheesy
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 10:43am On Aug 15, 2017
Safiaaa:
Invest any money you have. Save. Make money to make more money. If you make money to only spend it, you'll be poor for life.
Hope u good, why aren't u visible these days
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 10:45am On Aug 15, 2017
sunshineG:
I don't know if a certain sins(papi) lipsrsealed is taking notes
Or is it singledad grin
By the way where is your E bf singledad
I haven't noticed him in a while cheesy


I have no idea where's SingleDad ryt now..He didnt even left any msg before he deactivated his 2 accts cry


Sinz got a new mamacita grin I heard she's very active here as well. grin lipsrsealed

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Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by SINZ: 10:53am On Aug 15, 2017
IamKashyBaby:



I have no idea where's SingleDad ryt now..He didnt even left any msg before he deactivated his 2 accts cry


Sinz got a new mamacita grin I heard she's very active here as well. grin lipsrsealed

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Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by indodon(m): 11:25am On Aug 15, 2017
thowbie7ven:
Virtual...
a master in the act





















buhahahaha grin
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by indodon(m): 11:26am On Aug 15, 2017
SkinnyDude:
Live bet good.. But visual, no no no..
my guy visual don do me strong tin o
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 11:41am On Aug 15, 2017
lefulefu:

such guys need factory reset for their brain.u can imagine dat somee even borrow money to sleep with ashi.

borrow money go do wetin? undecided undecided
abeg is there a vacant place over there? i want to......

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Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Munix(m): 11:47am On Aug 15, 2017
Rapmoney:
We all have our struggling days. Most wealthy people you know in the society today all had their struggling days; except you were born with a silver spoon. It is nothing to be ashamed of because as the Bible puts it: 'Do not despise the days of humble beginnings'. One true fact is that you won't even remember your struggling days when you finally attain success.

If you were born with wooden or no spoons at all, you need not despair. Success is not only achieved by physical strength; it also has to do with your mental strength. Your level of rational thinking matters a lot, for without it, your physical strength will be equivalent to pouring water into a basket. I believe you know what that means.

Below are some things you should avoid as a struggling bachelor:

1) BEER PARLORS/DRINKING JOINTS: It's not a bad idea to visit a bar for one or two bottles of drink occassionally (that's if you drink). What is killing is when you make it a habit to be there everyday to oblige your urge for alcohol! These spots are pocket-drainers for struggling guys. At the end of the day, you'll discover that you've not been able to meet most of your important needs. Why? Your habit is draining your meagre resources at the expense of self-development.

2) CALL GIRLS: Once you entangle yourself in this unfavourable market where deposits are allowed but no withdrawals, you can be completely compared to a fly that's entangled in a spider's web! If you spend N20,000 monthly on prostitutes and your monthly income is N40,000, my brother, your future is not brighter than the back of a cooking pot!

3) FINANCIAL WOMEN: (Apology to Phyno aka Eze Nnunu). If you can afford a phone of N280,000 for your girlfriend without waving, very fine. After all, we give in love. Bro, but not when you are struggling. There's a time for all things. Leave these set of people for those who are already comfortable, rich or have enough to throw around. Life is not and has never been a competition. You too will get there if you strive. Don't be fooled by flashy appearance. Women are created with brains too; they can work and take care of their needs. Don't kill yourself to make a woman look super fly while you are struggling to survive. It makes no sense, for tides and times come and go. Let whoever you are with know your present state. The good ones will encourage you but the materialistic ones...hmmm. That doesn't mean you should be stingy; give freely but let it be within your means. Give with no intention to receive.

4) COMPETITIVE LIFE: This has never been a helpful friend to struggling guys. What will it profit a struggling guy if he spends N2,500 for a bottle of beer in club, knowing fully well that the neighbourhood shops sell same for N200? The kids who spend lavishly right in the club or elsewhere trust their account balance. Trying to compete with them is useless. My brother, na you go still go house go cry! Regret is a personal thing. Nobody regrets with you cool Ogbeni, experience na the best teacher but to learn from anoda man own go make you escape paying the high tuition fee.

5) MULTIPLE AFFAIRS: Just like patronizing call-girls (Point 2 above), engaging yourself in multiple affairs as a struggling guy is a fatal blow that can slow your progress. Apart from wasting resources, you will become less focused. My brother, wetin you dey find go Sokoto dey inside your Shokoto o! Even if she's a 'village girl', you can 'package' her as far as you both love and understand each other. Look for an understanding and emotionally mature girl to date; she must also be engaged in something worthwhile. Stop running after these little slay queens! They'd rather prefer a yahoo-yahoo guy to you.


Great one

Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 11:48am On Aug 15, 2017
optional1:



you must have reach a stage in hustling before you need a woman to massage your back and say to you (dear it is well we will get there soon) if u don't help yourself how will a woman help you..

hmmm....
come closer please

Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 11:52am On Aug 15, 2017
Tuham:


borrow money go do wetin? undecided undecided
abeg is there a vacant place over there? i want to......
come and faint here grin grin

Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 12:07pm On Aug 15, 2017
lefulefu:

come and faint here grin grin

*runs forward*
*runs backward*
*charge forward again*
*jumps up and .....

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Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 12:20pm On Aug 15, 2017
Tuham:


*runs forward*
*runs backward*
*charge forward again*
*jumps up and .....
werey!
no go break neck oo grin grin

Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 12:22pm On Aug 15, 2017
Piiko:
Hope u good, why aren't u visible these days
busy with work. Thats why. How are you
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by SkinnyDude(m): 12:23pm On Aug 15, 2017
indodon:
my guy visual don do me strong tin o
Even for my dream I no fit play virtual
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by PierreDeFermat(m): 12:41pm On Aug 15, 2017
indodon:
no 6 as a struggling guy, you must stop bet9ja,, especially visual
virtual,not visual
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by BewajiBrado(m): 12:43pm On Aug 15, 2017
Mehn dat number 3 make deep sense . Nice
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by indodon(m): 12:44pm On Aug 15, 2017
SkinnyDude:
Even for my dream I no fit play virtual
the spirit never enter you na
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 1:10pm On Aug 15, 2017
I am doing very well and in a happy place wink wont u hit me up, it goes down in the DM smiley
Safiaaa:
busy with work. Thats why. How are you
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by optional1(f): 1:18pm On Aug 15, 2017
Tuham:


hmmm....
come closer please

you be gay?

Y men hug @memes


btw, have you voted for aminat508 today..

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Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Romerocollins: 1:39pm On Aug 15, 2017
Rapmoney:
We all have our struggling days. Most wealthy people you know in the society today all had their struggling days; except you were born with a silver spoon. It is nothing to be ashamed of because as the Bible puts it: 'Do not despise the days of humble beginnings'. One true fact is that you won't even remember your struggling days when you finally attain success.

If you were born with wooden or no spoons at all, you need not despair. Success is not only achieved by physical strength; it also has to do with your mental strength. Your level of rational thinking matters a lot, for without it, your physical strength will be equivalent to pouring water into a basket. I believe you know what that means.

Below are some things you should avoid as a struggling bachelor:

1) BEER PARLORS/DRINKING JOINTS: It's not a bad idea to visit a bar for one or two bottles of drink occassionally (that's if you drink). What is killing is when you make it a habit to be there everyday to oblige your urge for alcohol! These spots are pocket-drainers for struggling guys. At the end of the day, you'll discover that you've not been able to meet most of your important needs. Why? Your habit is draining your meagre resources at the expense of self-development.

2) CALL GIRLS: Once you entangle yourself in this unfavourable market where deposits are allowed but no withdrawals, you can be completely compared to a fly that's entangled in a spider's web! If you spend N20,000 monthly on prostitutes and your monthly income is N40,000, my brother, your future is not brighter than the back of a cooking pot!

3) FINANCIAL WOMEN: (Apology to Phyno aka Eze Nnunu). If you can afford a phone of N280,000 for your girlfriend without waving, very fine. After all, we give in love. Bro, but not when you are struggling. There's a time for all things. Leave these set of people for those who are already comfortable, rich or have enough to throw around. Life is not and has never been a competition. You too will get there if you strive. Don't be fooled by flashy appearance. Women are created with brains too; they can work and take care of their needs. Don't kill yourself to make a woman look super fly while you are struggling to survive. It makes no sense, for tides and times come and go. Let whoever you are with know your present state. The good ones will encourage you but the materialistic ones...hmmm. That doesn't mean you should be stingy; give freely but let it be within your means. Give with no intention to receive.

4) COMPETITIVE LIFE: This has never been a helpful friend to struggling guys. What will it profit a struggling guy if he spends N2,500 for a bottle of beer in club, knowing fully well that the neighbourhood shops sell same for N200? The kids who spend lavishly right in the club or elsewhere trust their account balance. Trying to compete with them is useless. My brother, na you go still go house go cry! Regret is a personal thing. Nobody regrets with you cool Ogbeni, experience na the best teacher but to learn from anoda man own go make you escape paying the high tuition fee.

5) MULTIPLE AFFAIRS: Just like patronizing call-girls (Point 2 above), engaging yourself in multiple affairs as a struggling guy is a fatal blow that can slow your progress. Apart from wasting resources, you will become less focused. My brother, wetin you dey find go Sokoto dey inside your Shokoto o! Even if she's a 'village girl', you can 'package' her as far as you both love and understand each other. Look for an understanding and emotionally mature girl to date; she must also be engaged in something worthwhile. Stop running after these little slay queens! They'd rather prefer a yahoo-yahoo guy to you.




Wonderful write up, thumb up!!!

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Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by bhankymyk(m): 3:26pm On Aug 15, 2017
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by Nobody: 5:17pm On Aug 15, 2017
optional1:


you be gay?

Y men hug @memes


btw, have you voted for aminat508 today..

Ah no see better men hug women meme nah..

Already voted for her and also share the link on both my fb and Twitter wall...
Hope you too had shared it on your social site?
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by maxdosh(m): 7:04pm On Aug 15, 2017
IamKashyBaby:


Ur eyes are made in China...its plastic!

U dont know how to identify real hair from a fake hair..

Lol. grin You no well
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by jacyhelen(f): 9:35pm On Aug 15, 2017
indodon:
no 6 as a struggling guy, you must stop bet9ja,, especially visual

hahahahahahahhaha....them call am here ogbungwangwa here...

Guys stop bet pls,its kills
Re: 5 Things You Should Avoid As A Struggling Guy by indodon(m): 10:14pm On Aug 15, 2017
jacyhelen:

hahahahahahahhaha....them call am here ogbungwangwa here...
Guys stop bet pls,its kills
sounds like anambra

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