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Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by 0hsisi: 8:26pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
David is that why you're always here looking for cooks girls beware. are they sending you these things by FEDEX abi them dey deliver am personally |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Sauron1: 8:29pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
0hsisi: Story. . . . . . . . A man can take his babe to his family and nothing will happen. There's no rule that governs men when it comes to relationships. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 8:33pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
googles: I apologize for the earlier comment, it wasnt intended to offend and has been retracted. Back to the issue, i dont think we can use divorce statistics to say marriage is over-rated. those who are unmarried are not any happier than those who married and got divorced. the skyrocketing divorce rate has more to do with the fact that many marry for the wrong reasons today. those who have made a success of their marriages are a strong testimony to the fact that we were designed not to be alone. 0hsisi: there are enough real life cooks here. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 8:34pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
0hsisi: Sorry, this one is "taken". |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by 0hsisi: 8:34pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
women have really suffered chai |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by 0hsisi: 8:37pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
~Sauron~: Hannibal,have you taken any of these your YIM gals to your mommy? obviously not but I bet you,the day you meet the one,you can't wait to show her to mommy. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Sauron1: 8:41pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
0hsisi: I have taken all of em to ma momma, of course. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by 0hsisi: 8:45pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
~Sauron~: I don't mean to mama Calabar |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 8:47pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
0hsisi: they are not complaining abi. biko dont spoil market for us. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Sauron1: 8:48pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
0hsisi: I thunk u meant Mamaput. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by TOPE20001(f): 9:34pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
LMao. There are always words written on the wall but most women tend to ignore. Like david said a man that really cares abt u will rtn your calls or txt within an hr no matter how busy he might be. Altho i am fussy abt meeting his family esp if they live in naija but atleast he must be willing to introduce you to few of his friends. I think us women need to smarten up when it comes to these men. I also agree with what chika said if a man really loves n wants to be with he wud excited and even tell all his friends abt u. His friends will knw abt u even before u meet them. Yea, i have been stupid too in the past but trust me something will open ur eyes n if your eyes do open pls do not ignore it. Its good to talk to ppl abt ur relationship esp if u dont understand it urself, other ppl will see what u refuse to see. Infact this is why i dont blame some women that dont put all their eggs in one basket. Lol. Life is a biatch. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 10:31pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: So very true. With experience one learns. @Ohsis Where are you getting this lists sef sebi you don dey marry. But thanks sha. . . . All these sweettalking men on my campus |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by netotse(m): 10:37pm On Feb 16, 2010 |
i'm around. . .*majestically walking to the first page to see what this thread is all abt* |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 17, 2010 |
I like how the topic is specific on the Nigerian man. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by ebonyz: 12:36am On Feb 17, 2010 |
If a man truly loves love and wants to marry, as a lady i guess u will know. The way a man treats u says alot. i broke up with my ex bf because he asked me to marry him but actually wanted to get married because he wanted his papers sorted and i almost fell for it, so even when a nigerian asked you to marry him, make sure its for the rite reasons, now i just lie to guys that ask me out that my paper isnt out yet, if he truly want me, he would stay. My friends have also found themselves in same position, these will start with questions like lets travel and ofcos your answer will determine your status. Women have to be careful nowadays. shine ur eyes wella. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by netotse(m): 12:36am On Feb 17, 2010 |
stillwater:enu e bi specific! |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:37am On Feb 17, 2010 |
ebonyz:As if things are not already complicated. God help the sisters in diaspora. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by ebonyz: 12:41am On Feb 17, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes:Are you telling me. not all marriage proposals are REAL nowadays. Only God can help us women. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:43am On Feb 17, 2010 |
netotse: Enu e bi opolo. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by netotse(m): 12:44am On Feb 17, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes:see ur mouth. . . u ppl shld just waka pass when u see naija men jo. . .shior on sisters in dia, there's a really cool article by this ghanian chick amma-somthing titled 'letter to african men in the diaspora' have u read it? |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:45am On Feb 17, 2010 |
ebonyz:My dear God is in control o!! |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:46am On Feb 17, 2010 |
netotse:I think I have read it, quite a depressing read A damn shame. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:47am On Feb 17, 2010 |
i feel sorry for women. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:50am On Feb 17, 2010 |
davidylan:You will one day have a daughter, rather than smirk about and feel superior because you are a man, try and support or help. Im sure you will not like goons doing all this to your precious daughter. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:56am On Feb 17, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: I pray to one day have 2 daughters. But by God's grace i hope to teach them well . . . they will learn that opening their legs does not buy a man's love especially one that doesnt deserve it. They will learn that sometimes having no bf is more honorable than falling into the arms of an idiot just because everyone is doing it, i will let them know that most men in their teenage yrs (including urs truly) are selfish, wicked and insensitive people out to gratify our own flesh at the expense of her own emotions. Hopefully when they are old enough, they will learn to be patient and wait for the right guy. Most of all, they will live with me till they marry! |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 12:58am On Feb 17, 2010 |
davidylan: Hahah, why? |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by netotse(m): 12:58am On Feb 17, 2010 |
davidylan:Bah. . .leave them to their pity-parties jo. . .besides if u were really sorry, u'd discharge your cooks Ebonyeyes:its by N. amma twum-baah there was also one written to the men, i didnt find it depressing. . .lol stillwater:so i now have to find a princess that'll be willing to kiss me in exchange for me asking her to marry me |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 1:00am On Feb 17, 2010 |
netotse: Will you replace them? stillwater: For protection. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by ebonyz: 1:03am On Feb 17, 2010 |
I am loving this topic. I think other women shud talk abt their experiences too. Its a real eye opener to us women. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 1:06am On Feb 17, 2010 |
netotse: A mumu princess. davidylan: Which protection? What really matters is what you have instilled in her, not the unnecessary caging. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 1:08am On Feb 17, 2010 |
@ topic I guess any man who wants to get married shouldn't waste his time with me then. |
Re: How To Know The Nigerian Man You're Dating Is Not Ready For Marriage by netotse(m): 1:08am On Feb 17, 2010 |
davidylan:sebi u were the one feeling sorry for them now. . . ebonyz:i'm tired of girls acting like it's only men that know how to play dirty. . .why on sat i was literally trying to convince a colleague(former) that is supposedly engaged that me and she doing the nasty wouldn't help her get over me. . .i'm still insulting myself for taking the high road then some ppl will now come and be taccing us about us being shady. . .ta! stillwater:player hater(can u say that in yoruba?) |
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