Blackhawk01:


You wan derail this thread abi? Makydebbie, you had better kick him out.

So, I'll be calling Lala for the first time. Lalasticlala, bia nwanna.

sunshineG:
well similar

AnthonioAlsaid:
Firstly, I'm not of the school of thought that classify someone somewhere as "bestie" if you've seen the what I've seen you'd understand why.

Secondly, Men don't gossip abeg, restructure the kind of guys you roll with abeg

Finally...as Socrates said "an unexamined life is not worth living" implying everyone should set principles and standard for themselves.....boundaries should be defined..if you're rolling as friends let it be known and stated, if you're harboring sexual motives also state it.......





Makky mi love.....How you?

Saintsammurai:
Sigh!!!!! so in a nutshell,, what you are saying is that, females should not take males as the best friends....Well I think you centered your views based on the things you hear, male friends you had and movies you watch....Going into friendship with a male pervert as a female, its a time bomb.....IT all boils down to the type of guy a female take as her bestie....what are his principles, his discipline,e.tc. Before you take that guy as your bestie,,,,think about his personality,,,IS he the perverted type, the type that flex around in night clubs, or he is thy type that is strongly disciplined, cool headed, the type that sticks to one girl, the mature type...like i said...Look before you leap..

makydebbie:
I know, but I've a point there.

Lalas247:

Lol u think say na hurt be that .. stop it jare

Hurt is when u theif person boyfriend

Caringguy:
Who dey thief boyfriend?

Someone shud come and thief me abeg

makydebbie:
But i gave some benefit of doubt when I said 10% na. But what are you saying? Guys do pretend. He can act like a pastor sef. And he can be real and would let you know.

Saintsammurai:
True,,how can a lady take a guy she is not that close with as a friend.. note: the guy here, is that guy that she can confide in...the guy ought to have been "just a friend" before turning to her male bestie.. a male bestie that she now knows his principles.. A guy that has already had his priority straight.

Lalas247:

If fact na mistake I make
Na if dem thief Money ... wahlahi

Ahhh u never see girls wey go take ur man hmmm
U never see anything .. no hubby is safe these days with side chics up n down

Saintsammurai:
Yeah,,ITS true that guys pretend a lot... But like i said, as a lady, before you take a guy as someone you can confide your personal issues with...He must first be "just a friend" before then he turns to a male bestie..Taking him as a male bestie, means you must have known his level of maturity beyond pretence, just like a brother and a sister...The mistake that most ladies make, is that they dont understand the word. "just a friend" and "bestie" so they confide in "just a friend" that dont have their best interest in their hearts..

Rukkydelta:
Lol
I only have one male friend that I'm close to physically the rest of them are just casual friends cos most times guys that get close to ladies just want something else
And I also have 3 female close friends
I don't do besties
And for the Ladies complaining about their fellow females, nobody is perfect and sorry to say you attract your kind. Guys are just more tolerant of your attitudes, they can accommodate all your flaws but your gender can't
And most ladies act more behave to male friends than their female counterparts I guess this is the major reason most girls do have clash. We should all try to treat our gender the same way will treat the opposite gender

Lalas247:

Lol u think say na hurt be that .. stop it jare

Hurt is when u theif person boyfriend

Lalas247:
I have an equal balance of male and female friends
Yes ladies can be a bit oTT but it's due to ENVY cause why hate on another it's pointless we all got Vjayjay down there but most would rather be petty those type of females u stay clear from .. friendship will always end up toxic , back stabbing n the rest


I think it's ok to have male friends or more male friends .... NL is not how the whole male race thinks
Maybe if you meet a guy on this platform yes high possibility they will Fuvk up .. high possibility they will act up (most have issues) don't blame them ...
but outside this forum and other social media .. it's easy to have long lasting male friends without having issues ... all this friend zone only a biggie on social media especially Nigerians .. no one makes a fuss about it in fact only heard of it here ..

personally a good balance of male and female friends
Take note: He will smile , laugh , comfort, play , have long convos , even tell you his secret ... Biko hold back because u can't trust a guy just like that ... not saying u can't be friends but be very sure and guarded a Real male friend never disappoints and you will always know by their actions

Kimbraa shinarlaura sexybbstar


Mynd44 are we friends

Lalas247:
I have an equal balance of male and female friends
Yes ladies can be a bit oTT but it's due to ENVY cause why hate on another it's pointless we all got Vjayjay down there but most would rather be petty those type of females u stay clear from .. friendship will always end up toxic , back stabbing n the rest


I think it's ok to have male friends or more male friends .... NL is not how the whole male race thinks
Maybe if you meet a guy on this platform yes high possibility they will Fuvk up .. high possibility they will act up (most have issues) don't blame them ...
but outside this forum and other social media .. it's easy to have long lasting male friends without having issues ... all this friend zone only a biggie on social media especially Nigerians .. no one makes a fuss about it in fact only heard of it here ..

personally a good balance of male and female friends
Take note: He will smile , laugh , comfort, play , have long convos , even tell you his secret ... Biko hold back because u can't trust a guy just like that ... not saying u can't be friends but be very sure and guarded a Real male friend never disappoints and you will always know by their actions

Kimraa shinarlara sexybbsar


Mynd44 are we friends

ucnwafor:
bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla, epistle according 2 makyebbie smh

makydebbie:
Doing well, you?

AnthonioAlsaid:



I'm awesome mummy

about to bed..goodnight sunshine

makydebbie:
Mummy
Aiit, goodnight.

AnthonioAlsaid:


abeg o don't take it the wrong way, suppose to be somewhat romantic

Au revoir'

Lalas247:
I have an equal balance of male and female friends
Yes ladies can be a bit oTT but it's due to ENVY cause why hate on another it's pointless we all got Vjayjay down there but most would rather be petty those type of females u stay clear from .. friendship will always end up toxic , back stabbing n the rest


I think it's ok to have male friends or more male friends .... NL is not how the whole male race thinks
Maybe if you meet a guy on this platform yes high possibility they will Fuvk up .. high possibility they will act up (most have issues) don't blame them ...
but outside this forum and other social media .. it's easy to have long lasting male friends without having issues ... all this friend zone only a biggie on social media especially Nigerians .. no one makes a fuss about it in fact only heard of it here ..

personally a good balance of male and female friends
Take note: He will smile , laugh , comfort, play , have long convos , even tell you his secret ... Biko hold back because u can't trust a guy just like that ... not saying u can't be friends but be very sure and guarded a Real male friend never disappoints and you will always know by their actions

Kimb.raa shinarl.aura sexybb.star


Myn.d44 are we friends

makydebbie:
LOL, sorry for the late quote. Wanna really get you.
Sometimes lol, it's not just envy. It's how they behave. We can't deny we all have our excesses. If I fight with you today because of an issue, will you just conclude it's envy? We all get our wahala.

Sorry you kinda contradicted yourself by saying we can have long lasting male friends but we shouldn't trust them. Explain biko.

kimbraa:
You just want these NL guys to come for your head. We love you too hun.

naijaboiy:

I love the way you described every guy on Nairaland as never do wells and wussies simply because the few you've met here have been disappointing to you.

We have great guys on this platform too. Roll with the right ones.