Fussbot:
Adopting the words of an earlier poster as mine, as you grow older u'l realize if you purport to have sex with every girl that comes ur way, it'll be difficult bfr u make it in life

I have a lot of female friends and maybe it's pride or smtin, asking them out is totally weird to me. First reason being that, I eventually do get on with their boyfriends. Second, I have gfs I straff anytime! I'm not pssy starved!
My female bestie knows she has to leave few minutes after my gf comes...and if it's a day I want to spend with her(bestie) I don't allow any girl to come visiting...
that's my own life

One particular female friend sleeps over anytime. She baths, dress up and wears my shorts sometimes. Over one year now, nothing has happened and cannot happen.

As a man I blf u shouldn't be controlled by mere seeing a fresh body or smtin. Self control maybe? or maybe some of us have had enough sex and see it as no biggie again.. Lol..



U are also right about the leading on and boundary part. A girl we were just getting close slept over my place the third or fourth day. I picked the wrong signal and made the move at midnight. We talked about being friends only and it's been that since then..and trust me, the things I've learned and gained through her, I wld never have gotten if it was a sexual friendship.

So OP, don't mind my epistle. My point is u can have female friends without thinking of having sex with them and all..maybe I belong to the 10% sha. Although I do tell them I don't and never will rule out anything between us. If fate wld have it I can marry any of them. They are that amazing!

And lastly, having said all that, that doesn't mean a niiiga should reject a ppssy If offered one no matter level of closeness. U know, I have my ego and reputation to protect....winks

Feeling like a don.


Na so.

shinarlaura:


My friend, my sister.

I love u

Can we mingle? I love Cameroonian babes

To me, I think it boils down to your mentality...You know what you want in a woman as a male. Except for those who are into anything under skirt, why can't you have a lady as ur bestie? What we don't seems to know is that there are some relationship that being friends is the best for them and for u to share your personal issue with the opposite sex there should be something that makes them stand out.

Sexybbstar, thanks for dropping by and commenting. I really appreciate it, you took your time to read my articles. God bless you.

makydebbie:
Sexybbstar, thanks for dropping by and commenting. I really appreciate it, you took your time to read my articles. God bless you.

Amen sis. You're really doing a great work. Keep It up.

sexybbstar:

Amen sis. You're really doing a great work. Keep It up.

Promise not to fall short of expectations dear.
Thanks for your encouragement.

YumMinaYum, hope you've been good? Been a while I heard from you. Miss you babe.

Reply this mention please.

makydebbie:
Lazy geh, goan read joor.

Hey girl, wait...did you actually write this all by yourself ?

Just seeing this Post now & the Important thing to note is you kept the reader's focus from beginning to end.

Welldone. Btw, are you literature student?

cruchenutii:


Hey girl, wait...did you actually write this all by yourself ?

Just seeing this Post now & the Important thing to note is you kept the reader's focus from beginning to end.

Welldone. Btw, are you literature student?

Lol, sure I did. Most if not all, my articles here are written by me.

Thanks dear, yes I am.

makydebbie:
Lol, sure I did. Most if not all, my articles here are written by me.

Thanks dear, yes I am.

Hi.

Is Aderola or black hawk OK?


Haven't seen her around here

boiz2men:


Hi.

Is Aderola or black hawk OK?


Haven't seen her around here

I've tried reaching her all to no avail.

makydebbie:
Lol, sure I did. Most if not all, my articles here are written by me.

Thanks dear, yes I am.

Ok. You're still in school I guess?

I think you should go & start writing on BellaNaija if you are really serious about this thing.
You can try to find her contact & write some free articles for her If possible just to show your skills. I use to have her contact before when my company was paying for Ads on her platform, not anymore. but I think she is not that hard to reach.

Also start writing personally on Medium.com. Then use it as portfolio.

One thing I don't like about literate writers is that their Articles are mostly too long & does keep the reader all through, but since you can actually perfect this. Biko use this opportunity & build a portfolio before leaving school.

makydebbie:
I've tried reaching her all to no avail.

Lalas247:
I have an equal balance of male and female friends
Yes ladies can be a bit oTT but it's due to ENVY cause why hate on another it's pointless we all got Vjayjay down there but most would rather be petty those type of females u stay clear from .. friendship will always end up toxic , back stabbing n the rest


I think it's ok to have male friends or more male friends .... NL is not how the whole male race thinks
Maybe if you meet a guy on this platform yes high possibility they will Fuvk up .. high possibility they will act up (most have issues) don't blame them ...
but outside this forum and other social media .. it's easy to have long lasting male friends without having issues ... all this friend zone only a biggie on social media especially Nigerians .. no one makes a fuss about it in fact only heard of it here ..

personally a good balance of male and female friends
Take note: He will smile , laugh , comfort, play , have long convos , even tell you his secret ... Biko hold back because u can't trust a guy just like that ... not saying u can't be friends but be very sure and guarded a Real male friend never disappoints and you will always know by their actions

Kimbraa shinarlaura sexybbstar


Mynd44 are we friends

Don’t be surprised pls most of the guys here on NL are still the ones u see in other social media. This is a faceless forum so some people just act based on that. But anyways nice points tho

men and women just cant be friends as in "close friends" without humhumhum
lets not deceive ourselves here, most girls pretend by saying; "most of my friends are men, i dont have girl friends cos i want their wahala" sharap dia!
Same goes to men, but men would rarely say most of my friends are girls! thats the difference in how women pretends way more than men.

cruchenutii:


Ok. You're still in school I guess?

I think you should go & start writing on BellaNaija if you are really serious about this thing.
You can try to find her contact & write some free articles for her If possible just to show your skills. I use to have her contact before when my company was paying for Ads on her platform, not anymore. but I think she is not that hard to reach.

Also start writing personally on Medium.com. Then use it as portfolio.

One thing I don't like about literate writers is that their Articles are mostly too long & does keep the reader all through, but since you can actually perfect this. Biko use this opportunity & build a portfolio before leaving school.

I'll resume school September this year, but I'm currently working. That takes most of my time. I'll consider this dear, now is that very busy time of my life. But before I resume school, I'll start working out something with this brilliant idea.

Thanks for your concern and encouragement dear, I really appreciate it.
You can check out more of my works via the link in my signature.

boiz2men:

I still sent her a message today and no reply yet. Calls don't go.

This Op is so on point...

makydebbie:
I still sent her a message today and no reply yet. Calls don't go.

I think she's still here and prolly lost her phone or number. She also prolly doesn't want to reconnect.

I can't believe I am missing her troubles

boiz2men:


I think she's still here and prolly lost her phone or number. She also prolly doesn't want to reconnect.

I can't believe I am missing her troubles

Last seen was may 30. I wouldn't want to conclude like that tho.
We all miss her.

Interesting..

Chrisus:


Was gonna reply you on your previous mention, but Mynd did what he knows how to do best.

Long time! How've you been?

Oh it's fine, what's up?

Yea I've been okay, trying to be sane in this chaotic mess.

makydebbie:


Oh it's fine, what's up?

I'm good, I've been good. Bet you have no idea who's talking to you with this air of familiarity

Yea I've been okay, trying to be sane in this chaotic mess.

Hehe aren't we all? It's nice to hear you've been doing okay

Chrisus:


I'm good, I've been good. Bet you have no idea who's talking to you with this air of familiarity



Hehe aren't we all? It's nice to hear you've been doing okay

Lol, what's your main?

makydebbie:


Lol, what's your main?

Was

Kisschris, it feels so awkward typing that out loll

Chrisus:


Was

Kisschris, it feels so awkward typing that out loll

Awwn lol, I actually guessed in my head lol.
How are you?

makydebbie:


Awwn lol, I actually guessed in my head lol.
How are you?

It was that easy to guess? Guess the 'Chris' was a giveaway lol

I'm chill, busy with school work and stuff, but then I'm cool. How 'bout you?

Chrisus:


It was that easy to guess? Guess the 'Chris' was a giveaway lol

I'm chill, busy with school work and stuff, but then I'm cool. How 'bout you?

Yea the Chris gave you away.

That's cool, I'm great. I'm on holidays so it's just work.

makydebbie:


Yea the Chris gave you away.

That's cool, I'm great. I'm on holidays so it's just work.

Hey! Sorry for the late reply. It's exam season here, so man's busy af

Chrisus:


Hey! Sorry for the late reply. It's exam season here, so man's busy af

Lol I understand dear, Goodluck with your papers.

makydebbie:
Lol I understand dear, Goodluck with your papers.

Thank you I'll be back