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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by folakemigeh(f): 1:39pm On Sep 14
This topic has been over flogged on this forum as if having a child is a disease.

I sure will marry a man that has a child as long as he is responsible and of a good character

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by idreezbaba(m): 1:39pm On Sep 14
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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by wintersnow(m): 1:39pm On Sep 14
YES! AND LATER USE THE CHILD FOR RITUALS!
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by kowema(f): 1:40pm On Sep 14
Yes I can marry a man with child and love the child like mine.
Don't know why we have that stigma like ones its step mum, she has to have a touch of wickedness

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Daniel058(m): 1:41pm On Sep 14
Yes
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by dust144(m): 1:41pm On Sep 14
Hey pals
I have 2girls out of wedlock the mother of the two girls took off just like that though her parent wish but I met these lady who I told the truth and now we are married with her own child, the first now call her mum and living with us. I am a testimony.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by dust144(m): 1:41pm On Sep 14
wintersnow:
YES! AND LATER USE THE CHILD FOR RITUALS!
chai
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by muller101(m): 1:42pm On Sep 14
I won't even get married . Let alone getting married to a used product? Am I mad?

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by DkJay: 1:42pm On Sep 14
Hell yeah.

You don't know the specials gifts the child comes with.

Being a part of the upbringing of a child is a privilege many don't get to have.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by malikombi(m): 1:43pm On Sep 14
Having a child is not a disease.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by ofuonyebi: 1:43pm On Sep 14
If you are a believer, it is Depending on what GOD has for your destiny

GOD commanded Jeremiah to marry a harlot...what about that?

And if you are and Aristo or playboy, it depends on what is your choice!

Nothing is bad in marring a lady who had a step child for you!

The thing you see as a stigma can turn to glory tomorrow!!

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by MakCoby(m): 1:44pm On Sep 14
No not at all.. i like my woman brand new biko
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by olayinkajnr(m): 1:44pm On Sep 14
Havinga child while been single is not a disease. So, CAPITAL YES!!!
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Jaytecq(m): 1:44pm On Sep 14
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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Phemopumpin(m): 1:44pm On Sep 14
No. I can't
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Not0fThis: 1:45pm On Sep 14
I wouldn't want to, no.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by akakc47: 1:45pm On Sep 14
Yes i can,depending on the circumstance that let to it
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by hartson(m): 1:48pm On Sep 14
Things are easier say than done.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Celestyn8213: 1:48pm On Sep 14
Is there anything wrong with it
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by walera10(m): 1:48pm On Sep 14
Cant biliv most guys hear prefer ladies who went for abortion dan dos dat summoned d courage to face d consequence of dier action. A big yes for me..

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by TheWalkingMind: 1:50pm On Sep 14
​​The best help you can have as a man is the one you give yourself. Advice may be given as do counsel yet the choice remains yours to make. Ultimately everything, whether you like it or not still boils than to ​​you and you alone

TheWalkingMind, 2017
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Rinlayeopeyemi: 1:50pm On Sep 14
Nothing bad on that .................... wink smiley grin
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by abdulhamid0(m): 1:51pm On Sep 14
I would rather marry a lady with child than marry a lady who had abortion.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by LordKO(m): 1:51pm On Sep 14
Since the difference between an unmarried person with a child and an unmarried person who's sexually active but without a child is that while the former intentionally or unintentionally has a result for his/her intercourse act(s) the latter intentionally or carefully avoided having a result of his/her own intercourse act(s), then, I don't see anything that will inhibit me from marrying a lady in this kind of condition - so long as she tickle my fancy in many other areas.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by 50shadesofme: 1:51pm On Sep 14
Having a child don't make anyone less of a person weather you are male or female you just become a parent
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by praiseneofingz(m): 1:51pm On Sep 14
igba ti mi o shiayray??
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by bluetrails7: 1:52pm On Sep 14
VeeBuzzer:


You should understand no one is perfect, so if you begin searching for good and bad, you will stay single forever cos no one can be perfect enough for us. It just boils down to tolerance and compromise. What can you not tolerate and what can you tolerate because you love someone? When you know your limits, then you will know if you can go that extra mile with the person.


May your wisdom continue to grow, what deep yet easily expressed views


I like this part, It just boils down to tolerance and compromise ", the two pillars of sustainable and long term relationships, tolerance and compromise...
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by ipobarecriminals: 1:52pm On Sep 14
some of 5hose single moda are winch..Some are nice and caring
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Dbisector(m): 1:54pm On Sep 14
bobolizim:
It's been long we've checked on each other so I saw her online on Facebook one day and we shared eachother's contact . On checking her dp on whatsapp, I saw her carry a child and I inquired from her whether she's a child and her answer to me was yes, she does .

Well, I'd considered asking her out before this occurrence but this answer of hers put me off totally . Anyways, we ended up meeting and during the course of our discussion , I probed again ; at first I wasn't sure of her answer , I was clearly obfuscated but at the end she eventually demystified my mystry . She's not with any child but then she asked me whether I could marry a lady with a child or not ? Which I hurriedly said no .

She began to tell me reasons there's nothing bad in doing that using a story of a lady who was raped by a guy she'd never fallen in love with. It's not like she didn't have the person she's dating , it just occurred that she's forced and all. Well, she made it known to her boyfriend, her predicament;hmm, it's a cliche that ''love is blind'',her boyfriend who is madly in love promised to care of her and the baby when delivered of.

Well, i have empathy for such a person but my answer is still no. It's not like I'm selfish but I'd not train a child that'd eventually become someone else amongst ample reason.

Hence, I'd like to know whether you can marry a lady or guy with a child ?
of course YES...I can even marry the one that abort one...if plain to me when in relationship
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Jaytecq(m): 1:54pm On Sep 14
wintersnow:
YES! AND LATER USE THE CHILD FOR RITUALS!

funny soul....
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by attention007(m): 1:55pm On Sep 14
Yes Yes Yes and more YES!! Why not? they are human like every other babes... it will not discourage me. Have dated one before but it ended in a wrong direction but if the girl I later want to settle down with is with a baby... why not.

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