TheKingIsHere:


You are the one jumping into conclusions. I listed the scenarios of what happens and the general conclusions most people have.. You can see how you have shot yourself in the foot again.

inkdbetty:


I Feel Sorry For The Man Too, He Also Becomes A Second Hand Man If They Divorce(Which Something Tells Me They Will After That Whole Episode)

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

dicefrost:


I totally disagree with you. If there is no justification for a man hitting a woman, then there is no justification for a woman to verbally abuse a man. If he continues to walk away from the insult, it ll only be eating him up inside. I find it offensive that you tactfully excused the woman's madness and blame the man for not walking away. You are in effect saying that men should continuously endure domestic abuse because they are physically stronger? You think that a woman's words do not do emotional harm? Is it just the man who should be understanding and reasonable? Should the woman not learn to respect her head?

nikkyshyne:
LMAO

Stoicbaba:
Prov 21:23 - Those who guard their mouth and their tongues, keeps themselves from calamity.

James 3:5-8 ; emphasis on vs 8 - ...but no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full with deadly poison

Proverbs 15:4 “A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit."

Please, in as much as you expect me to walk away after you "kill me slowly" with your words. ..just quietly work away if you feel annoyed by my actions...so that you will not bring calamity to yourself.

Afterall, what a man can do...a woman can do better.

Besides, we are in a world where men and women are equal...so, I am not in any way stronger than you...

Thanks for your understanding...

#stoicopinion

pocohantas:


Why then do you guys think only women are verbally abusive?
I can also write my own story of a verbally abusive man and who was given hot bathe by a wicked wife. I'm sure you all won't support me like this. It'll be women are wicked all through.

Point is, no excuse to hurt your spouse.
Men get their own for body.
Women get their own too.
Dassal.

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

JONNYSPUTE:
Abeg make una forgive Evaberry. She is sorry for making such comment

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

jumzzy448:


I'm a sis

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

pocohantas:


It's tiring o. Because I don't know how anyone will see sense in inflicting injury on another. Except in self-defence, I don't see myself engaging in a fight.

OP is telling us a story of a woman who ended up with broken teeth, we know of so many who ended up 6feet below. Abeg, let's be careful what we preach.

Hedonistically:


This is the most foolish comment in the history of commenthood.

humeeh:
Haaaaa,moi alien pop,don't kee somborry oo

lozanni:


Sexual frustration has really set in for the woman. This might really be what is causing her anger, as the husband is not satisfying her sexually, she lost total control and went on an uncontrollable rant and was abusing her husband. I wonder if she is experiencing a hormonal imbalance, estrogen, somewhat like the hen that chases away another hen that is lying on top of eggs it had laid, just to claim it.
The woman should have sat with her husband to discuss the above issue, as things like fruits (carrots, bananas, date palm, plaintain), good excersise(jogging, skipping, lifting little weights), good pre-intimacy and sexual technique can help him overcome the problem of weak sexual performance.
The above is true for most couples as they, always fail to discuss their sex lives, which is very important.

majekdom2:
There are always 2 sides to a story but what I found out is most women that are victim of domestic violence are usually the cause... For instance, If you know your husband is a mad man, why exchange words with him. If you know the next thing he does is to hit you, keep quiet when he is talking, tell him sorry. You don't have to argue with him or insult him... for peace sake.
The above is for a mad man, only a jobless man can turn to a mad man. A man looking to breakthrough or make money or fly high can't be referred to a mad man because he is occupied by so many things but the thing is there are some women that can't just live in peace. They can't be taught, they don't listen, they don't learn from mistakes. They are never progressive thus argument will always breed and they will in most instances hit a woman. Men and young guys, please run away from any woman that can't be taught, corrected, never listens or learns from her mistakes. Such women are usually a big hinderance to one's success. No matter how high and placed you seem to be, they will bring you down to a level you won't believe. This is because, they have a bad spirit that's not progressive. Run from these kind of women no matter how beautiful they seem to be. I call women spirit, they either break or make a man. Check stories in the bible, they are there. When the bible says he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing know what it's saying. Not all women are good for a wife. Not all women are to be called wife. My experience with my mother, sisters, GFS have taught me loads about women. Any woman that cannot stay humble and maintain peace with a man is a doom to whoever she calls a husband.

eyinjuege:


Physical violence usually doesn't end with a damage to the body. It equally damages the soul.
Do you think the real victims of domestic violence only suffered a burst kidney, a broken tooth or head?
They are equally damaged emotionally. Physical violence doesn't just coexist on its own. It's usually accompanied by emotional damage to the soul.
But you still cannot rate both as same. Even by law. The law isn't concerned if you're insulted and called names. If you can't take such shit, then walk away forever and say never again. But she's very much concerned about having mad people roaming about using their fists and weapons to damage others when such fists could have come in handy in Sambisa.
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt/ break me"
The average life expectancy of Nigerians is barely above 50. Why would anyone play God, by cutting it shorter?

Veraatabeh:
nice writeup

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

[b]Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. [/b]when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

HaneefahRN:
Didn't read the story.
I know it will be a stupid excuse to justify domestic violence.

jumzzy448:


I'm a sis

Evaberry:
very few men are victims of domestic violence. Women always bear the brunt of a man's anger


No matter what a woman says or does, a man should never hit her, a man is physically stronger than a woman so hitting her will inflict serious physical damage, whereas a woman may not cause any real harm to a man.

Op the husband in your write Up should have quietly left the compound and go relax somewhere until he was sure his wife had calmed down. when a woman is angry she throws all reason and caution to the wind, it therefore falls on the man to be understanding and reasonable


Engaging in a fisticuffs with a woman is wrong and should be condemned.

luminouz:

Awwww...honeychile....don't worry....I don calm down...how u doing cuteface

OlujobaSamuel:
an incident happened in our area, the woman was beating the husband in the midnight and was shouting, my bro heard from his room and went to inform my parents in their apartment, when they got there, they saw wife in short knicker crying on top husband and beating the husband, they stopped the fight when they see sey people don wake up, as they were trying to plead with them to let go, the child was saying help me beg my mum to stop beating my dad, the dad told the child to shut up, sey if he talk again, he go beat am. anytime the husband dey pass him reach, wife go talk sey you wan start again abi, na night for me and you, the husband no go make sound again.
na later i hear sey the wife na meat seller for market.

luminouz:
Oya PM me sharpaly Jumia baby!!!

boiz2men:
How do you not know during courtship that your girl nags. I lost interest in a pretty girl after we had several discussions/argument and each time she wanted to be right without facts