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Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 2:58pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:You are entitled to your desire-yes. But no to bug anyone with it if they deem it unwanted. Can't believe I have to start teaching you how to approach chicks. In this society at any rate. You certainly shouldn't start with "I want to woo you", geez! Again, wonder why we are at the bottom of indices of societies where people want to live? It may be the reality in Nigeria but like everything else in that country, a broken one. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 3:07pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
shaybebaby: In all fairness, i dont even want to learn how too woo black britons,let me stick with the white ones. I am a vey friendly and sociable person but when it comes to drama which many black ladies in U.K are known for,biko i no get the strength. Many guys say this but i thought they were just making things up.. Apparently i cant start telling a lady i want to woo her but amazingly these friendly white chics have no formula,very simple,friendly direct and simple minded. Yes i am single and wont mind getting married for real but im not just down with drama. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 3:09pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:Well goodluck with your white brits. We'll see how far the nigerian mentality gets you. Don't forget to invite me to the wedding, I do love party rice. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 3:12pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008: Been reading your comments. It's drama with many of the black ladies. Been friends with over 20 white ladies, they're so straight forward and pretty easy to relate with, dating or friendships. Perhaps black ladies like drama, and for some of us that aren't dramatic, we may come off as plain, petty and too lax. So, bro, do your thang, find one that suits you, and avoid ladies with drama ! |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Yewandequeen(f): 3:14pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
YelloweWest:I understand your point but thank God you were /are able to sort your marital issue. All is well. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 3:15pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Im not even talking about getting married but at least a lady should be friendly..it has nothing to do with naija mentality but more so with that of the blacks in a country where the natives are even friendlier than immigrants. I am not a fan of my woman must cook,must take care of the house,must tend to the baby and so on but as a very friendly person i have -10 tolerance for unfriendliness. There is great prospect in having friends and as i wrote, except these blacks(not all though) are really shielding themselves against being vulnerable to men then i see no reason why they are so unfriendly. I dont mind any color but most guys my age dont have time for drama and infact i run far far away from it. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 3:20pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:Like I said, the fault lies with you menfolk. I have a friend (black gal) who had a thing for nigerian guys... Until she dated one. Now she wants nothing more to do with my fellow country men. I could only laugh. If you are new here, watch the conduct of your peers. There lies your answer to why them girls are unfriendly. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 3:21pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008: We keep telling them this : most guys my age dont have time for drama and infact i run far far away from it. Drama just ticks me off, no time for that shyte |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 3:21pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
YelloweWest: I would advice you read the article again without allowing your emotions run wild. Ladies have a way of being emotional about things. All i wrote up there is IF he cheats. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by makydebbie(f): 3:28pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Laveda:Go through the thread before quoting. She should be independent, she won't be be able to take any bullshit he throws at her. Many women endure because they've nothing for them. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
solasoulmusic:hi friend Hope it come to pass |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by makydebbie(f): 3:30pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Blackfyre:No, it won't be fair if you're abused for nothing except you threw the first stone or your post was to insult the person. No need for swear words, I was surprised someone said it was you and you didn't debunk it. It's all good, okay? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Daeylar(f): 3:45pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Izz not a small thing, no be small Martina, LMAO But the shade in that her 4th dream though. I'm in tears 1 Like |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by YelloweWest: 3:45pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:Oh Pls! Spear me the emotional cha cha. If i told you to be a loving husband while your wife cheats your passion would run high too. Infidelity hurts both ways. If the motives for your posts is life long loving and happy marriages, you would advise both parties appropriately and not spew such misogyny. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 3:47pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Daeylar:I'm loving the girls here, most of them anyways. Zero chills. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Daeylar(f): 3:52pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Blackfyre: They have started their bs accusations again and they want to accuse you without proof as usual. Just to paint people with false accusations, it's very annoying, Nonsense and trash, Foolishness I'm here for you How are you doing today? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Daeylar(f): 3:55pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
shaybebaby: No fycks given , they have been dragging toks without mercy all well deserved. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 3:58pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Daeylar:The Toks guy be like Teflon though. Trying to reason with him is like banging your head against a brickwall. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 4:20pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
makydebbie: Well, it will take a great deal of provocation before I use an abusive word on anyone and so far, I have never done so on those I care or cared about. The one time I did it to my cousin when I was much younger I got a swift slap to the face. I think he edited it out, yeah ordinary words mean nothing these days though I find such swear words crass but I hope the dude saw your post. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 4:23pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Daeylar: I am not even moved, enjoyed the fact he poured his heart out so I know where to begin with him when I have his time. My day is good, thanks. How is yours? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 4:32pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius: I now avoid them like kilode. As if they are immune to heartbreak regardless of their drama. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Daeylar(f): 4:33pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Blackfyre: Nice, don't mind them, if you want to accuse someone, do so with irrefutable proof else your accusation is trash and you should shut the fuçk, but they don't know nor care, just looking for how to bully people My day is good, thanks. How is yours? Going fine, hope you're good? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 4:34pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008: |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 4:34pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Expecially when you try to compare the western life with naija life... In Nigeria,if a lady truly wants a peaceful marriage then let her follow those points . |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 4:36pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Daeylar: Like fish in water, you? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 4:37pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008: What is marriage without peace? That's the ultimate ! |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 4:38pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
shaybebaby: She dated just one and she concluded. How unrealistic. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Daeylar(f): 4:40pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Blackfyre: Lol, I'm good |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 4:42pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:I'd say smart. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice.. Although there is a fine intelligent brother on here that I have sussed out and know they'd be perfect for each other but alas! That useless one she followed has ruined things that she doesn't want o know. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by makydebbie(f): 4:44pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Blackfyre:Well, I'm always tempted. Especially on NL where you see people bully and annoy on purpose. I'm actually the last child so I no fit insult make dem beat the madness in my body. Well, he would. He follows me. Sorry about it. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 4:47pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 4:47pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
shaybebaby: You wouldn't know ! Why not make the connection first my lady and let things flow ! Damn it, relationship is an ass, getting a Japanese Dolly |
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