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Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 11:29am On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius: @emboldened, you said it all. Many of them need to go work on themselves even before they start kissing not to talk of opening legs. This concerns both men and women. Not the stupid modern ideology being bandied around nowadays. Else they shall continue to remain empty and be filled with disappointments than fulfillment. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 11:31am On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius:Oh never mind. Don't have the strength this morning. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by XYZo: 11:32am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Baba I gbadun this one o Our ladies don't actually know that we men don't waste time in knowing what we want. I tell u. When a man toasts a woman, he already knows, if this is what he wants for marriage or play play. But our women can so pike courtship ehn... As for me, it doesn't take me a week to decipher a lady through and through. Once I approach a lady for a date, it simply means I want to end up with her because I don't date ladies I can't end up with. That's why for about 10 years. I didn't date any lady but I was only pumping valves with no deceit. I think the earlier our guys understand that u can pump so many valves without dating any lady, the better it will be for the ladies And for our ladies, they need to use their head like u have rightly said and not use their emotions Ladies Nowadays should stick with a guy that wants them and cherish them so much and not that guy with broad chest, thick arms, black and very tall that will hit them with those arms at the slightest provocation. Real ladies now understands that it ain't all about fine boy or very rich... It's about his attitude to u, about his sincerity and they need to understand this No matter how much a man loves u. Don't want mean he can't eye another lady, he will respect u do much but give him his space , don't choke him up and see how much he will regard u. Don't be too snoopy, looking for xzibits on his phone. Just free ur guy and love him, watch him love u in return. Research has shown that the percentage of divorce in first marriage is 50% , second marriage is 65+% , third marriage is over 80% . So why not calm down and make yourself happy but be wise But the part I disagree with you is, when a man becomes violent to his wife, my bro, I'm not saying divorce him o, but leave that environment for your dare life. If you have been a good woman to him. Trust me he will come pleading n begging. No, don't just accept yet, let him moil and toil a bit, to get u back to the house, and mind u. At the first attempt he tries that to u. Take it up against him, if he tries it and u don't react like this, he might increase the tempo some other time. No matter what, a man should never hit u. But stay on ur lane too, by not running your mouth insulting him as u like. Men hate that. Even if he is wrong , men love respect from their wives. Toks2008: |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 11:32am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Blackfyre: Tushe ! We all need to work on ourselves continually. There's need for lots of talks before kissing, as for me, no kissing until detailed heart-to-heart discussion is held on so many life issues ! Damn it, if only folks could read your comment ! |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 11:33am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Joy1706:I know, love the way you cut through the bs |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 11:33am On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius:And men should take the bad ones amongst them to task. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 11:34am On Nov 13, 2017 |
XYZo: @ No matter how much a man loves u. Don't want mean he can't eye another lady, he will respect u do much but give him his space , don't choke him up and see how much he will regard u. Don't be too snoopy, looking for xzibits on his phone. Just free ur guy and love him, watch him love u in return. Research has shown that the percentage of divorce in first marriage is 50% , second marriage is 65+% , third marriage is over 80% . So why not calm down and make yourself happy but be wise What have i been saying all day! Thanks for lending a voice. A violent man is a fool ! |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 11:36am On Nov 13, 2017 |
shaybebaby: Take the bad men to the task? Are we jobless? My mum taught me day in day out for over 15 years.Want good men, how about we train up good sons? Why should it be a man's responsibility to engage his mate? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by XYZo: 11:42am On Nov 13, 2017 |
are right we should. But let me tell u the truth, u women can't cope with cheating, especially, if it's never in your blood. U can't cope with cheating without using your emotions, meanwhile Men can sleep with hundreds of women without loving it even liking a single 1 . Now who's free at the end. Ur attention and love is divided to all the men you are cheating with on ur husband. Your children will suffer the emotional imbalance as well. U can't cope with it, trust me. Benita27: |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 13, 2017 |
My fellow Nairalanders I have a dream That one day I will log on to Nairaland and men will no longer defend their cheating lifestyles but inspire their sons to stay faithful. That women will no longer be punching bags for men who lack the maturity to carry out heated conversations That love will truly bare all but not be so selfish as not to regard the downsides of cheating. That men above 40 will settle down amicably and appreciate the women who stood by them asking them for nothing but respect. O I have a dream 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 11:55am On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius: Gbam! Me no dey waste time on such things. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by XYZo: 12:01pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: And poison ur next husband as well, till the chain continues |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
solasoulmusic: Funny how this your dream entails just the men. Remember to also dream that those heated conversations will not carry verbal insults too. It's rare to come across women who have such traits. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by makydebbie(f): 12:10pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Blackfyre:Most times, you guys trigger it. Are you the op of that yesterday thread? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by makydebbie(f): 12:14pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Benita27:I can't believe that's someone's reason for cheating. So people still have this sordid mentality? Then the cycle continues, they teach our sons to cheat and disrespect women. That's why I keep telling ladies to become independent. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 12:16pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
makydebbie: So even if I did not insult you,but point somethings out to you without being insulting, it then means I should be verbally abused? Since you claim they triggered it, can the men also claim them whopping their ass was triggered by the abuse ba? May I die a leper if I was the one behind that moniker. I am hoping that insecure fool won't falsely accuse me without proof next time. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Laveda(f): 12:22pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
makydebbie: Will being independent stop men from cheating? You'd still need these men. All we should be saying is women should know where to draw the line when they find out their man is a cheat. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 12:24pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
XYZo:I won't need a next husband. widows hardly see the need to remarry 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by XYZo: 12:41pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: Oh good then |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 12:47pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
XYZo: The truth is that domestic violence is the new excuse in town but then it can be curbed in a timely manner which was why i mentioned about reporting him or her(Some ladies are tigress)to the authorities and h/she must calm down rather than absorb the poo until you lose your life. As for me i dont regard myself as a divorcee because i was not really completely married lol! |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by shaybebaby(f): 12:50pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
solasoulmusic:Martina Luther King. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by YelloweWest: 12:53pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Yewandequeen:My dear I've been married a long time. I've been through ups and downs with my husband. The only thing that kept us going is the commitment of TWO PEOPLE who resolved that no matter what we will remain together. TWO PEOPLE not just one. If the intention of the op was to make married people stay married he would address both parties... That's not his intention! He's a misogynist. Every post of his puts women down in one way or another. If this his idea of been married is true I'd advise all lady including my daughters to remain single, theres a certain quality of life that should not be lowered for any reason. Cos its just misrable his depiction. But I know better! Thank God! I have a great marriage. It's a beautiful amazing thing. My husband will come before my kids any day. That's how confident I am in marriage. So my dear in essence what I'm saying is toks has ill motives towards women. The guy needs help. I'm very sure he has some underling issues with a female figure in his life growing up that seriously needs to be addressed. Lastly let me say this. I thank God for education! Watch as most women and even men who aspire to be good husband's disagree with toks. WE KNOW BETTER NOW. 5 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Mrnairalandd: 12:53pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008: If everybody abandoned their cheating partners for their children, what happen next? If your write up is all about building marriage, then, it ll be ok to advise couples to work things out than asking the other one to abandon the other. It usually backfire at old age for women who focused on their children at the expense of their father. Women enjoy the rest of their lives more when they are with their husbands whom they build relationships with. The advice should be if your husband is cheating, put him prayers and ensure you are putting your best. One day, he ll get tired of that life and return to his wife. It amazes me how closed minded people don’t ask mothers to abandon their children who go astray but ll easily advise a woman to abandon the father of her childen and her husband. This advice has destroyed a lot homes. If your husbands go astray, trust me, the world out there ll send him back to you when he realise that God has blessed him with a gift as a wife. A man ll only refused to return home if the wife is a trouble maker. |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by YelloweWest: 12:55pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
teemy:Ok pls when it wife acts up remember to be an abode of peace o Let's be honest and realistic. If u want a marriage to work advise both parties to behave! Not keeping a blind eye to the man's action and then giving advise on what the woman's reaction should or should not be. This is not a child and parent relationship. Both parties in a marriage are adults and should be able to predict the consequences of their actions! 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 1:01pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
LOL! but why do ladies hate the 6th point cos it has the least likes.. lol!...
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Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by tosyne2much(m): 1:02pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Nice one egbon Toks |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 1:03pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Na wa, too much intelligence, this generation sha ! The gender-biased language. But people are quick to carry the hatchet sha ! Back in the days, whenever it comes to counseling on marriages, they say, woo, omo binrin, meaning woman. In nurturing the home, there was a general perception that steering of the ship has a lot to do with the unofficial captain of daily running of the home ( the woman ). Thus, whey the article may contain languages that pitches one gender against the other. It contains nuggets of truth. Rule, do not hastily use a microscopic view to look for "ish ", rather when we read, we should look out for the truth, and we will be fine. oP, listen to the ladies, use more of " couples ", but who knows without the controversy in your writing style, would this thread have garnered much views? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 1:06pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Aburo to sure ju..bawoni? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by tosyne2much(m): 1:07pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Toks2008:Mo gentle egbon mi... How Yankee how? |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Nobody: 1:09pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Joy1706:Yea, we really do. A gal will just be enjoying her singlehood with all happiness, before you know it, one man will now come and carry you to alter, and beg you to be shagging only his dyck, and he will also promise to be shagging only you oo. All this promises are before People and God ooo. Tomorrow he will break his promise and expect you to keep yours. Is it not selfishness of the highest order? Incase if they dont know.., the same way men feels tired of one punny and want to explore.., is the same way ladies feel tired of one dyck and wants to explore too. Nobody has the monopoly of cheating. period..!! We are all humans and the men should not forget that. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Toks2008(m): 1:10pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
KreativGenius: I have threads on that but trust them..when they read that one they will not comment but just smile to themselves but when they read the hard ones,they will start forming e-tigress and i so much enjoy their reaction..I have told them that if i woo them they should run but that wont stop me from helping their ministry by dishing out home made truth... |
Re: 10 Realistic steps a lady should follow if she truly desires marital peace(Pics) by Akuneshiobike(m): 1:13pm On Nov 13, 2017 |
Will they hear? They re one hell of a fish brain. |
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