YelloweWest:

Ok pls when it wife acts up remember to be an abode of peace o
Let's be honest and realistic. If u want a marriage to work advise both parties to behave!
Not keeping a blind eye to the man's action and then giving advise on what the woman's reaction should or should not be.
This is not a child and parent relationship. Both parties in a marriage are adults and should be able to predict the consequences of their actions!

winnar:
Yea, we really do.

A gal will just be enjoying her singlehood with all happiness, before you know it, one man will now come and carry you to alter, and beg you to be shagging only his dyck, and he will also promise to be shagging only you oo. All this promises are before People and God ooo.

Tomorrow he will break his promise and expect you to keep yours. Is it not selfishness of the highest order?

Incase if they dont know.., the same way men feels tired of one punny and want to explore.., is the same way ladies feel tired of one dyck and wants to explore too.

Nobody has the monopoly of cheating. period..!!

We are all humans and the men should not forget that.

Toks2008:


I have threads on that but trust them..when they read that one they will not comment but just smile to themselves but when they read the hard ones,they will start forming e-tigress and i so much enjoy their reaction..I have told them that if i woo them they should run but that wont stop me from helping their ministry by dishing out home made truth...

KreativGenius:



Funny enough,if ladiesapply these truths, their marriages would wax stronger, than look for reasons to bail on any excuse, i call it the " bail-mindset". Ask any woman that stayed in marriage long enough, they'll give you a thumbs up for this glorious piece. If thie thesis now holds for so many women that stayed in marriages and later enjoyed, when then the heavy protest against it. Alas, while enduring many women also ended up in grave too. So bro, please can you be a bit stronger on guys too in upcoming posts? Please. Mehn need to stop turning marriages into cemetries. We have enough marriage-induced death in Nigerian marriages !

Toks2008:



lolz! as for that last part you are so right but too bad its not that easy you know,ladies have very strong sexual dignity and sometimes when some ladies say they will retaliate i always ask them how?

So because your husband cheats on you,nah to go call your ex or a total stranger abi male friend to shagg you too? how you wan take talk am sef?so after being tossed like tissue paper and shagged like a slut what next? will that stop your hubby from enjoying more from the side dish? What if the man is really setting you up to retaliate so that he can have a real good reason to break up with you.

I just laugh at the "if my husband cheat i will cheat too: crew..how naive

Toks2008:


My brother,this is the most realistic thread i have ever written on marital issues and GOD bless lalasticlala for beaming it.

What do these nairaland teenage ladies know? they think marriage is about feelings..its a conscious decision and you must meticulously make it work out else you will just be tosed from one man to another like a product made for sampling.

As i wrote, let them curse,rant and wail for now,no wahala,time will come and some of them will relate with this piece. I have nothing to say to guys than to for them love GOD and be filled with the holy spirit because only a man with the spirit of GOD can make a good husband.

Toks2008:


My brother,this is the most realistic thread i have ever written on marital issues and GOD bless lalasticlala for beaming it.

What do these nairaland teenage ladies know? they think marriage is about feelings..its a conscious decision and you must meticulously make it work out else you will just be tosed from one man to another like a product made for sampling.

As i wrote, let them curse,rant and wail for now,no wahala,time will come and some of them will relate with this piece. I have nothing to say to guys than to for them love GOD and be filled with the holy spirit because only a man with the spirit of GOD can make a good husband.

winnar:
Toks, a man that decide to cheat in the first place, should know that his marriage is already doomed.

All i am saying is..., Respect your vow. Dont do to your wife what you wont like her to do to you.

Am i asking for too much?

winnar:
Toks, a man that decide to cheat in the first place, should know that his marriage is already doomed.

All i am saying is..., Respect your vow. Dont do to your wife what you wont like her to do to you.

Am i asking for too much?

Blackfyre:


Funny how this your dream entails just the men. Remember to also dream that those heated conversations will not carry verbal insults too. It's rare to come across women who have such traits.

Proudgorgeousga:


according to mysoginistic toks2008 you are asking too much.

Toks2008:


Use any grammer you like ..both the one you understand the one wey you no understand your wahala.

Proudgorgeousga:


it is exactly what you are agbaya

Proudgorgeousga:


it is exactly what you are agbaya

shaybebaby:

Agbaya ti ko danu(someone help me with the translation)

tosyne2much:
Mo gentle egbon mi... How Yankee how?

Toks2008:


I young pass the oyinbo guy beside you...no try me o.. nah naija be that?

Toks2008:


Well nah iya charlo country i dey,yankee dey with trump. I dey my brother.

shaybebaby:

If you are then you must have lived a hard life of suffering.

shaybebaby:

So you are here. Don't let me meet you then, I'll put you on blast.

Toks2008:


Do i even look my age? I look far younger because i dont sleep around..very sexually decent.

Toks2008:


Oh you dey U.K? i dey lewisham but i hope you are not like all these black girls wey too dey do like sey...

shaybebaby:


I don't know them type girls.. Black or white.

Now I see why you reason the way you do. You need to move out of Lewisham.

Toks2008:


Wettin do lewisham? I mean white girs are usually more friendly than the blacks and i wonder why...

shaybebaby:


I don't know them type girls.. Black or white.

Now I see why you reason the way you do. You need to move out of Lewisham.

ibkayee:

shaybebaby:

I'm relieved he said that. It's funny how a simple statement paints a clearer picture.

shaybebaby:

Because the society is more open-minded. Tell me why a black girl will be friendly when she is constantly being exposed to the sort of mindset that prompted your write-up?

I am friendly but I'd be mean to you too if I discovered this thought process.

Toks2008:


If you like be mean,the point remains that my write-ups are based on realities and not even my belief or ways of life. I have decided to look away from black ladies here because of their unfriendly nature..not all though but almost all of them.i just hate drama..

If i get close to you and i express my desire for you abeg what have i done wrongly? is it not my fundamental human right to approach any lady of 18years and above for romance/ so why the drama? i wont push it of you say no..i will just move ahead and maintain friendship with her. Sometimes i think they are scared because they are kinda vulnerable so they try to put a defensive act of unfriendliness.

MrPresident1:
God will soon come and there will be no more need for threads like this

shaybebaby:

I don't know, if it is unwelcome then it is harassment.

As to your write-up, it's not the reality I observe. Hence why I said you need to move.