Rakhadani:

Maybe i've nothing to say about this question since it focuses on Nigerian gals.
But girls in general offer almost everything a guy might require. They contribute to the relationship with everything that they have - money included.
In case they don't have money, a pure and loving heart, accompanied by romance, comfort, trust and love itself are sufficient. And I think that's what girls offer. Didnt mean to take sides

thank u rakhadani, not forgetting commitment(wholeheartedly) & sacrifices, gosh i cant even begin to elaborate on that even when the guy treats them like sh**t, & for all those who assume that all naija girls bring to the table is just their pu*SY

yjay no need to be angry ok

candylips:

yjay no need to be angry ok

k! shame that lots of guys think thats all they offer

Rakhadani:

Maybe i've nothing to say about this question since it focuses on Nigerian gals.
But girls in general offer almost everything a guy might require. They contribute to the relationship with everything that they have - money included.
In case they don't have money, a pure and loving heart, accompanied by romance, comfort, trust and love itself are sufficient. And I think that's what girls offer. Didnt mean to take sides

I don't need her money, and I normally contribute multiple more of it than she contributes.

A pure and loving heart is both ways.

Romance? What is that? It does not carry much beans with me. My impression is that men are (I am) the giver of this, not the receiver. And I am comforatble with that, I could not care less if it was offered to me. Let me watch a documentary/football match is the most romantic gesture I could care for.

Comfort, I can make myself very comfortable if she is taken out of the equation. I am comfortable before she came and probably would have even been more comfortable as there would be no moaning or nagging. And if she repudiates female responsibilities, then on balance, I am giving more comfort that she is giving.

Trust and love is both ways.

So tell me again, what she brings to the table that is of value to me and balances my efforts. All you just did is just mention all the things women get equally from or even more than a man gets from a relationship.

oh for crying out loud

yjay:


thank u rakhadani, not forgetting commitment(wholeheartedly) & sacrifices, gosh i cant even begin to elaborate on that even when the guy treats them like sh**t, & for all those who assume that all naija girls bring to the table is just their pu*SY

There's a duality to the idiosyncracies you listed, so it's not like the woman is the only individual of the couple capable of offering what you listed. And when a guy treats you like shit and you stand on the receiving end accepting it like a doof, you have yourself to blame for it.

H2O2:

There's a duality to the idiosyncracies you listed, so it's not like the woman is the only individual of the couple capable of offering what you listed. And when a guy treats you like poo and you stand on the receiving end accepting it like a doof, you have yourself to blame for it.

just like the ladies need to ask what the naija guys offer in relationships, so that way they both know wat is expected from each other in the relationship

yjay:

just like the ladies need to ask what the naija guys offer in relationships, so that way they both know wat is expected from each other in the relationship

ure here this early morning

come give me ma morning dosage ( tea and some luvin)

tkb417:

ure here this early morning

come give me ma morning dosage ( tea and some luvin)

of course dear, wld u also like a back rub?

yjay:

of course dear, wld u also like a back rub?

back rub? No thanks

i see ure still pissed cos of the way i left early this morning,,,comm'n u really shldnt be like this , why dont u & i giving her most seductive look go someplace & talk things over, dont want peeps up in our business k

hmm, tempting
oya come to the inner chamber

yes mi lord

tkb417:

hmm, tempting
oya come to the inner chamber

[size=3pt]Quietly stay put under the bed in the inner chamber[/size]

U ask the question and u have already answered it. U are missing the point, its free for all why should she care that he might be a maga to another woman

yjay:

i see ure still pissed cos of the way i left early this morning,,,comm'n u really shldnt be like this , why dont u & i giving her most seductive look go someplace & talk things over, dont want peeps up in our business k

hmm

hmmmmmmmmmmm,so many talk about the niger girl,lets face it in life home abroed or where ever, as a person ,i believe ur kind of person attract same kind of persons , out there. so to mr or master johnwotever u are still meeting ur kind of pple so take ur time to knw what u want act it and u will get it.and plz stop wt the am commited bulllllllllsht u are not.

and to all the male folks in the house that think niger girls have nothing to offer ear this u guys are the looser cos my niger girls are the best kind of ladies on mother earth.for facts dont lookfar just at your mothers and sithers but if they dnt have it ,sweeties sorry to dissapt you others do.if they are knw good u guys sure would nt be looking for answers.

@ Sagamite, I think you have set a certain starndard for girls 'offerings' in relationships.
Kindly bear in mind that you, you and only you, are the only one who knows what you really want. No one will, in any way, completely satisfy your predestined standards whilst they don't know what you want.
Furtheremore, i don't think that you can offer yourself WHOLE [/i]comfort[i] and [/i]romance[i], maybe just a part of it, if any at all. However, if you still think that you are still 'self sufficient', then maybe that should sponteneously suggest that there's no reason for you to be in a relationship yet. And that should not mean that girls don't offer anything in a relationship, but rather, you still can provide yourself with EVERYTHING you need. Finally, I would advice you to be out of relationships - until gainful opportunities arise (and that's the time a girl will deem necessary in your life). And when that time comes, if it will ever come anyway, clarify your needs to your girl, so she can know what is expected of her, and that's when you'll start enjoying what God's special and limited creations - girls - can offer in relationships bro.

Relationship is suppose to be natural therapy? I think yes. I don't know about Nigerian girls but I do know about my girl. She offers more than friendship. Some girls just think if they are dating a guy all they have to be is his girlfriend which is offer toto at will, ask for money and just being his girl  blah blah blah. The society has always been about what girls want but what men want is as important as what girls want. It's not just about finding the perfect person, it's also about being the perfect person too.

Read this post people, this guy's story is touching.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-417806.0.html

LOL@ a relationship, especially with a Nigerian woman, let alone any black woman.

ps3!

ayettymama:

ps3!

What da hell Explain that abeg!!

No Nigerian girl will buy you PS1 to even think of PS3.

hehehehe

no its personal!

ayettymama:

hehehehe

no its personal! 

I can try to decode that.

Puhsy,

Soul

damn I hate figures in ciphers!!

hehehehehe

its cos ur nt doin it properly!

ayettymama:

hehehehehe

its cos your nt doin it properly!

My girl will tell me the truth if I'm not.

Proper sexy 3some

joka!

ayettymama:

joka!

Geez now my mind is wondering what the PS3 means.

Play station 3iangle?

Blood_Shed:

LOL@ a relationship, especially with a Nigerian woman, let alone any black woman.

You don't date Black women right?

@OP,Maybe the girls who have something to offer dont see what they want in you, so they steer clear.

Take it from a woman who knows, if a woman knows she is offering more than the basics, if she ventures into a relationship she is very particular about the man she starts one with. If she doesn't think you can fulfill her in the same measure she wont even see any reason to venture into a relationship with you.

In fact the last Nigerian man I was in a relationship was the one who could only offer intimacy, (though I declined the offer). I flat out asked him what he had to offer in our relationship and he said intimacy is the only thing he knows he is good at, so I just walked away amicably. Why waste our time?

So you see, it works both ways.

all they offer is stress and the highest thing they can give to you is p*u*s*s*y

even to get the p*u*s*s*y na problem, u go sweat tire.