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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by WowSweetGuy(m): 12:30am On Oct 10, 2017
trustyshoess:

Then so are you! Did she have sex with herself? undecided
what are u trying to defend? The guy is d hunter here and had her cheap just his first trial.. U get d logic?! If the girl chases d guy then ur defense makes sense.
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Nobody: 12:32am On Oct 10, 2017
trustyshoess:

Explain the bolded statement to me. Who says a "sharp" girl could not also eat her cake and have it?
naa, unless it's a slut that's involved, it's just like a guy dumping a normal lady after banging, she's likely to go through emotional pain, the same guy will go on to sleep with another lady.
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by abdulsemiu02(m): 12:38am On Oct 10, 2017
First time or no first time, Pre marital sex is not good. We only see it as norms because majority engages in it. The fact that most people are doing it does not make it right. What is bad is bad, no matter how widely it's being practiced
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Adams011(m): 12:39am On Oct 10, 2017
adajoe555:
which girl will do that, just visiting for the first time then sex?

I wonder
are you a learner grin
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Sirambassador(m): 12:40am On Oct 10, 2017
Lexusgs430:


Imagine if a massage was also on the cards, pre or post rompy pompy sessions....

grin where will I start looking for Japanese ladies?
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Fineman87: 12:40am On Oct 10, 2017
L3G3ND:

and I hope you've never had sex cos you'll be cheaper for going for cheap things

Lol. Dont mind the hypocrite.

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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by trustyshoess(f): 12:44am On Oct 10, 2017
WowSweetGuy:
what are u trying to defend? The guy is d hunter here and had her cheap just his first trial.. U get d logic?! If the girl chases d guy then ur defense makes sense.
Why does it matter who chased who? They're both consenting adults, who are both responsible for their own actions. It's simple logic
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by trustyshoess(f): 12:46am On Oct 10, 2017
bjhaid:
naa, unless it's a slut that's involved, it's just like a guy dumping a normal lady after banging, she's likely to go through emotional pain, the same guy will go on to sleep with another lady.
Well if a "sharp" lady is a slut then a sharp guy is also a slut then?
So guys don't have emotions? Who says the last won't go and sleep with another guy?
Stop with the double standards
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Lexusgs430: 12:47am On Oct 10, 2017
Sirambassador:


grin where will I start looking for Japanese ladies?

Abeg whenever you see, I would not mind been a fly on the wall...

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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Lexusgs430: 12:49am On Oct 10, 2017
adajoe555:
which girl will do that, just visiting for the first time then sex?

I wonder

Plenty girls.........
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by WowSweetGuy(m): 12:54am On Oct 10, 2017
trustyshoess:

Why does it matter who chased who? They're both consenting adults, who are both responsible for their own actions. It's simple logic
yeah yeah...but mind u, guys don't care to be called cheap as long as he got what he wanted.. But no matter how u form your feminism defense, being called cheap as a Lady gets into u..like u r reacting now to guyz talks tongue

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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by scobaba: 12:55am On Oct 10, 2017
I had sex with my chic in uni one week after i met her at d bank where she had issues paying her school fees. I assisted her and we got talking after that. One week later, she came to my room in d hostel and we had sex. She felt cheap, but we went on to date for 6 years. Shes married now with 3 kids while m married with 1.
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Nobody: 12:57am On Oct 10, 2017
trustyshoess:

Well if a "sharp" lady is a slut then a sharp guy is also a slut then?
So guys don't have emotions? Who says the last won't go and sleep with another guy?
Stop with the double standards
their's no double standards here miss, I'm sure you know that's the way it's in our society you're just trying to defend cos you are female
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by victorazyvictor(m): 12:58am On Oct 10, 2017
alexistaiwo:
Doesn't matter whether she sex you on the first or seventy eighth date.
As long as a girl opens her leg for you without paying her bride price. She is cheap

Far from it
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by trustyshoess(f): 1:00am On Oct 10, 2017
WowSweetGuy:
yeah yeah...but mind u, guys don't care to be called cheap as long as he got what he wanted.. But no matter how u form your feminism defense, being called cheap as a Lady gets into u..like u r reacting now to guyz talks tongue
Lol I'm not being called cheap so this doesn't get to me. What gets to me is the double standards. You don't have to be a feminist to be a logical thinker.
Not ALL guys care to be called cheap but SOME do and the same goes for ladies. The sooner you realise that women are just as human as you and can be just as reckless and cold hearted as the next guy, the earlier you'll get to the 21st Century undecided

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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by WowSweetGuy(m): 1:03am On Oct 10, 2017
trustyshoess:

Lol I'm not being called cheap so this doesn't get to me. What gets to me is the double standards. You don't have to be a feminist to be a logical thinker.
Not ALL guys care to be called cheap but SOME do and the same goes for ladies. The sooner you realise that women are just as human as you and can be just as reckless and cold hearted as the next guy, the earlier you'll get to the 21st Century undecided
cold hearted with her body being caressed and punny drilled..lol...OK! She can ride on
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Patokeikem: 1:03am On Oct 10, 2017
Lust At First Sight
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by trustyshoess(f): 1:03am On Oct 10, 2017
bjhaid:
their's no double standards here miss, I'm sure you know that's the way it's in our society you're just trying to defend cos you are female
It's not a defence bro, it's simple logic. Society this, Society that, who makes up the society? You, me and the people around us. So stop acting like there is some unwritten rule about how society works that shouldn't be broken. Just because a majority of people are ignorant, doesnt mean we all should be ignorant

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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by trustyshoess(f): 1:04am On Oct 10, 2017
WowSweetGuy:
cold hearted with her body being caressed and punny drilled..lol...OK! She can ride on
You talk as if they're both not getting satisfaction from the act! undecided
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by WowSweetGuy(m): 1:06am On Oct 10, 2017
trustyshoess:

You talk as if they're both not getting satisfaction from the act! undecided
yeah but one body loses value...that's y so many modern ladies walk around with fallen Olympus

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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by trustyshoess(f): 1:10am On Oct 10, 2017
WowSweetGuy:
yeah but one body loses value...that's y so many modern ladies walk around with fallen Olympus
Value? So men don't have value but women do? Who decides that this so called value has been lost? You or her? You're not making any sense. If she loses value then so does he!! What are you not getting? They're both human, they both participated and therefore are both equal. You talk about modern ladies with fallen Olympus like ancient ladies didn't have that too? If men had boobs, it would most likely be the same. If you think "fallen olympus" is a measure for a person's value then you're not mature
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by NEROSKY(m): 1:10am On Oct 10, 2017
alexistaiwo:
Doesn't matter whether she sex you on the first or seventy eighth date.
As long as a girl opens her leg for you without paying her bride price. She is cheap
who tell u dat one? big lie
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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by YelloweWest: 1:15am On Oct 10, 2017
alexistaiwo:

The fact that we are all doing it doesn't make it right.
We are all cheap just that society is more harsh on the female folks where premarital sex is concerned
The fact that we are all doing it doesn't make it right.
We are all cheap just that society is more harsh on the female folks where premarital sex is concerned
Society or u?

You're just a hypocrite trying to save face haven been caught in the act of ur hypocrisy.
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by hardon1(m): 1:15am On Oct 10, 2017
hmmmm, i no talk
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by WowSweetGuy(m): 1:15am On Oct 10, 2017
trustyshoess:

Value? So men don't have value but women do? Who decides that this so called value has been lost? You or her? You're not making any sense. If she loses value then so does he!! What are you not getting? They're both human, they both participated and therefore are both equal. You talk about modern ladies with fallen Olympus like ancient ladies didn't have that too? If men had boobs, it would most likely be the same. If you think "fallen olympus" is a measure for a person's value then you're not mature
hahaha...funny when u say if men had boobs...Good we don't, same as other things that follows with womanhood. Come on u r mothers of tomorrow, don't ever compare with what men do because its not nice. Just like anybody won't b so sad catching his dad cheating like catching mum.
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by Nobody: 1:16am On Oct 10, 2017
trustyshoess:

It's not a defence bro, it's simple logic. Society this, Society that, who makes up the society? You, me and the people around us. So stop acting like there is some unwritten rule about how society works that shouldn't be broken. Just because a majority of people are ignorant, doesnt mean we all should be ignorant
No unwritten rule or whatsoever, that's just tha basic fact
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by YelloweWest: 1:16am On Oct 10, 2017
L3G3ND:

and I hope you've never had sex cos you'll be cheaper for going for cheap things
The hypocrisy of the boys here stinks to high heavens.
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by trustyshoess(f): 1:17am On Oct 10, 2017
bjhaid:
No unwritten rule or whatsoever, that's just tha basic fact
Who made this a fact?
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by GogobiriLalas: 1:18am On Oct 10, 2017
She's not cheap...she's surplous
Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by YelloweWest: 1:18am On Oct 10, 2017
Though I didn't do it.

A friend of mine who had sex on the first day got married to the guy.

They are still married with 4 kids today.

As a Christian I advocate no sex before marriage.

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Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by trustyshoess(f): 1:20am On Oct 10, 2017
WowSweetGuy:
hahaha...funny when u say if men had boobs...Good we don't, same as other things that follows with womanhood. Come on u r mothers of tomorrow, don't ever compare with what men do because its not nice. Just like anybody won't b so sad catching his dad cheating like catching mum.
Bolded statement just made me realise that I'm wasting my time. Might as well be trying to explain electrons to a 2 month old. Adios

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