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Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by CyberGypsy(m): 6:17pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
PrimadonnaO:cool ..tell me about yourself 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by pyrex23(m): 6:17pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Monalisa185:lala na babe ? |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by komododragons: 6:18pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Laveda:as it is, yes if you don't love yourself how would you expect others to love you? a complex question just need a simple answer. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:18pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
personally I think the question is too ambiguous(don't know what ambiguous is sha) but seriously you have to be really good at conversation to be able to turn this question into something fun, if not well, its a dead end. a girl told me this one time, I just asked her what she wanted to know, she was like uuhm what do u do. I took up from there. but hey I learnt the art flirting form my mom so am kind really advanced. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Legendaryarcher: It's easy, treat it like a massage Well, like you know, i'm super... I love to " the moment you mention movies or anything ", the conversation ends. Its basically not a question that wants the real answers No. It wants to pick an area of interest that resonates the speaker, so a conversation can branch out, simple. And the more that;s revealed, the more the conversation can be stretched. and just this question alone if both parties are good with communication can stretch into weeks before it is exhausted, because new areas of interests opens up for discussion. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by obasivic: 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:most at times I introduce myself and the girl be like OK. It's so annoying |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by SenorFax(m): 6:20pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
TikaBodi:I quote you pikins |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:22pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
oloyolo: It's easy, treat it like a massage Well, like you know, i'm super... I love to " the moment you mention movies or anything ", the conversation ends. Its basically not a question that wants the real answers No. It wants to pick an area of interest that resonates the speaker, so a conversation can branch out, simple. And the more that;s revealed, the more the conversation can be stretched. and just this question alone if both parties are good with communication can stretch into weeks before it is exhausted, because new areas of interests opens up for discussion. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:23pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Florblu: very simple, matured nd friendly answer. don't mind these ones that r forming big girls whereas they don't know wat to answer |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:25pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
OK, noted supersystemsnig: |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by babyhrt(m): 6:26pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Sadly a huge chunk of our ladies dnt know alot about what matters....so the question will definitely sound stupid..start the conversation with the trends on make up, human hair or some mundane stuffs.they will love you for it. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:29pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: It never fails me, from movies enter music, both parties talk for as long as ever, from there, its basically begs to say i wanna speak with you, i dont know your interests,open up so we can both figure out similar interests we can talk out...I feel this is the implied meaning ma'am 1 Like |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by heendrix(m): 6:31pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Dating nija girls is just like knocking at epidemic. sis giving guy like me that reply is simply just making life hard for yourself. just am so so so and I love to do this n that makes it a probs for you? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Aquariann: 6:33pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Oyindidi: Girls ask guys this question a lot. Going through the response of these girls shouting it's a "turn off" question left me wondering. What if after asking the guy a similar question and he answers. Then after talking brilliantly for a while about himself (with her listening and smiling because she's probably impressed), he then relaxes and says "So, tell me about yourself". Would she be offended? I mean people ask this particular question after some sort of rapport or brief convo must have been established. kimbraa: Not just you milady. Dumb people everywhere on this thread. Every sensible person should know how to tailor a response to this question depending on who is asking and the situation it's been asked for crying out loud. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:35pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Aquariann: Seconded |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:45pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
OK sir, I will try to be more flexible then supersystemsnig: |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Aquariann: 6:47pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: Exactly. One should always have something to say depending on who's asking and the situation it's being asked. I bet by the time you state your skin colour and the person is standing next to you, it'll elicit a laugh or smile because that aspect was already obvious to him. And if he had asked the "Tell me about yourself" question initially due to nervousness (i.e for someone who likes you), your response automatically puts him at ease. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:47pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Intrepid01:we could just email you our cv then |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Aquariann:Reading the comments I felt like crying. I still can't believe some people's foolishness could be this astonishing. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: Aii, if you master the flow, you'll be a master conversationist and communicator |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:52pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
This kind of question is asked when you probably don't even know the sense of humor level of the guy, so it's better to work with some parameters so you don't send a wrong signal either. Aquariann: |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
My problem with Nigerian ladies In chat Is that....they re one sided they always expect the guys to the talking....wen we do they reply us with K....then they say we talk too much...when we dont chat them at all they say the OG is proud... if the chat can be contributed immersively from both the boy and the girl, I swear the chat would go a long way....other girls mostly white girl re aggresive but still knows how to chat than our Nigerian girls.....I have given up on Nigerian girls...infact. everything bout Nigeria I have washed my hands off...I stay on my. own mostly.... 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Lalas247(f): 6:54pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
kimbraa:Dunno wt the fuss is about If they ask ... response usuallygies like “ what would you like to know Then the guy breaks it down .. Ppl like to stress over lil things ... didn’t even know it was an issue till I saw this thread lol |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:54pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: The question will lead the path to discovery, you only need to trust the path...in the moment of discussion, both parties will let guards down to some extent, and then the real self is revealed and conversation flows, heart to heart...I've used it at least 100 times, with asian chicks, american chicks, it never fails..its universal.... |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Lalas247: New pics yet ? Where have you been ? Been all over the queen's palace looking around for you |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Lalas247(f): 6:57pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:I was hiding from u ... wetin u find reach this thread |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Nobody: 6:57pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Lalas247: That was fast... Jeez.. Okay...welcome back.. Missed your presence on some threads... |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by don4real18(m): 6:58pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
If it's Davido that asked this question, Nairaland babes will term it the most romantic question ever... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Laveda(f): 6:59pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
komododragons: You're even getting it all wrong, you didn't ask me the rate of love for myself you asked to know about me, things about me. You're even confused as to the perfect answer to the question. |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by Lalas247(f): 6:59pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Oya Tell me about yourself |
Re: Ladies How Do You Feel About The Question, "Tell Me About Yourself" by CynthiaChi(f): 7:00pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Guys, you gotta understand asking girls that question is kinda annoying.... It's not that we can't think up an answer but it's really difficult to answer that.... instead we prefer if you are specific in your questions... E.g, how old are you? What do you do? What are your hobbies?.... Those kinda stuffs are easier to answer, you ask us to tell you about ourselves and we literally blank out cos we are like 'where are we gonna start from?'...... Okay dudes, imagine you and a girl start talking for the first time and she says 'can you tell me about yourself?'... Honestly now, would you be able to answer that easily? 1 Like |
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