Prettyenit18:
Yes, women should keep them selves.

A man's duty is to provide for the family, A woman's duty is to give birth and care for the kids. If a man wants to help with house work - good, if a woman wants to work and help financially-good.

Yes! But the woman is the helper. And if she isn't helping him financially, then where will she help him?

ivolt:


Never you look at what you see and make a conclusion,
that is unscientific and erroneous because you are seeing
what you want to see.

Get yourself an admission list and check the gender ratio.

Google it out. Most countries in the world have more females than males.

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Please don't call my mum into this.

Girls mentality is that men should be the ones spending money. And I hate that so much. They both enjoy the relationship, the sex, and all. Why then should the man be the one to spend the money?

Girls who like to receive without giving are the kind of girls I refer to as BITCHES!!!

RavenClaw:



Google it out. Most countries in the world have more females than males.

Ravenclaw?You must be a die-hard harry potter fan.

slyng:
u got it, d same way dey do okpa and abacha on the streets of nkpor, nnobi, abakpa and emene. U are on point.

wait! How u take sabi all dis food

RavenClaw:





Please don't call my mum into this.

Girls mentality is that men should be the ones spending money. And I hate that so much. They both enjoy the relationship, the sex, and all. Why then should the man be the one to spend the money?

Girls who like to receive without giving are the kind of girls I refer to as BITCHES!!!

It doesn't matter what any woman has done to you. I have been wronged by many women. I don't call them bitches. I rise above. I remain a king. So when you find that special one and she hears your story she will treat you as one. RISE ABOVE my brother.

A woman's duty is to give birth and care for the kids-have you ever seen a woman in labour? The pain is unbelievable, doctors say childbirth is a miracle and it happens every day. Have you ever tried to take care of a baby? You would be so stressed out you won't have time to do anything else. So I still maintain that a woman can help financially only if she wants to. Remember the children are for the father ( they bear his name).

RavenClaw:



Yes! But the woman is the helper. And if she isn't helping him financially, then where will she help him?

Prettyenit18:
A woman's duty is to give birth and care for the kids-have you ever seen a woman in labour? The pain is unbelievable, doctors say childbirth is a miracle and it happens every day. Have you ever tried to take care of a baby? You would be so stressed out you won't have time to do anything else. So I still maintain that a woman can help financially only if she wants to. Remember the children are for the father ( they bear his name).

STRONG

These women need to develop something called LOVING ONESELF. Once you love yourself, you'll need no one to make you feel loved. Nothing wrong with WANTING a man, or WANTING a relationship but it's the NEED that bugs me. Work hard, make your own money, make friends, you got your family and a man will become a bonus or an addition to you, NOT a necessity

trustyshoess:
These women need to develop something called LOVING ONESELF. Once you love yourself, you'll need no one to make you feel loved. Nothing wrong with WANTING a man, or WANTING a relationship but it's the NEED that bugs me. Work hard, make your own money, make friends, you got your family and a man will become a bonus or an addition to you, NOT a necessity

Lol..Bandage

RavenClaw:



Yeah you are right. But at least women should also spend money in a relationship and things will improve. After all they want gender equality so equal money should be brought by both parties.

I totally agree with you! I keep tryna drill this into my fellow ladies. We can't pick and choose where we want equality. We need to put a stop to the double standards. Go on a date with your purse and assume that you're paying half or for yourself at least. The expectation that he should pay because he's a man needs to stop cos these same women will be upset if he expects something else from them after the date

NoToPile:



Very very sane point

They will come and deny this point too, too much free sex everywhere why get married when you can get some sexual gratification from a particular lady which you will end up dumping to marry a fresh blood.

Until we go back to the "old school" method these issues will continue to occur.

even in the old school era there was premarital sex.it was done codedly then.

LMFAO

lefulefu:
even in the old school era there was premarital sex.it was done codedly then.

There might have been but it was seen as something shameful, not to be bragged about , done in secret and because society frowned at it not too many indulged in it.

The reverse is the case today.

NoToPile:


There might have been but it was seen as something shameful, not to be bragged about , done in secret and because society frowned at it not too many indulged in it.

The reverse is the case today.

ehn everything changed during the 1960s sexual revolution.anyway i think the economy also plays a big part.man wey never chop belleful na im go come carry woman put for house with children.

lefulefu:
ehn everything changed during the 1960s sexual revolution.anyway i think the economy also plays a big part.man wey never chop belleful na im go come carry woman put for house with children.

I think a lack of interest...For me before now it was pure lack of interest...Lol. not like i'm not handsome and all the good qualities, i just didn't see the need for a woman until i ran into problem and saw friends were unreliable, no one to lean on for support. It was then my eyes opened that i needed a woman

lefulefu:
ehn everything changed during the 1960s sexual revolution.anyway i think the economy also plays a big part.man wey never chop belleful na im go come carry woman put for house with children.

But man wey never chop beleful fit dey sleep with girls up and down abi? Issorait

NoToPile:


But man wey never chop beleful fit dey sleep with girls up and down abi? Issorait

A man's biological needs ought to be met na

supersystemsnig:



I think a lack of interest...For me before now it was pure lack of interest...Lol. not like i'm not handsome and all the good qualities, i just didn't see the need for a woman until i ran into problem and saw friends were unreliable, no one to lean on for support. It was then my eyes opened that i needed a woman

i get ur point..like one brother wey dem upload im story here some days ago.im girlfriend suck am dry and the bros come lose a lot of weight trying to satisfy im girlfriend financially.the day im girlfriend break up with am d bobo went into a Jubilation mode.the guy prepare fried rice with salad to celebrate his now single status and to thank God from saving him from his parasitic girlfriend.

Prettyenit18:
A woman's duty is to give birth and care for the kids-have you ever seen a woman in labour? The pain is unbelievable, doctors say childbirth is a miracle and it happens every day. Have you ever tried to take care of a baby? You would be so stressed out you won't have time to do anything else. So I still maintain that a woman can help financially only if she wants to. Remember the children are for the father ( they bear his name).

what of the married woman with no kids..wetin go come be her duty? Abi u no know say there are childless couples all over the place.

lefulefu:
i get ur point..like one brother wey dem upload im story here some days ago.im girlfriend suck am dry and the bros come lose a lot of weight trying to satisfy im girlfriend financially.the day im girlfriend break up with am d bobo went into a Jubilation mode.the guy prepare fried rice with salad to celebrate his now single status and to thank God from saving him from his parasitic girlfriend.

Not really, i've been working since before i hit 20...Why i stayed away from the opposite gender till tomorrow i don't know...But relating with an interesting nairalander has opened me up... I'm on all eight cylinders now...ready to explode into nunu-planet...

supersystemsnig:



Not really, i've been working since before i hit 20...Why i stayed away from the opposite gender till tomorrow i don't know...But relating with an interesting nairalander has opened me up... I'm on all eight cylinders now...ready to explode into nunu-planet...

haha nunu planet...now u speaking my language.fresh snail fall on u b4 nightfall

Tahra:
Ravenclaw?You must be a die-hard harry potter fan.

Yeah sure.

.

majekoam:


It doesn't matter what any woman has done to you. I have been wronged by many women. I don't call them bitches. I rise above. I remain a king. So when you find that special one and she hears your story she will treat you as one. RISE ABOVE my brother.

You are right. Thanks for your advice.

Prettyenit18:
A woman's duty is to give birth and care for the kids-have you ever seen a woman in labour? The pain is unbelievable, doctors say childbirth is a miracle and it happens every day. Have you ever tried to take care of a baby? You would be so stressed out you won't have time to do anything else. So I still maintain that a woman can help financially only if she wants to. Remember the children are for the father ( they bear his name).

The children are for both. Most times children tend to like the mother more. A woman will help financially only if she wants Lol, that is if they both agree that the man should work. If the children are at home for lack of school fees won't the woman work?! She will

trustyshoess:
These women need to develop something called LOVING ONESELF. Once you love yourself, you'll need no one to make you feel loved. Nothing wrong with WANTING a man, or WANTING a relationship but it's the NEED that bugs me. Work hard, make your own money, make friends, you got your family and a man will become a bonus or an addition to you, NOT a necessity

Exactly!!! Women should have this mentality and they will quit being bitches and pussies.

trustyshoess:

I totally agree with you! I keep tryna drill this into my fellow ladies. We can't pick and choose where we want equality. We need to put a stop to the double standards. Go on a date with your purse and assume that you're paying half or for yourself at least. The expectation that he should pay because he's a man needs to stop cos these same women will be upset if he expects something else from them after the date

Thanks you for your wonderful posts in this thread. All Women should follow in your footsteps.

RavenClaw:



Thanks you for your wonderful posts in this thread. All Women should follow in your footsteps.

supersystemsnig:



Not really, i've been working since before i hit 20...Why i stayed away from the opposite gender till tomorrow i don't know...But relating with an interesting nairalander has opened me up... I'm on all eight cylinders now...ready to explode into nunu-planet...

Are you saying you are a virgin?

RavenClaw:



Are you saying you are a virgin?

Intelligent reasoning.... Take a chilled Satzenbrau on me..Yes..

I pity childless women, but it still doesn't change anything, he's the head of the house, he should provide for her

lefulefu:
what of the married woman with no kids..wetin go come be her duty? Abi u no know say there are childless couples all over the place.