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Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by marvin902(m): 8:17am On Dec 05, 2017 |
its seems your friend wants to go through hell in hes marriage... and i still cant believe they are still peeps out there that allow their families to dictate who they can or cant marry.. tell him to go back to hes ex if he likes himself 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by duchez(m): 8:54am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Thanks for your comments. The lady earns around 180k but she mentioned that she spends around 300k when going shopping and she is scared she would no longer be able to do that if she marries him as she would have to contribute almost all her salary to maintaining the family. |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by jacyhelen(f): 9:36am On Dec 05, 2017 |
duchez: he who fails to listen will land in the grave.. Love is blind but marriage,cheating and disrepectfull woman will open ur eyes. 6 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 9:42am On Dec 05, 2017 |
biacan:you Still Never Wise Up 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Kakamorufu(m): 9:45am On Dec 05, 2017 |
KaBabs1:she wont reject him naw, since it's all a test, and the money is still there. And the guy who has been blinded by love will Gladly take her back. All in all, she loves the money more than the guy. Dazal 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Kingsley121(m): 10:33am On Dec 05, 2017 |
duchez:U should ask him "what made the ex became an ex?" Ohh, I see, cos she's not Igbo....that's a very archaic way of thinking 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 10:36am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Nwodosis: What kind of talk is this? I won’t be surprised if u are still a student. 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Barzinime(m): 12:15pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
You want to do what you normally do abi? biacan: 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Sapiosexuality(m): 12:18pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Dude please, just show him this thread. I just pity the dude. He thinks love is enough to set eternity. If he goes broke in the marriage someday isn't the marriage going to collapse? Does he need such partner and can he deal with that for the rest of his life? Love is not enough. But I don't think he'd listen to us. I just pity the dude. What a pity! And the dude even listens to his parent on the tribe to marry from! Are you sure he's ready? 9 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by habsydiamond(m): 1:31pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
it's she ni girl e ke....ko lo jile nao.. she think say e easy........ my theme still remains ladies and money are 5&6 |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by OliveCynosure(f): 3:24pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
KaBabs1:Wow, izz like you didn't read it well. Even her parents live in the suburbs so which standard is she reducing o 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by OliveCynosure(f): 3:25pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
biacan:
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Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Nwodosis:Question for the gods |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
.Op marrying that lady will be a huge mistake, you will later regret. Don't allow family or unnecessary pressures stop you from marrying your true love. U need to stand your ground and choose what's best for u. That's my two cents. 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 3:44pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Some men foolish sha.why dump an ex that loves u like mad and go for a lady wey no reason ur existence.na wao...and na men like dat go enter joro blog to rant dat all naija girls are golddiggers.u have an ex dat cares for u but u hell bent on enticing a slayqueen with money cos she refused u wen u told her u lost all d money to test her.anyway some men deserve the type of wives they get. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 4:03pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
lefulefu: Very true. Lefulefu, please I need your advice. Can I ask you? As a Benin guy |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 4:12pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
alexialin:oya fire on |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 4:28pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
lefulefu: OK dear. I spoke to my fiance this morning and we spoke at length on events coming up this month. And one of such events is meeting his whole family. I want to know what to wear, what to give to my would be in-laws this Xmas. They are from Benin. My fiance has already planned to introduce me to his family, so I become familiar and cosy with everyone . And they are all guys, he's number 4 or so and I will get to.meet his dad for the first time, his siblings, then his younger sisters are all married but I think they will be around that day. It will be a full house. Phew! am kind of worried. How do I behave around the sisters, his brothers and his parents. Do I need to dress in native attire like long skirt and all? Do I need to wear scarf?. Sighs Am filled with all sorts of tension within me as Xmas eve draws close. I don't know anything about Benin women and men way of accepting people from other tribes. So what do I do? And what kind of gifts should I take along? As the week draws near, am tensed about it. Please help your sister Biko. |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Rukkydelta(f): 4:32pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Please op I'm single and searching Link me up with that friend of yours No time for dulling 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 4:43pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
alexialin:any dress will do as long as e no expose ur booby or other parts like dose endtime slayqueens for integram. But if u want to be comfortable u can wear a jeans and T shirt cos the weather for Benin right now is quite warm but if ur guy say na native he want make una wear den u listen to him.it depends on the dress ur guy wants u to wear cos na im know im parents. On the issue of wat to buy for d parents u can buy wine for d dad and the mom its either shoe or handbag.be very polite and friendly when u are with them.during ur first visit if u notice im mom dey kitchen then u enter the kitchen and pally with the mama..this is very important. They might cross examine u to know the type of lady u are so just act all friendly and open to the parents.no form ooo and abeg don't do any feminist behaviour for dere(i know u not a feminazi). For the siblings get to know dem and if ur guy has a sister also try to get close to her.Benin ppl are hardly tribalistic and besides edo state as a whole is very accommodating to strangers...though some few bad eggs fit dey sha. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 5:03pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
lefulefu: Phew! Mehn God bless u dear That's so helpful, although my friends were the ones who said I should wear native, while my guy said I can wear any English decent attire, am looking at a knee length formal gown ,and just be myself and be calm. He always jokes that they will whoop my assz if I misbehave there. And am like whoop assz ke! Is that how Benin people behave? He will then laugh hysterically as he looks on at me. Cos I feel they shouldn't be this archaic. this is 21st century! But with what uv explained now, u made it sound easy Perfect then. OK I will buy wine for the dad and very good handbag possibly add quality Ankara for the mum. She will love it. I will keep the tips uv mentioned close to my heart. I won't form one bit. So help me God. You are a life saver dear . My mind Don rest small.. I will try my best. Phew! This is one interesting holiday coming ahead Thanks so much dear Wow! 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by farihafaheemah(m): 5:11pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
KaBabs1:.... it obvious you don't have wisdom. Even our creator test us to know how faithful we are to HIM. My advise to you move with elders to learn about this life. 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 5:16pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
alexialin:u won't have any problem with parents and if they are educated it will even be cooler.as long as u respectful the visit will go on fine. |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 5:19pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
farihafaheemah:probably dat one dey get im experience from telemondo.its easy to know guys who watch too much telemondo..they tend to reason abstractly. 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 5:19pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
duchez:Is your friend losing his mind about this? It's not even that hard, honestly. Your friend doesn't have to wait any longer. There are so many single ladies out there who want to get married and would accept your friend right away and wholeheartedly. Obviously that lady is a high maintenance chick. I know the mentality, relationships and emotions of these girls. The problem is this: She's probably not ready to marry your friend. She has other guys in the line. Your friend should act like a man. He should simply move on and know that he can get someone better than this girl. 5 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Nobody: 6:05pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
lefulefu: They are educated. Thanks once again dear 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by KaBabs1: 7:10pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
OliveCynosure: One question. Wouldn't you want to live a more comfortable life than your parents? 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by boss01: 10:55pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Wetin money go cause ehn 1 Like |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Lomprico2: 10:56pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
duchez: Una don advice am finish na, its left for him to enter d lion's den wilfully or not. |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Jeff9498(m): 10:57pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
Dat guy lacks common sense |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by Adebowale89(m): 11:00pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
ibkkk: I mention you, you're a witch. so what op, the guy you're talking abt should man up already. at this technology age no parent can choose or select who to marry for me. is my future not theirs man's not hot |
Re: A Lady Rejected A Marriage Proposal For This by dingbang(m): 11:00pm On Dec 05, 2017 |
I don't even know why this should be an issue .... E no dey hard me to dump girl wey no get sense... 2 Likes |
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