Girl846:

Because values, morals, religious observance and self control are on the decline and especially since people are getting married at a later age than before. Just hold on, Im sure God will send you what you deserve.
also, good for you on keeping yourself. (I, myself hope to marry a virgin man   )

jerryland:

@ Poster, Believe me virgins do not carry sign posts on their heads!!! There are many out there, It may be a handful but there are, both guys and girls alike. It might interest you to know that I have four unmarried sisters, all above 20years all Virgins!!!

Diva 2.0:

Exactly. NL Guys want to have a virgin wife but also want to sleep around.

na2day?:

can't we eat our cake and have it in peace anymore?

Girl846:

Hahaha! you are funny!

coolestboy:

I wonder y it has been so difficult 2 come across a virgin,anyway,no matter how scanty they are,i believe 'my wife must be a VIRGIN'

jmoore:

you do not make comparison like that. what i meant is that a survey carried out based on people comments on sexuality topics revealed that they are not virgins. it is very obvious based on your comments here that you are not a virgin

Theblessed:

[b]Excused me!  Am I hearing someone asking 'why it's difficult to get a virgin wife' these days

Well if you don't know yet,  the answer is obvious and you don't need to ask this question really. A simplistic answer to your question is because, Nigerian men including yourself and your brothers etc are busy deflowering all of them and that's why? So, you can not eat your cake and have it this way, ok. 

If Nigerian men want virgins for marriage, they better start to learn how to respect women.  You don't respect a woman when you meet her for the first time in the street and start your T T, which eventually lands her either in your bed, your friends borrowed bedroom or a hotel room some where within some 30mins of meeting her.  How could this be respectful to your women? I know some would argue, but some women actually like that - you mean, actually like to be dis-respected?  Well, I can assure you, there must be some thing psychologically wrong with that kind of a woman. 

Again, if they want their wives to be virgins on their wedding night, they have to behave as 'Gentlemen' do,
a concept - non-existent in a Nigerian man's psych! 

As you can see, if you do 'someone sister' so would someone else do yours!  And if you don't have a sister - watch out for your cousins or nieces or your own daughters when you eventually have them because, what goes round comes round 3 time over.  Women don't deflower themselves, ok?  Some even get despoiled when a man approach them and they object. Sometimes they find themselves unfortunately, not only pregnant but also rejected by the same guy that did it as he wouldn't own up to his responsibility.  Thanks to modern Science/technology as we now have DNA procedures to count on. 

Now tell me, where would that leave the ladies if we hadn't this procedure?  In fact, I pitied my mother and grandmother's generation because they suffered a lot in the hands of men as in their days it was either, to carry the baby full-term and suffer all the consequences plus the shame that goes with it or have a go at some back street or side road Abortion Clinic/Chemist and perish as a result, if unlucky. 

So, you men should stop lamenting on this your immoral behaviours because majority of you are as guilty as sin -  stop moaning as its hypocritical, please!!! [/b]