latch:

, shakes his head as he wonders why anyone would want to marry a virgin

Theblessed:

[b]Excused me!  Am I hearing someone asking 'why it's difficult to get a virgin wife' these days

Well if you don't know yet,  the answer is obvious and you don't need to ask this question really. A simplistic answer to your question is because, Nigerian men including yourself and your brothers etc are busy deflowering all of them and that's why? So, you can not eat your cake and have it this way, ok. 

If Nigerian men want virgins for marriage, they better start to learn how to respect women.  You don't respect a woman when you meet her for the first time in the street and start your T T, which eventually lands her either in your bed, your friends borrowed bedroom or a hotel room some where within some 30mins of meeting her.  How could this be respectful to your women? I know some would argue, but some women actually like that - you mean, actually like to be dis-respected?  Well, I can assure you, there must be some thing psychologically wrong with that kind of a woman. 

Again, if they want their wives to be virgins on their wedding night, they have to behave as 'Gentlemen' do,
a concept - non-existent in a Nigerian man's psych! 

As you can see, if you do 'someone sister' so would someone else do yours!  And if you don't have a sister - watch out for your cousins or nieces or your own daughters when you eventually have them because, what goes round comes round 3 time over.  Women don't deflower themselves, ok?  Some even get despoiled when a man approach them and they object. Sometimes they find themselves unfortunately, not only pregnant but also rejected by the same guy that did it as he wouldn't own up to his responsibility.  Thanks to modern Science/technology as we now have DNA procedures to count on. 

Now tell me, where would that leave the ladies if we hadn't this procedure?  In fact, I pitied my mother and grandmother's generation because they suffered a lot in the hands of men as in their days it was either, to carry the baby full-term and suffer all the consequences plus the shame that goes with it or have a go at some back street or side road Abortion Clinic/Chemist and perish as a result, if unlucky. 

So, you men should stop lamenting on this your immoral behaviours because majority of you are as guilty as sin -  stop moaning as its hypocritical, please!!! [/b]

No its not stealing, its like opening your xmas gift b4 25th morning.

laprince:

why does every man want to open d gift b4 d real day?

d gift must be very appealing.

miz4oxley:

Uhhh, Million Virgin girls are all around, Its just the fact that they can't put placards on their forehead to tell you and reason been that most of our ladies dress and look wayward which makes Men think they are disvirgined. Because a lady looks outwardly wayward or attractive does not mean she has slept with virtually all Men or Guys around. We have descent girls and perhaps If you're not lucky to get one, Maybe due to your luck, you can find a descent lady who is disvirgined but have an appropriate and a justiable reason for loosing it @ a point in time. Its not all disvirgined Lady that loose their virginity due to promiscuos way of life. Some could be despoil, seduction at a tender age and what do you want them to do. Lol, We have cute chick who are Virgins and are determined to keep it, But won't tell you. Go get someone serious and forget abot this Virgin thing. If all men are waiting to marry a Virgin Lol, what will happen to homes and marriages. You might decide to remain a virgin maybe cos of your religion or State or you're not the outgoing type If not, No guy would see the opportunity and not grab it. My GF is a virgin, Soo other girls I know who are admirers to me, Watch, Beautiful girls are most Virgin because of their self esteem is quite high and are well accepted in the environment, But Well to beautiful girls always want guys around them and they a reaped off of their Virginity and dumped. In a nut shell If you want a Virgin, I swear approach th beautiful one.
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This is the most sensible comment I've read on this thread.

weedinLA link=topic=429402.msg5900305#msg5900305 date=1271376248:

Virginity is overrated. There's nothing special about it. I'd rather want a more emotionally mature and stable lady than one who prides herself on being a virgin.

The way I see it: Most times, Virginity is as a result of a lack of the "right" opportunity.

Lack of right my foot.

fellis:

Thank you very much for this. I am so grateful. . . . .You have no idea.

Maybe, from your perspective I have no idea but if you look deeper enough, you'd realise I know what I'm talking about - things men do that are destroying our society.  It has been demonstrated in many ways in our society, both in real life and in films and even as I write this where a Sugar Daddy is messing with young women only to find his own daughters being messed up too, by his own best mates or other men. 

Now tell me, where are the 'Virgins' you are searching for They've all gone, haven't they? So, stop looking.  For all I know, men can't eat their cakes and have it. Something has to give, and that's exactly what you are searching for - a Virgin. You can't have that now because, some bad guys have stolen it from you.  Maybe, there are pockets of them somewhere but I say, keep searching you might be lucky!!!

Theblessed:

Maybe, from your perspective I have no idea but if you look deeper enough, you'd realise I know what I'm talking about - things men do that are destroying our society.  It has been demonstrated in many ways in our society, both in real life and in films and even as I write this where a Sugar Daddy is messing with young women only to find his own daughters being messed up too, by his own best mates or other men. 

Now tell me, where are the 'Virgins' you are searching for They've all gone, haven't they? So, stop looking.  For all I know, men can't eat their cakes and have it. Something has to give, and that's exactly what you are searching for - a Virgin. You can't have that now because, some bad guys have stolen it from you.  Maybe, there are pockets of them somewhere but I say, keep searching you might be lucky!!!

fellis:

Thank you very much for this. I am so grateful. . . . .You have no idea.

Theblessed:

Maybe, from your perspective I have no idea but if you look deeper enough, you'd realise I know what I'm talking about - things men do that are destroying our society.  It has been demonstrated in many ways in our society, both in real life and in films and even as I write this where a Sugar Daddy is messing with young women only to find his own daughters being messed up too, by his own best mates or other men. 

Now tell me, where are the 'Virgins' you are searching for They've all gone, haven't they? So, stop looking.  For all I know, men can't eat their cakes and have it. Something has to give, and that's exactly what you are searching for - a Virgin. You can't have that now because, some bad guys have stolen it from you.  Maybe, there are pockets of them somewhere but I say, keep searching you might be lucky!!!

Busy_body:




LITOTES ~ The "IRONY" of it

jennykadry:

Why do i have the feeling that girl846 is trying to get the poster's attention cos she claims to be a virgin, cos shes been screaming "im a virgin" indirectly since, why not go meet him and tell him, you r interested, finito

na2day?:


what are u doing here? are u a virgin? abeg allow us see the virgins jor


abeg leave the girl jor, she has always stated clearly her position in all virginity threads

Busy_body:


As a matter of fact, I am a virgin and Girl846 is my role model. See me in awe of her and almost licking her feet here; https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-430779.0.html#msg5897890


Any irony you see in that post of mine was done in error, i still haven't perfected the act of using figures of speech well enough, yeah thats it

jennykadry:

Why do i have the feeling that girl846 is trying to get the poster's attention cos she claims to be a virgin, cos shes been screaming "im a virgin" indirectly since, why not go meet him and tell him, you r interested, finito

maclatunji:

@poster, to find a virgin wife to marry is not difficult. You just need to look in the right places. Don't mind all of this unrepentant fornicators and adulterers trying to run you down.

na lie, great lie!!!
all those gurks you're looking up to are not what they seem to be, our generation has lost that moral standard so just pray for the best and expect the worst, you might want to review finding a virgin for marriage if you want to marry early or better still check back at the village. more problems for ya, LMFAO