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Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
tevinsolt: See...you can't even think for yourself, Ooh well, that what I get for expecting too much from you. Just take my first advice will you, dust it up and use your brain. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by gentlegenius(m): 5:36pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
humilitypays:So are you telling me that married women don't get serious in whatever business the husbands open for them, but will get serious in doing a white or blue collar job? If this is true, then there's a reason for that. Women are not all the same. A lazy woman won't get serious in anything, whether it is white collar job, blue collar jobs, business or even domestic chores. Of course, I am not planning to marry a lazy woman. I accept your advice of starting something for her to manage before marrying her. That's exactly what I planned to do. Any woman that can succeed in a white collar job can as well succeed in business. The reason most women fail in business is because they lack the proper training and supervision, not because they are lazy or unwilling to make money. Those women who failed in business will succeed in white collar jobs because they'll be trained on what to do and thoroughly supervised. Every man should train and develop her woman first before opening anything for her, and still supervise her until she masters the business. All this is what I am planning to do for my woman before marrying her. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 5:37pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
pantherblack:Hmmmm....exactly @it's about meeting the right partner. Everything we are saying revolves around this statement. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 5:47pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
cassyrooy:Chai! God will Bless you. You will surely marry a good wife I don't know what else to say. People like you still give me hope in humanity. I only hope you are also like this in reality cos a lot of people hide behind the keyboard and type what they are not... |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29: People can sermonize easily. I'll never take anyone behind a keyboard seriously, not if i'm not the person. Soemtimes some people bring the worst out of some people. So a good person at the start may not remain so thru the journey, marriage is God, luck and sense |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 6:33pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
pantherblack:Chai! You get sense too! |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29: I aint marrying any woman without seeking God. Not eeven Bill Gates's daughter. Make i no go carry load wey too heavy. Some of you our sisters no want marriage, na to dominate men and incapacitate men many dey find. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by cassyrooy(m): 7:22pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29:Amen! I don't know what else to say. People like you still give me hope in humanity.You lost it before? I only hope you are also like this in reality cos a lot of people hide behind the keyboard and type what they are not...Hahaha! I'm many things my dear, admittedly, I've been a lot for some people but regardless my good sides are just my salvation from my bad sides. I no sabi lie o! |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 8:58pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
pantherblack:True. When it comes to marriage, without God in it, I'm not going ahead. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 9:04pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
cassyrooy:Oh yes I did lose it. I mean who wouldn't? What with the level of selfishness and wickedness and all prevalent now. Lol @i no sabi lie...I sabi o. But I just choose not to. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29: Since when did you join this team too ? There's always an exemption rule. I triend my emotions, mastered things and was always in control. Never lost it until i met someone i lost it with. Better pray life doesnt make your path cross someone that'll make you lose it. It'll shock you how the wrong person will make anyone lose it in quick successions |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by cassyrooy(m): 9:20pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29:Well, its just pronounced now. Its just too much. Lol @i no sabi lie...I sabi o. But I just choose not to.I used to, until I discovered how satisfactory being blunt is. What's with telling people that you love them only to go round their back to thwart them? I tell people be real with me, lies are hardly forgiven by me. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 9:35pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
cassyrooy:Too too much!!!!! It's scary. Same with me. Lying is a no-no with me. I find it difficult to forget it. Especially those seemingly little lies that when you eventually find out, makes you look stupid for not seeing through them in the first place. Those lies that made you say, "I knew it! Know those types? |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29: Oh, talking about losing hope in the world. Phew. I pass |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 9:44pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
pantherblack:Have always been a part of that team... It's the best team to be on. I have been in that situation a few times. That moment you think you are in control. You know what to do & you have everything figured out. When you think you are above deceit just cos you read stories online and you think you know all the tactics. And someone from somewhere comes around & spins you around so fast like a rollercoaster and then disappears like they were never there at all. You keep wondering whether they were just a figment of your imagination. At that point you realise that you know nothing about the heart of men (men and women alike). Yeah, I have been in that situation. Relying on God for guidance now is the safest bet. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 9:45pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
pantherblack:Lol...don't pass o. It affects us all |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29: What we avoid we tend to attract. These your self preserverance and self protective mechanisms. Humph. I dey looku looku. My own is to defend myself in event of any attack with an equal mesaure or ten times running over. I'm sure people know how it feels when they do odds. I tell everyone my good side is good, but do me back i run it over and give it back to you. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by cassyrooy(m): 9:47pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29:My ex lied to me at the earliest time of our friendship(in a special friendzone box), I got drunk one day like that and slept off to clear it, waking up I realized how I've been used by her. Tell me the worse things in this life, I'll shake your hand anytime I meet with you, but lie to me(especially in a relationship) I'll plot your downfall. Those little kinda lies, I get them daily, I just reposition my relationship with that person. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29: I'm an eternal optimist I haven't lost hope in the world. Stop expecting people not todisspoint, stop measuring people with scales and stop placing expectations on people. Its our overly pristine set of judgement minds and eyes that's the issue. I told a lady ones, if you can treat your husband how ou treat your brother your marriage will be sweet, guess her response. Lai lai |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 7:53am On Mar 09, 2018 |
pantherblack:Good advice. I will heed it. It will make a lot of things easier in my life. Good morning. Hope you slept well |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 8:14am On Mar 09, 2018 |
cassyrooy:I don't understand the rationale behind lying to the person you claim you love. I just can't erap my head around it. Especially those lies that you know will hurt the person no matter how little. Yeah, I'd prefer the truth anytime no matter how hurting it sounds to lying to me all in the name of shielding me from hurt. Cos I like this approach, I always do it to loved ones too. But I have discovered that a lot of people claim they love the truth but they can't handle it. They make you wish you lied to them in the first place. Good morning. Hope you slept well |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 8:21am On Mar 09, 2018 |
pantherblack:What else is there to do? You get protective & over cautious, you get burnt. You throw caution to the wind and loosen up, you still get burnt. God help us all |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 11:18am On Mar 09, 2018 |
Honesty007:So what's the way forward? |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 11:19am On Mar 09, 2018 |
gentlegenius:You have a good head on your shoulders mister. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by StrongWoman333(f): 11:33am On Mar 09, 2018 |
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Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
gentlegenius: Good idea, i also had such idea until i met one that didnt want any form of financial assitance from me even as a husband because she says i will brag about making her. So some would rather not even work in a business created by a man, even the husband, and prefer to work for someone that's not the husband so they wont be bragged t, you can imagine such mindset |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
MissJoy29: I evaluated my entire life this week, and each time i saw the devil cornered me, it was thru a friend |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by cassyrooy(m): 12:45pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
MissJoy29:Lol! Humans do different things for different reasons. God should just keep us away from such elements in the society. @bolded, yeah! You see those ones? They tend to be insatiable, lie o, tell them the truth, they'll still find fault regardless of whatever reasons you give them, like you're flawless or perfectly perfect being. Good day! My night? Was just there o, not smooth at all! How's your day going? |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 12:53pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
pantherblack:friends! Most of them now are unfriendly friends. Wolves in sheep's clothing |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
I disagree with people can't handle the truth. See if our actions are carefully weighed before we carry them out, there won't be much to tell. i.e. if we all do what is right to our capacity, there will be fewer stories to tell about tins beyond our control. But then even when we act, selfishness belies our actions, so when the future demands we open up we blame it on the hearer of our tales when we could have done better. The coin flips both ways. |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 1:19pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
cassyrooy:Amen o! A very big Amen. Yeah. And the irony of it is that those ones are the most imperfect. That's why I run away from a man who's unreasonably possessive. Chances are that they are doing worse things than they are suspecting you are doing. I see it this way: if I know I don't delete questionable text messages or call logs from my phone, it may never cross my mind to suspect you are doing same. But if I'm doing them, I will always be sceptical any time I see you on your phone. Most times it is the bad ones that expect the best from others. My day? Moving on well thank you |
Re: Where Is Your Wife? by MissJoy29(f): 1:28pm On Mar 09, 2018 |
pantherblack:We are human beings. No matter how careful one is, one can still misbehave. Then you need to genuinely show remorse & make amends. Note that this is completely different from the person who constantly errs and expects to be taken back all cos he always says the truth. I don't know if you get me |
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