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Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Jman06(m): 8:24am On May 12, 2018 |
Ejiod:Your monicker is familiar to me, are you prof |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by oxygenlove(m): 8:27am On May 12, 2018 |
pocohantas:ontop dx matter? me sef i surprise, |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Ejiod(m): 8:29am On May 12, 2018 |
Jman06:Lol! Sounds right. Bros its like u have quintillion of neurons for u to recognize.. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Jman06(m): 8:30am On May 12, 2018 |
AmericanSons:People all over the world talk about marriage, dating, sex, procreation. It's not only Nigerians that talk about marriage. You have different dating and matchmaking websites all over the world. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Nobody: 8:32am On May 12, 2018 |
OfficialDad: Hehehehehe...Bro, I'm with you on this...Imagine, every where I turn to they are always talking about relationships, marriage and sex. I wonder if anyone in africa talks about technology, aliens and planets. We leave it to the white, while we have sex and populate the earth. This is why I think that crappy "Wakandan" movie doesn't represent africans at all...E too pass wetin we fit do! 1 Like |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Jman06(m): 8:32am On May 12, 2018 |
Ejiod:Hehehehe....It's your good friend from UJ! How's life with you?? |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Ejiod(m): 8:34am On May 12, 2018 |
Jman06:Yay! Pls lemme know , shey Jonathan,dusu or samuthani or who. I'm eager to know . I'm fyn o. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by DoTheNeedful: 8:35am On May 12, 2018 |
dasparrow: Lol @bolded. How old are you. I can only take you serious if you are 30+. Your lines are common these days especially from people who aren't yet healed from heartbreaks. 1 Like |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by mightyhazell: 8:36am On May 12, 2018 |
Espada10:absolutely unnecessary tripe.. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by henryhemon(m): 8:40am On May 12, 2018 |
Marry a woman/man who inspires you, someone you have huge respect for not because of his or her wealth but because of his or her values, someone who has same value as yours and has good character n fear God. That's all. If you love someone once you stop respecting this person the love goes out of the window. 3 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Jman06(m): 8:40am On May 12, 2018 |
Ejiod:Hehehehe....it's Jst.............us (hope you'd code) |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Acidosis(m): 8:40am On May 12, 2018 |
zicoraads: I totally understand bro We can only hope for a better structure, although the kind of leaders we elect have made it more difficult. Everyone is trying to secure the future, whilst taking little risks. That's why most times, I avoid threads that condemn marriages, religion, our norms, etc. These things will continue to trend unless we address the main issues. If people don't go to Adeboye to pray for a child, where else should they go to? Hospitals where you have to wait 6 months to see an ill-equipped Urologist (since we have less than 100 urologists in the entire country)? Most of our problems are structural. As fast as possible, try and get that land o, may be in a better environment, because there are no mortgage or loan anywhere Build your own house, get your bore hole 'cos government don't care whether we drink from the gutter 2 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by obongitiad(m): 8:44am On May 12, 2018 |
Toks2008: Nice one. But how do you do due diligence on the person you intend to marry? |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Ejiod(m): 8:44am On May 12, 2018 |
Jman06:Hahahahahahaha. I miss u guy.I fully get d code. I've left Biochemistry even after masters for programming as data analyst with PYTHON. are u stl with BCH? I have sent a PM so as to get ur contact. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by oxygenlove(m): 8:51am On May 12, 2018 |
Pussickpunk:bro na so o" Nigerians, They Will Hail U When U Give Ur Wife 'kondo' And Give Birth To Bouncing Baby Boy Even Though U Already Have Four Kids_ Telling U 'yur the man, u Win Ur Wife This Time ', Buh They Cant Encourage Fellow Men Inventing Something, rather call it crap 2 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Nobody: 8:53am On May 12, 2018 |
Pussickpunk: Technology, aliens and planets are obsolete discussion in Africa. We don't have knowledge to discuss about such important topic. But when a sex issue is raised, everybody would come on board and display their individual expertise. I weep bitterly for my people. Wakanda ko , Jamaica ni . I v not even watch the film sef. Wakanda movie is that? 1 Like |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Jman06(m): 8:57am On May 12, 2018 |
Ejiod:Lol....na me miss you pass guy! I've tried all i could to get across to you to no avail. Hope you are still in Lag? Wow! Guy, even you don leave BCH hey! Ok, programming is cool! Mhen! I'm now in pharmacy. I enrolled through D.E after service. My pm is not working bro. Text me on 09051202500 so i can send my main (whatsapp) number. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by ogbiwa: 8:59am On May 12, 2018 |
I'm sorry Toks2008 but your post reeks of desperation from someone trying hard to pass on that desperation to other unsuspecting ones. Are you married? If yes for how long? Don't come and tell us to take a gamble and jump if you yourself have not lived long enough to see the end result of the kind of situation you're asking us to jump into. Don't say things like "consoling themselves with words like I'll rather remain single than marry wrongly". Of course that is a true and valid statement! Nobody should go into marriage as a gamble with eyes closed. You don't want to live the life of a man or woman who found out few months into marriage that they're not compatible nor even like their spouse. It's a terrible place to be. Many couples are already suffering in that situation. It's. not worth it! 3 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Skmoda360(m): 9:01am On May 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:you be witch?, sound like one |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by jaychubi: 9:07am On May 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ: It's always like this when u r in ur 20s by d time u enter 30s sense will fall on u |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by jaychubi: 9:20am On May 12, 2018 |
pocohantas: Men face alot of pressure too once u r 33 n has sth doing every one will be on ur neck to marry including well wishers like ur landlord By 35 to 40 u dnt wanna see d desperation to marry which men face, for a woman u dnt wanna hit 30 yrs unmarried bc u will see hell 2 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by blakky97(m): 9:25am On May 12, 2018 |
ayusco85:you are right. the best one i have met is a chronic introvert. there is nothing i have not done to get her used to me. she is too shy. i have analysed it properly and i don't see that aspect of her changing anytime soon. when i was younger, i flowed with the saying that with money a man can get a wife overnight. but the reality of it is, with money, a man will likely get a bad woman overnight 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Toks2008(m): 9:46am On May 12, 2018 |
Ejiod: There is an uncommon favour that only comes to a man after he gets married. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Psoul(m): 9:50am On May 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ: Hahaha....may be u are still within ur teen age or u recently escaped it. By the time u keep taking this ur time to study men and walking away from men and finally realized that time has ran faster than u, you will start begging God to just give u anyhow man just to change ur name(though this is not my prayer for u). No amount of carefulness will take away the bad angle in a marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by ideology(m): 9:56am On May 12, 2018 |
Acidosis:You are speaking Grammar Is buying house achievement lol? Abeg live matter and enjoy your life... If you find good woman and marry congrats ( which is the subject of discourse) My point is clear I do not support op's conclusion that guys should just pick anyone and marry just because it gets more difficult as they grow other. As you get older and you can't still find it, get busy with something else. Shikina !!! This world will come to an end anytime from now... 1 Like |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Dirkcoyt: 9:56am On May 12, 2018 |
sisisioge:like i knew it. R.I.P to the time i took to read that hogwash. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Toks2008(m): 9:58am On May 12, 2018 |
obongitiad: Nice question... In the days of old,our parents don't date or court,they get introduced to each other and that is it...but strangely enough,their marriages usually lasts compared to today where couple date and court for years yet the case of divorce is on the increase. What was the secret?,....due diligence... The parents of old dig deep to the history of the prospective couple...they find out many things and they will go ahead to introduce the couple to each other only if they are satisfied with their background check. You can do due diligence on anyone today by checking their social media accounts,ask people who know that person be it friends co-workers,church/mosque members,even exes(sounds stupid I know)...but these are just few ways of doing due diligence if you really want to k ow that person beyond what he or she tells you. 3 Likes |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Toks2008(m): 9:59am On May 12, 2018 |
ogbiwa: I'm certain you did not read the article well so go back and this time around...read slowly... |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Toks2008(m): 10:03am On May 12, 2018 |
AmericanSons: In case you don't know...the men in developed countries marry very early mostly in their mid to late 20s so get your facts right bro. 1 Like |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by photons(m): 10:04am On May 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ: U need a woman to make u complete abi... Ana akogheri |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by Toks2008(m): 10:07am On May 12, 2018 |
AmericanSons: That is because the guys you refer to love GOD..they try to avoid immorality unlike many guys who claim they don't need marriage but will be getting down with random women...i call that foolishness and outright insanity. The first instruction giving to man is that we multiply and be fruitful and we need to do that within the confines of marriage. Any other way is sinful and unacceptable to GOD. |
Re: The Travails Of Mature Single Men And Women. by STENON(f): 10:13am On May 12, 2018 |
This marriage topic is a complicated issue. It is not easy for "WE" singles out there. Different men/ladies with their different patterns of cheating, but the joy of it is that, we'l surely be married one day and all the sad stories would add up to a happy, Joyful, and victorious home because it goes beyond been a christian or Prayer warrior, It is just a matter of goodluck |
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