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Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by wikendodds: 10:58pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
KOPT33:dude you be correct guy jor |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Humility017(m): 11:03pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
OriakuAmara:will you Mind if I visit your kitchen someday? |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Olatara(f): 11:04pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
Ishilove:haha haha |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Twrecks(m): 11:05pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:Same here. I do not touch spoon at home. But NYSC thought me the hard way. When you spend 10k out of 19.8k in mama put, your kitchen prowess will come out of you 1 Like |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Twrecks(m): 11:07pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
Humility017:Provided there's no door to ze oza room. No frovlem |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Ivorianaija(f): 11:08pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
When I broke my arm I wasn't able to cook or do cleaning as much as I did before, but my then husband refused to do anything and I had to cook, clean, and take care of a child with one good arm for 6 weeks. Some men can be a bit too entitled. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by seunfly: 11:38pm On Apr 01, 2018 |
somehow:I'm not married to her, my wife just delivered and she needed helping hands, I tried to get house help but she refused and I understand with her, besides I don't really like house help thing it is like slavery. Her mum was already with us for usual baby stuff and my wife resumed office exactly 2 and half months after giving birth so my mother in-law is responsible for taking care of the baby. I really can't wait for the baby to be 6months so that she can go away, I'm really tired of her attitudes. Why I v been civil with her is that she accused me that Yoruba people don't respect their in-law from wife side which I told her it is not so, atleast not from me but the way she has been pushing me, I don't have other option but to do the needful. |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Nobody: 12:07am On Apr 02, 2018 |
KOPT33: Who said that divorce is humiliation? Mbok get woke. Spineless maggot. |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Nobody: 12:09am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Tednersy: Why is it paining you? If you are a bad cook as well may your days end in nothing but heart wrenching sorrow. |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Nobody: 12:11am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Ivorianaija: Now, this is bad. If I were in his shoes, I would have, at the very least, found somebody to help you if I didn't have time myself. Not all men are like that. Except of course you were not injured to the degree you claim. |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by HolyTitus(m): 12:30am On Apr 02, 2018 |
That Number 3 reminds me of one of the numerous times i visited a girl in her hostel.... Smh, I wish i had a jazz then to transform her to a little girl; so that she can learn better culinary skills while growing to be a woman again; Her papa mama for happy for me baje - wetin be my own sef? Na her husband go dey suffer ham... Lemme rest my keypads here jhor |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by DavidEsq(m): 2:10am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Ishilove:E pain am die! E clear say dis one na No. 6 2 Likes
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Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by spyglaxx: 6:42am On Apr 02, 2018 |
uuzba:. Thanks |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Ogunleti01: 6:48am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Just as there is no law that says men shouldn't be a good cook, a good wife material would never sit and allow her house crumble before her own very eyes because of bad cooking techniques. As a matter of fact, some believe the only way to gain entrance into ones husband heart is through good and delicious food. Girls by the virtue of their nature are very close to their mothers in the kitchen unlike boys(only few boys spent time with their mother in the kitchen). As one aspiring to be a good mother and wife, there are certain lessons which are very compulsory to get to avoid problems in your homes. I have seen countless numbers of kids that would not touch the food terribly prepared for them in the morning by their mothers and after closing time, the same food they would return back home rather they prefer to spend money on biscuit and snacks. Let us forget these Feminism and Sexism ideology we do hide under and face the reality. the most reason why we do see countless numbers of married men patronise all these mama put, bukas,and canteen is because some they are not satisfied with what they get at home. AS A WIFE, YOU SHOULD HAVE A WAY OF WETTING YOUR HUSBAND'S APPETITE THAT HE WILL ALWAYS LOOK FORWARD TO GETTING SOMETHING NICE EVERY MEAL TIME. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by spyglaxx: 7:11am On Apr 02, 2018 |
My Uncle nearly killed his wife one day 'cause of ordinary ewedu soup. My uncle can cry if he is hungry. So he went out this particular day and came back hungry to meet a badly prepared ewedu soup . omo see beating na me dey separate them that day. The woman is the worst cook around. What keeps the marriage going is because the woman is a born hustler. What all men should know is that you are a groom in the first place. So groom your wife according to your taste. 1 Like |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by BabbanBura(m): 7:29am On Apr 02, 2018 |
coolestofall: Definitely not No. 10. Ishilove alot of us can teach una type how to cook at zero consultation fees |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by BabbanBura(m): 7:34am On Apr 02, 2018 |
spyglaxx: Bros some women are 'ungroomeable' woo - one of my uncles had to divorce his wife cos the terrible cooking couldn't be resolved even after 5yrs (had 3 kids). Imagine sending your wife back to her parents to go learn how tp cook barely a month u married her, imagine buying cooked food from restaurants for your family for good 5yrs, the cooking so messed up the marriage that she started fucking everyone around (may be my uncle stop shinning her congo) and then divorce |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by BabbanBura(m): 7:36am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Ogunleti01: Nice one |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by yetty247(f): 7:39am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Nobody: 7:57am On Apr 02, 2018 |
lefulefu: if I say I no laugh then na lie I day lie 100% funny |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by spyglaxx: 8:03am On Apr 02, 2018 |
BabbanBura:. So I want to ask a personal question. Are you married ? And how have you resolved the issue of cooking? Or if you are not married, how do you hope to resolve the phenomena of bad cooks? |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Ishilove: 8:06am On Apr 02, 2018 |
izzou:There are many sides to me. Besides, Nigeria is making me lose my sense of humour |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by oshaosha2014(m): 8:13am On Apr 02, 2018 |
With these ones, anything you say that you mention women in it, you have become a sexist. they over use these modern feminist terms just to intimidate the man, and stop the man from airing his view. they are all narcissistic in nature. bunch of never do well fake feminists. they Sha don't want you to talk without labelling you. motherfuckers. give these ones power and you are a goner. Ishilove: 1 Like |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by chigoizie7(m): 8:24am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Op u forgot to add those that had covenant with pepper. U will need a 25 liters of water to finish a plate of food |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by BabbanBura(m): 8:40am On Apr 02, 2018 |
spyglaxx: Bros, it takes both the husband/boyfriend and Wife/galfriend to sort this out. The wife has to be humble enough to admit the problem - she cant cook and willing to solve the problem - learn how to cook. Secondly the husband must show alot of understanding - managing the bad meals without complains and support - encouraging her and complimenting (appreciating) the luttle progress she is making while she improves. Thirdly, she can learn how to cook in many ways: 1) It's so romantic when you teach her if you can (i did alot of this with a few of ma babes and with the current one as am from North while she is from South and i love ma Northern delicacies die) 2) Catering School, there are one month to 6 months courses 3) Her parents and your parent can help whenever opportunity warrants 4) Owambe cooking, whenever there is an occasion in the family and the cooking is bn done at home, she can participate and learn 5) Youtube videos and DSTV channels - ma babe learnt how to do alot of continetal dishes just by watching youtube videos and some food channels on DSTV 6) Recipe books Please note that in any option, she must be willing, not be lazy, must practicalise, there must be a taster who must not put her down (though it might be a mess that tastes horrible, you got to commend the efforts and the spirit, but be honest that there may be something she hasn't gotten right yet and help her in tracing what the problem is. Ma babe did 'Masa' and the thing wasn't rising in the mould but we ate it like that, i traced the problem to not allowing the dough enough time for the yeast/baking soda to rise, she tried the next time and it was perfect. She messed up the first time she did Akara, it also didnt rise, i didn't know what the problem was but she asked other ladies and now gets it right). If you follow the little i have put down here, the experience will be fun for you both and she had grown very quickly. By the way i learn my cooking from ma Mama/GMama, secondary school boading house, university hostel, NYSC and TV stations 1 Like |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Nobody: 8:48am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Iamtosignno:hahahahahahahahaha some ladies wey no sabi cook wen dem marry na either dem run go collect food frm their mom give their husband or dem collect frm fastfood.if d man is a very understanding man he go come dey frequent buka or he will teach her .if u rate am now i had say on average that the nigerian man of today can cook better than the nigerian woman.very few girls na dem sabi cook o. |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by Martin0(m): 8:50am On Apr 02, 2018 |
lefulefu: gbam |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by izzou(m): 9:16am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Ishilove: Then move to Ghana and regain your sense of humour Good morning ma'am |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by jman77(m): 9:16am On Apr 02, 2018 |
ImaIma1:omo onje! 1 Like |
Re: Women And Their Cooking Styles (before You Say I Do) by skales67(m): 9:33am On Apr 02, 2018 |
Ishilove: Mods breaking their own rules. SMH! 1 Like |
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