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I THOUGHT THEY SAID "AGE IS JUST A NUMBER", AND LOVE DOESN'T CARE?

TWO PEOPLE ARE HAPPY WITH EACH OTHER DESPITE THE AGE GAP AND YOU'RE BITTER ABOUT IT.


HE HAS A JOB AND HIS OWN MONEY. SHE'S RICHER AND OWNS AN APARTMENT. HOW IS IT YOUR BUSINESS IF THEY PREFER TO LIVE TOGETHER INSTEAD OF SEPARATELY? DOES IT MAKE SENSE THAT HE GETS A PLACE SO SHE CAN ABANDON HERS AND MOVE IN WITH HIM?

HOW IS IT NOT OKAY FOR MEN TO LIVE IN WOMEN'S HOUSE, BUT PERFECT FOR WOMEN TO LIVE IN MEN'S HOUSE?


GET YOUR HEADS STRAIGHT, FEMINISTS.

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TALK ABOUT THE DEVIL.

I THINK SHE'S FRUSTRATED THAT A WOMAN LIKE HER IS UP AND DOING VERY WELL, WITH PROPERTIES AND MONEY.. AND WELL ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF AND HER MAN.

SHE'S BITTER ABOUT THAT BECAUSE HER GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT IS OWNING A NAIRALAND ACCOUNT.

Hapigirlxoxo:


I read that thread. To me, it just shows that the guy knows what he want and is not intimidated by the girl's success.

As far as they both love each other and have clean conscience, I don't see anything wrong with that.

Hapigirlxoxo:


I read that thread. To me, it just shows that the guy knows what he want and is not intimidated by the girl's success.

As far as they both love each other and have clean conscience, I don't see anything wrong with that.

Amarabae:

I agree with you.
Some ladies are doing crazy stuffs.
Some don't mind marrying their fathers agemate

prechbills1:


the Samsung S9 I'm presently using, a lady like her bought it for me.

thank God not all African ladies have that backward mentality.

IT PAINS THEM THAT THE THINGS THEY CAN'T DO FOR THEMSELVES, MANY WOMEN DO FOR OTHER MEN.

THEY THINK SUCH WOMEN ARE BEING CONTROLLED, OR ARE BEING "SUBMISSIVE" TO MEN. THEY CALL SUCH WOMEN "A DISGRACE TO WOMANHOOD", BECAUSE "MEN ARE SCUM".

MEN HAVE BEING DOING THINGS FOR WOMEN FOR MANY KILOYEARS AND NOBODY TALKS ABOUT IT LIKE THEY TALK ABOUT THE MINOR THINGS WOMEN DO FOR MEN.

WHY CAN I NOT LIVE IN MY GIRLS HOUSE, DRIVE HER CARS, AND EAT A$$ IN PEACE? IT SOUNDS FUNNY BUT IT'S STUPID HOW SOME WOMEN FEEL THAT MEN DON'T DESERVE GOOD THINGS.

Chikita66:
The pressure on ladies these days to marry is real both from parents, friends and the contemporary society at large, especially is you are up to 20+, even the married ladies segregate themselves from the single ladies and use marriage as an insult when insulting single ladies, why won't they be bothered about getting a life partner?



My own is that no matter what, I will never settle for the less and will still get married to my dream man.

prechbills1:


Some kids said I'm a gold digger and a weak man..
even so called feminist "Amarabae"

Chikita66:
Same reason why I said ladies need to be smart. And yes I know guys psychology very well and I know how to follow guys cos I have studied them.

neezar:
Rubbish

We talking money, You talking nonsense

Next thread please

Dpussyhunter:



hey victor!!


long time................,.........hope you enjoyed the "salah" hols last week (end).......................eating some smoked cow "liver" beside the "pool" would have been a perfect way to spend the week

Chikita66:
Shawama and ice cream .

neezar:

You guys should just bring the trophy back home ahbeg, I just want Liverpool or bayern to win it

Dpussyhunter:



fear not o ye humble man united fan for we know the destiny of the champions league coming to england rest on the shoulders of a mighty, versatile, entertainingj, and attack minded team


their name: "LIVERPOOL!!!"


salah, mane, firmino, robertson, chamberlin, henderson etc will all deliver like we have been doing


how sch.............you done?

Amarabae:

.
That awkward moment you realize that 90% of your mates are getting married and here you are still waiting.
Pressure is mounting internally and externally,
You celebrate your 27+ birthday and boom the tension is brewing.
Relax your nerves.

Sometimes it's not easy being single,
Majority want to get married,
Have someone they can call their own,
Have an active sex life,
Have some cute lovely kids
Go out on shopping with them.
Or maybe all you want now is just relationship.

All these are lovely but don't allow them push you ending up with the wrong person due to pressure.


For yet to marry ladies!
Know your worth,
Don't allow him turn you into a intimacy gadget because you are hoping for the engagement ring,
Don't allow him turn you into a punching bag because of engagement ring,
If you don't like him, never say YES to his proposal,
Don't say yes to someone you have no feelings for.
It's boring, you can't be comfortable with him.
I am shocked seeing what some ladies go through in a race to get married,
Some are now desperate,
Some are being duped by all these criminals in the name of prayers.

They are ready to do anything now.
"I am ready to marry anyone as far as its a man" -that's their anthem, so cheap!

Or maybe you are just in a relationship with him and marriage is not your priority,
If he is not respecting and loving you the way you want and deserve,
Please walk out of the relationship!
If you are not interested in premarital sex life with him,
Don't bow to pressure, walk out of the relationship.
If you are not seeing the worth of continuing in that relationship with him, plz walk out of it.

Your marital status does not and should not determine your worth.
Look at yourself in the mirror and see how beautiful and wonderful you are,
Look again and see a queen staring back at you.

Getting married should not be the only goal in your life,
Focus your mind on improving your career,
Growing that your business,
If you are a graduate, then you focus on your post graduate program,
Getting a new skill and opening a venture with it.

At the right time, if fate decides in your favour, your king will come if that's your dream.
Remember it's better to marry late to the right person than to marry early to the wrong person.

.......
You are special and the best.
You deserve nothing less,
You are a queen.
Don't allow the pressure get to you.

Thanks swerries.
Oriaku Amara loves you all.

Hapigirlxoxo:


Sometimes you don't blame them for that, the pressure from society makes them think like that.

Let's be realistic, how many times have you seen the parents or society insulting a girl for not getting a job?
But do you know the stigma that comes with not being married at a certain age?

Imagine people telling you that with all your education and money, if you're not married you're nobody and some men even get intimidated by a woman's success.

When I told my hairdressers that I just went back for my master's program, she shouted and was asking which man will like to marry me, that they get intimidated oo. I was shocked at her level of reasoning. So just imagine how many people reason that way.

Opentokwowledge:
It is only natural that people feel some sort of intimidation towards someone of perceived higher status. In fact, Nobody Man or Woman functions well when there is arrogance in the air. The important thing is YOU! Does your attitude portray levelheadedness? For no reason should one falter at attaining the height of education feasible. For Marriage/Getting the right life partner, your good behavior will pave way for you.

Hapigirlxoxo:


Yea, you're right but these days am beginning to think that the guys even prefer the arrogant and bad behaved girls. Lol

Opentokwowledge:
What gives you that impression? Nl?

Hapigirlxoxo:


Naaa, not nairaland but I've seen so many cases where the good girls are still in their parent's house and the so called 'wayward' girls are married and not just married but happily married.

That's why so many good girls are turning bad because they feel that good girl doesn't pay.

Two of my very close friends are perfect example.

Opentokwowledge:
Well, I think there is a big difference between boring and good. Some ladies are plain boring under the pretext of being good. It is very essential to know how to balance morality and "sharpness" in this our fast paced world. Wisdom is the key word!

Chikita66:
The pressure on ladies these days to marry is real both from parents, friends and the contemporary society at large, especially is you are up to 20+, even the married ladies segregate themselves from the single ladies and use marriage as an insult when insulting single ladies, why won't they be bothered about getting a life partner?



My own is that no matter what, I will never settle for the less and will still get married to my dream man.

Hapigirlxoxo:


Yes oo.

But do you believe that the wayward girls are the ones most getting married?

One of the reason marriages doesn't last I guess. My opinion though.

Barzinime:
Cut long story short...you are single
You are cute so i will see what i do for you
Come to my office tomorrow

Opentokwowledge:
You may be right but that would be if waywardness is the prime reason marriages break these days tho.

Hapigirlxoxo:


Not necessarily the prime reason. But you know some of the attributes of a wayward girl which am sure contribute a lot

Opentokwowledge:
True that. Tributaries make Ocean.

Personal question, how do you describe yourself?

Hapigirlxoxo:


Someone who is not perfect but try to do the right thing as much as I could, someone who love simplicity because life itself is complicated but is left for us to make it less complicated. So am someone who try to live less complicated life.

Hapigirlxoxo:


Naaa, not nairaland but I've seen so many cases where the good girls are still in their parent's house and the so called 'wayward' girls are married and not just married but happily married.

That's why so many good girls are turning bad because they feel that good girl doesn't pay.

Two of my very close friends are perfect example.