Safiaa:
Don’t listen to these men above please.

If you are ready to settle down now, although I think you should wait some years then go ahead and get married. Most guys your age are not ready for any commitment, it’s rare to come by. There’s nothing wrong with dating an older man, my current is 37 and I’m 23. Good luck!

predmine20:
I am 21 years old and I am in a relationship with a 40 years old man.
He says he is ready to settle down any moment from now.

I am happy with that because we love each other.
Do you think the age difference is too much?

Will it affect me or my partner?

Safiaa:
Don’t listen to these men above please.

If you are ready to settle down now, although I think you should wait some years then go ahead and get married. Most guys your age are not ready for any commitment, it’s rare to come by. There’s nothing wrong with dating an older man, my current is 37 and I’m 23. Good luck!

Jamie90:


That is pure fuckkery.

What did a man of 40 see in a girl of 21 year old.

Except, of course, if he looks 30 and you look 25.


I personally think the age gap is too much.


If he looks like a 40yr old and you dare get married to him, people will see it as a sign of desperation.


Besides, if he does wrong, how can you correct someone whom by standards, you should be calling BROS

Jamie90:


That is pure fuckkery.

What did a man of 40 see in a girl of 21 years old.

Except, of course, if he looks 30 and you look 25.


I personally think the age gap is too much.


If he looks like a 40yr old and you dare get married to him, people will see it as a sign of desperation.


Besides, if he does wrong, how can you correct someone whom by standards, you should be calling BROS

Safiaa:
Who cares about what people think? Those people that will condemn her now are the same people that will laugh at her when she’s 32 and still single. Most men look younger than their age and if she mentally prepared for commitment then so be it. She’s 21, she’s not a child she’s legal in all parts of the world. Let her be please. Not to waste her young life chasing chewing gum boys that will use her and discard her, she’s found a man who is willing to take her very serious. They both seem to be in love, what is the problem here?

Safiaa:
Don’t listen to these men above please.

If you are ready to settle down now, although I think you should wait some years then go ahead and get married. Most guys your age are not ready for any commitment, it’s rare to come by. There’s nothing wrong with dating an older man, my current is 37 and I’m 23. Good luck!

GoldenWhyte:
Pls listen to this lady called Safiaa. She's a serious minded lady. Apart from the age difference, does he treat you right? He respects you as a woman, listens to your opinion and does not throw your age in your face in a bid to discredit your opinion? Is he responsible i.e. has a decent job or business, is focused and not vain? Do you love him too and respect him?

If yes to all above, then pls settle down with him. Most of these boys in town parading as men between ages 25 & 30 are vain and are only looking for women to chop and run. And then, there are lots of females who gets the best shots for good partner at your age bracket. When they miss it, they have no option but to settle for less. I hope that's not your case.

havilla:
He is too old for you, don’t think about now think about the future. When you are a 31 year old young lady he is already 50 years old and his sex drive would have already gone down compared to yours coupled with the fact that He would look like your father when he starts aging soo much in comparison to you, he probably wants a young girl to boss around.

My dear so much disadvantages to you and advantages for him, your better off growing with a younger guy who still has energy to run after your kids.

SoapQueen:



Hello dear,
Does he love you? Care about you? Are you emotionally stable enough to start having babies? Your partner, does he use his age as an avenue to scold you and treat you like a child? Have you noticed any obsessive-controlling streak in him?

Personally, I don't see anything wrong in this kind of relationship. If you love him and he feels thesame way about you. Carry go.

To all of you saying she is dating the man because of money? Why are you all fond of saying that? People fall in love because they are in LOVE. Everything isn't about money, or giving money in exchange for favors.

Op. All the best.

prechbills1:


same lady who said I'm gonna be a house boy and getting married to a sugar mummy because my fiance is 5years older than me yet your bf or whatever is 14years older than you

you always sound stupid

Safiaa:
Who cares about what people think? Those people that will condemn her now are the same people that will laugh at her when she’s 32 and still single. Most men look younger than their age and if she mentally prepared for commitment then so be it. She’s 21, she’s not a child she’s legal in all parts of the world. Let her be please. Not to waste her young life chasing chewing gum boys that will use her and discard her, she’s found a man who is willing to take her very serious. They both seem to be in love, what is the problem here?

Safiaa:
Don’t listen to these men above please.

If you are ready to settle down now, although I think you should wait some years then go ahead and get married. Most guys your age are not ready for any commitment, it’s rare to come by. There’s nothing wrong with dating an older man, my current is 37 and I’m 23. Good luck!

Are you not the same person condemning prechbills relationship because his fiance is 5 years older meanwhile yours is 14 years older.
So much for double standards ( The age gap thingy is right for girls but wrong for guys)

What makes you think that she's ready for commitment due to the fact that it's the man that wants to settle down because of his age, and not because she's very old for marriage

Safiaa:
men and women are not the same. Get that into your thick skull, ode. You are marrying a woman who has more than you, financially, she’s older than you and she controls you. She has you wrapped around her finger and you’re brainwashed by the lifestyle she provides for you. Honey, your own case is a different story entirely. You need Jesus, Jehovah jireh to touch your life

lenghtinny:



Are you not the same person condemning prechbills relationship because his fiance is 5 years older meanwhile yours is 14 years older.
So much for double standards ( The age gap thingy is right for girls but wrong for guys)

What makes you think that she's ready for commitment due to the fact that it's the man that wants to settle down because of his age, and not because she's very old for marriage