IamD18:


There's a thin line between "What can you offer" and "What do you want"

You quoted my comment where I asked "What can you offer a man?" and not "What do you want?"

I didn't ask you what you want from a man, I asked what can you offer?

Stop derailing from the point, you aren't smart enough to succeed with that to me.

Answer the comment you quoted.

What can you offer a rich man?

People are viewing, don't let them down, don't derail, be brave.

Safiaa:
Question not answered. Simple question, with a simple answer. Ask them what they want, they derail. We only offer one thing, but what else do you value? What you seek is what you shall find. Women always make it clear to men what they want, we want providers. I don’t go up to men asking them what they offer, I know what I want and if they don’t have it, on to the next one. The truth is that you sincerely don’t know what you want, you value the so called borehole in between a woman’s legs more than anything else in your life. What do women offer? What do women offer? If a woman starts giving you money now, she’s intimidating and she’s emasculating you. If a woman provides sex she is useless and that’s all she offers. If a woman is there to support you emotionally and she’s alway there she is overbearing. Confused beings.

Safiaa:
[s] Question not answered. Simple question, with a simple answer. Ask them what they want, they derail. We only offer one thing, but what else do you value? What you seek is what you shall find. Women always make it clear to men what they want, we want providers. I don’t go up to men asking them what they offer, I know what I want and if they don’t have it, on to the next one. The truth is that you sincerely don’t know what you want, you value the so called borehole in between a woman’s legs more than anything else in your life. What do women offer? What do women offer? If a woman starts giving you money now, she’s intimidating and she’s emasculating you. If a woman provides sex she is useless and that’s all she offers. If a woman is there to support you emotionally and she’s alway there she is overbearing. Confused beings. [/s]

IamD18:


What can you offer a rich man?


Absolutely nothing!

IamD18:


Your epistle can't save you from this mistake you made by indulging yourself in an argment witth me.

You aren't smart to play me.

Now, lets clear ourselves.

Below is my comment you quoted!



What then is holding you from answering the question in the comment?

Why embarrassing yourself just to sound smart?

Did I ask what women want from men?

My question was clear! What can you offer a rich man?

The question haaaarrrrrrdddd ooooooo

Safiaa:
This is the same question that all Nigerian men ask, it’s almost like a rhetorical question because you don’t even know what you want yourself. Confused beings, as if you’ll be going up to women asking what they offer. Is it not common sense to know what you want in a woman and seek for those things? Done quoting you, as this convo is not going anywhere. You’ve proved my point, you’re just the typical silly little naija pikin who’s confused and lost, just like the rest of them. Have a nice evening sir

Thegeneralqueen:
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families.....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives.....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat

Thegeneralqueen:
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families.....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives.....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat

Thegeneralqueen:
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families.....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives.....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat

highpriestess:

Yes my dear.


they ain't worth the stress,some though.

highpriestess:

Yes my dear.


they ain't worth the stress,some though.

Safiaa:
It’s killing them that sex is the only thing they value. They don’t want to accept it, it’s not my fault. Change your mindset, change your type.

eezeribe:
Women are the ones who benefit more in a marriage.the only reason 11qqq1qq1qwhy God created them is to have sex with men and bear children.once a woman gets married,her destiny has been fulfilled on earth.most women are natural liabilities,so the least a man should take from them should be wife material and working class.I HEREBY AGREE WITH POINTS 1 & 4.
If a woman meets points 1 & 4,points 2,3,5,6 become inconsequential.

TheUpsetGirl1:
When it comes to romance, Nigerian men are known to be actively engaging. Apart from their culture of carrying the financial burden of relationship with women, they harness every opportunity to appeal to their lovers, be it on social-network sites, in their respective offices, religious organizations, clubs among others.
Now I'm going to list 6 reasons why Nigerian men run from marriage .mine is no 1 nd 6.especially as i have been gilted in d past.nd to make matters worst.i am nt always around.i can take dat during courtship but cheating after wedding?i cant take.nd with d rate infidelity is going.am dead scared.na nw i knw say women plenty but wives re few.very few.am nt perfect at all (but willing to work on my faults if pointed out by my partner)but there rr some compulsory ingridient required in marriage.but u see d most girls instead of working on dia faults.the will always say dat a man who loves them will take dem like dat .sleeping nd waking on internet while d babe is to be cared for.etc.even business or wrk.its well.God will see me(us through)


1. No wife materials
Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria.

2. They get sex freely without marriage than in time past
Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole.

3. Nigeria weddings are expensive

In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. Presently the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N700,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost.

4. In search of a ‘working class’
Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home.

5. Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws
Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships.

6. Trust issues
Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there.

Thegeneralqueen:
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families.....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives.....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat

TheUpsetGirl1:
When it comes to romance, Nigerian men are known to be actively engaging. Apart from their culture of carrying the financial burden of relationship with women, they harness every opportunity to appeal to their lovers, be it on social-network sites, in their respective offices, religious organizations, clubs among others.
Now I'm going to list 6 reasons why Nigerian men run from marriage


1. No wife materials
Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria.

2. They get sex freely without marriage than in time past
Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole.

3. Nigeria weddings are expensive

In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. Presently the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N700,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost.

4. In search of a ‘working class’
Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home.

5. Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws
Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships.

6. Trust issues
Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there.

eezeribe:
Guys please stop dating or marrying ladies from poor families.marry within your social class...

TheUpsetGirl1:


you must be stupid, you changed your gender from female to male to say trash.
you don't know me in person, how did you know I'm working in a buiscuit factory? please don't get me angry this morning

Thegeneralqueen:
He don't want to work hard but wants to stick to his gold digging attitude his name says it all

Thegeneralqueen:
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families.....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives.....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat

Chikita66:
Is upsetgirl dating a mod? All her posts be hiting front page back to back.

izzou:




This is the most deluded statement I've heard from a lady


So in marriage, you don't get sex freely baa? Another trash as I expected


So gatemen, drivers, and people that work in the same biscuit factory with you don't have husbands and wives baa? Did they spend as much as 700k? Keep living in delusion


Well,this reason makes a little sense


Give an example of an unrealistic expectation or for ever


You are talking about marriage. This means they must be in a relationship already. So how is the issue of trust here again.? Mtcheew



Good morning dear

Thegeneralqueen:
Nigerian men are becoming lazy, just check out years past when they're being known to work hard and cater for their families.....but these days they don't want to work hard like their fathers did they're always after what the lady will contribute to the family forgetting that they're the head of the family and it's their duties to satisfy the needs of their wives.....bunch of lazy yahoo yahoo goat