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Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Kjking(m): 9:55am On Apr 21, 2018 |
It is not enough that the president called us lazy, now our ladies are doing same.... Hmmm good thing I'm leaving this country... never to return |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Kjking(m): 10:03am On Apr 21, 2018 |
Safiaa:A time is coming and now is, when that thing you so praise in between your legs will be of no value no more.... little wonder why women were the once that kicked against the inception of sex dull... Dude asked a simple question what can you offer a rich man you are there beating round the bush, insulting men generally. my happiness is that your father is not a woman... 1 Like |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by arsenal33: 10:05am On Apr 21, 2018 |
highpriestess: When someone else calls them lazy, you will protest |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by demarc001: 10:25am On Apr 21, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: You made a valid point but yet the problem started when women started wanting every unnecessary thing (human hair, diamond ring, latest fashion in town, latest fast-food/joint etc) and wanting the men to work themselves to death (breading corruption, rituals etc) just to provide those things. Did all these build the good homes those days? 1 Like |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by walemetro: 11:29am On Apr 21, 2018 |
no. 4 is the main reason. any sensible guy wants a lady on par....(partner) with himself... no time for full housewife anymore....not in this ecnomy.....u want to marry and live large,,,,we will both brin money to the table. TheUpsetGirl1: |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Nobody: 11:32am On Apr 21, 2018 |
here is what i think. Dont you guys think it is a great scam to marry a woman and take care of her responsibilities, the responsibilities of her parents, brothers and sisters just because she gave birth to your children and does house chores. Some dont even give birth even, the couple end up adopting babies. No doubt children are great to have, women are lovely creatures, but just like women, a man should seek his happiness too. If you have absolutely to problem with taking up the responsibility of your wife and that of her family, and if you have absolutely no problem with whatever attitude the woman brings into your home (nagging, talking anyhow, etc) then by all means marry. However, if you can't or don't want to endure the above, then dont force yourself into marriage. It is like creating suffering/unhappiness for yourself by yourself. No matter how rich you are, put yourself first. Do not go into marriage because thats what pple think you should do. Go into marriage because thats what you like and want to do. Dont worry about children and house chores if you choose to be single, when their is a will there is a way. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by walemetro: 11:35am On Apr 21, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: Nigerian men did not get lazy. The country just got harder. In my father's day, a fresh graduate was guaranteed a nice job. would be ask to go pick the car of his choice, comapany will deduct it over time. Nowadays a fresh graduate will spend 2 years searching for a job that wont even pay rent talkless of buy car. |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Nobody: 12:54pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1:While you are right about all that you have listed., you forgot (or failed) to mention the "religion" part about women that drive men nuts. A lot of women (married) that i know and ladies (some that i even dated) start hinting you that you're fvcked when it comes to sex while you're dating. the are not romantic at all and they start telling men that they are not romantic. They are happy when u talk to them about marriage. But take it further and try to talk about sex with them (just for the sake of it and not because u wanna fvck them) and their reaction will tell you that u will definitely regret your marriage and end up carrying a lifetime of deadly conji everywhere u go. And to end it all, overly religious nigerian women are domineering and bossy especially if you marry them when you are poor and you and the woman end up bringing up the wealth together. One thing that I've noticed, though, is that poor men tend to "need" women in their lives more than on "ok" or fairly wealthy man (who worked for his money) -- it's a poor man's opium. Most (not all) kind of women, overly religious or not, tend to be submissive to those kind of men or "boys" because they know that those kind of men can provide their needs because, after all, the men's wealth (or little wealth) was acquired without the woman's intervention in the first place. The man did only proposed to the woman coz of the need for a soul mate and not because he believes two heads are better than one in the struggles of life. |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Delivar(m): 5:27pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen:I know your problem. You have not succeeded in finding that rich man so you decided to conclude men are now lazy. |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Nobody: 6:22pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: I am not disputing that. That's why two heads are better than one. Some men don't mind bearing all the responsibilities but others however, will need help. It boils down to finding who compliments you. That's what dating helps you discover instead of solely spending most of the time having sex. |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by reuben79: 8:02am On Apr 22, 2018 |
laudate:u ar correct 1 Like |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Obidikejr(m): 4:44pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
Thegeneralqueen: You sure say if one of them wave 100 dollar bills for your face e no go move u?... Shut up about things you don't know. U know nothing about being a man. From your comment I know Your own is to marry and have children, that's your destiny... That's why ion believe in this feminism bull this white folks are bringing up, atleast up there It can work, but down here, nah.. Nigerian young ladies are the laziest ever, they'd never agree to a policy that pushes them to become drivers of the economy alongside a man... Sit at home and grow fat. |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Obidikejr(m): 4:50pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
izzou:Lol savage |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by Obidikejr(m): 5:02pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
iQUOTE:Epic savagery... I am gonna take a permanent exit from this thread, it disgust me how black women think. For Christ sake a woman nearly became a president of America. This feminism buhaha will be a long century joke in Africa, these women ain't ready, not now, and not Century from now. Roman empires of over 2000 years ago are better than what we have now in African. Realistically, We are African, We don't evolve. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Reasons Nigerian Men Run From Marriage by CAPSLOCKED: 10:17pm On Apr 22, 2018 |
eezeribe: OLODO. 2 Likes |
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