shugamummy:


Ohh now I get your point. So because your probability that some babes did such and such before and got dumped,therefore subsequent doings of such should be abhorred by babes right. What if u meet a new guy and he tells u,babe I ain't giving u no money cos all the babes I sent money to before u all got bleeped by so and so other men,you will come back here to masturbate how the man should grow up. Could you find a way to grow up babe. When the table is turned like this babes usually come out their holes to masturbate. While the hell do u think she should be allowed to visit again to see if she will repeat same thing. My dear no second chance for such babe in a man house.

makydebbie:
Definitely, I'll cook for my visitor. It depends on our level of friendship if we'll cook together and I'll just cook for you. Courtesy demands you'll clean up your mess. I don't know for others but that's how I was brought up.

@ allowing your first visitor to your kitchen. My dear, it depends on the vibe after all. If we've been chatting for months and we eventually meet, what do we need protocol for? I don't allow people I'm not comfortable with to my house. Most of my female friends, once they come, we're cooking together.

Hanseel1:


Xhosa where have you been..

I thought you and lionezza are under/on ban

XhosaNostra:


End of story. It's called earning your keep or pitching in. You can't expect to be waited on hand & foot. Show gratitude for someone else's hospitality by doing the least you can do under the circumstances. It's not much.

makydebbie:
Definitely, I'll cook for my visitor. It depends on our level of friendship if we'll cook together and I'll just cook for you. Courtesy demands you'll clean up your mess. I don't know for others but that's how I was brought up.

@ allowing your first visitor to your kitchen. My dear, it depends on the vibe after all. If we've been chatting for months and we eventually meet, what do we need protocol for? I don't allow people I'm not comfortable with to my house. Most of my female friends, once they come, we're cooking together.

makydebbie:
Exactly. I don't how hard it is to understand.
Especially if it's the first time, how do you want me to invite you over to come and make a mess you'll not clean? Am I santa-claus or something? Na wa oh.
People don't understand little things like this matter, it's a subtle way of saying thanks for having me.

Preshy561:
and the ones that have been washing and cleaning nko?where did you keep them?
aren't they now call exes?
stupid lazy old fool,see how dirty and shabby his kitchen looks,tomorrow this one go open mouth deh curse girls with smelly pussy.



idiotic fool.
wife material kill you there.

XhosaNostra:



Yes!

Some people will never get it, because like you said, we're products of different upbringing. Unless told otherwise, you cannot just put up your feet & relax in someone's house without lending a helping hand in some way. Don't you feel uncomfortable watching someone else run around trying to cater to you? The least you can do is clean up afterwards! Simple.
To each their own, I guess. Shrugs.

deafeyez:


As you have rightly said at the bolded, hence I opted to cook and do all other things by myself, am no lazy Nigerian youth. Not too good to conclude early, but the first impressions you put in my house on your first visit goes a long way of deciding on your fate. However, for you not cooking on your first visit is purely on your own believe and would always be over written in some circumstances which I believe you agree to.

papauju:
my opinion
1, she don't do that at home
2,you did not satisfied her sexualy

bizza45:
~girlfriend not wife oo, were u expecting her to do your house chores for u.. baba employ a house help and stop ranting on Twitter ... if u do it yourself will ur hand fall down[s][/s]

Preshy561:
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trash trash trash.
take your respect to the kitchen by doing the needful.keep your kitchen neat,sweep and scrub.
don't be a lazy youth.

so long she's your girlfriend and not wife, you have no reason whatsoever to complain about not being birthed,brushed or cooked for.Dafuq,what are you guys turning ladies into??

is she your slave or your Nanny?
Na so una go dey turn to warlords online and face harsh realities thereafter

ybalogs:
Not washing your plate definitely shouldn't make all her other qualities fade just like that. That's the power of little things though. I would have asked her to if she wouldn't on her own volition and if she refuses afterwards with good reasons, fine and good otherwise that could be the end of that relationship.

Preshy561:
[/s]
trash trash trash.
take your respect to the kitchen by doing the needful.keep your kitchen neat,sweep and scrub.
don't be a lazy youth.

so long she's your girlfriend and not wife, you have no reason whatsoever to complain about not being birthed,brushed or cooked for.Dafuq,what are you guys turning ladies into??

is she your slave or your Nanny?

Preshy561:
and the ones that have been washing and cleaning nko?where did you keep them?
aren't they now call exes?
stupid lazy old fool,see how dirty and shabby his kitchen looks,tomorrow this one go open mouth deh curse girls with smelly pussy.



idiotic fool.
wife material kill you there.

Dumdumfashion:
You are not a husband material yourself. You are simply dirty and lazy. Don't blame it on an innocent girl.

Preshy561:

bla bla bla shiit.
You think it's everyone that's even interested in that marriage balderdash you use to get some women to their knees?

what of the ones that did the washing nonsense?where are they now?
exes right? to hell with him and his wife material nonsense.

phlamesG:


You're not smart

Gangster1ms:

Don't mind these bïtches.. Most Nigerian girls no worth am at all. All they want is to reap what they didn't sow.

Reelmii:
let us assume that the so called gf did the dishes and got a car then she came here to say that her boyfriend bought her a car because she did his dishes, I swear with my lifr all the girls in dis forum will turn dishwashers because they want their bf to buy them a car too


after they will be asking why guys are not yet marry, the guy should just turn her to side chic make him no even ask her why she no do am wen he sees the right girl then he can give the idiot his IV

Gangster1ms:

I like you now

Gangster1ms:

U get sense.. i like you too now

Preshy561:
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trash trash trash.
take your respect to the kitchen by doing the needful.keep your kitchen neat,sweep and scrub.
don't be a lazy youth.

so long she's your girlfriend and not wife, you have no reason whatsoever to complain about not being birthed,brushed or cooked for.Dafuq,what are you guys turning ladies into??

is she your slave or your Nanny?

fucktoto:




irony of life..

those two ladies you quoted (makydebbie and xhosanostra) are not nigerians, so you can't expect them to have the same mentality with our home-based, feminists-wannabe lazy girls who sit all day at home with their phones browsing the social media in search of gossips and men to insult.

and you know the funniest part? these ones might even be the tough types of girls with zero tolerance for alpha males whereas our online chihuahuas are the quiet and submissive bedroom side chicks and potential baby mamas. look, i'm telling you the truth...i've met a couple of these girls here in real life and have learned not to take them seriously.

mmb:
OP (castedayo), I am also dissapointed in reading your English.