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Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by oYaTo(m): 6:28pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
tolutara: Thank you jare. .u b correct woman. .u get younger sister? kokoye: How 'bout u hook a brotha up? |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 6:38pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
I am getting a little weary of continuing this discussion as some of you guys have taken it to a whole new level. This topic was meant as a discussion and not a complaint, Relax folks dont be so up tight!A few folks have giving some valid points but a lot of what is being said is ignorance!! At the end of the day I don't look at a man for what he has. All I have asked for is the basics and that is where the men are falling short these days. Honesty, most lie with out a conscious these days. With no regard!! Find me an honest man and we can start there! Education I got that, own money have that also, place to live I got that as well, car don't care what kind you drive either as I have my own!! Just be honest and that is a rare thing these days dating in 2010!! One questioned if I am a quality woman, maybe I am or maybe I am not. That is for another to judge as I never boast myself unless one is merely intimidated by mere facts of myself!! Saying that quality individuals naturally attract quality individuals is a lie!!! Ask me how I know?? Give me the hardworking, Nigerian man with family values, God fearing,truly single and honest and I will work with him! Until, then most of you are doing nothing but talking!! |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 6:42pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Tosinville: I know you aren't referring to me a grown woman as shawdie?? Boy please!! Nothing else to say to you! Drop my facebook-----yeah I wont be proud to do so because I have a personal life to uphold and it will not center around trying to prove young boys like your self wrong on this site, Whether I am quality or not! Grow up- and then come back and talk to me in a few years!! |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 6:43pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
alexmark:I only ask for what I come to the table with! |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 6:44pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
SA Lady:At least you posted in a respectful manner- your point is taken! Thanks |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 6:47pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
kokoye: Send your email address- will send you that info off line! |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by kokoye(m): 7:29pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Ladyjide, this is a public forum - you will have to learn to ignore some posts here and not take things too personal. take and reply to only those posts you choose to. what's wrong with you droping ur statistics here . . nobody know who you are . . just yet. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by oYaTo(m): 7:54pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Ladyjide: Hmm babe. .you're sure your attitude is not what's driving them off? You kinda sound like you might not have any more regard/respect for the guy as soon as he provides you with what's missing in your life - kids (or the label "Mrs" , as you feel you can fend for yourself. Just an observation. . |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 8:09pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
oYaTo: Perhaps that's it, my attitude, You need to take another observation if that is what you came up with brother. Because a women comes to the table with her own- she has an attitude ? You guys can't have it both ways either !! kokoye: Not taking it personal as I am woman enough to dish it out and woman enough to take it, just pure ignornace on my behalf is not cool!! Stats- Nothing really specific or picky- just someone between the ages of 29-40 , No complexion specific, Taller than 5'ft 6 who comes from a good home who has an understanding of family values! |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by kokoye(m): 8:19pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Specific tribe . . or you dont mind? alright then . . send your details to kokoyemalibu@gmail.com. send whatever you would like the person to know about you . . religion, willingness to relocate to another state. . we'll start from there. I'm sure you know it takes two . . .all I can to is hook you up with a few guys (who are really really planning to settle down), maybe thru facebook and then it'll be up to you guys. I have friends (33 and above) who are thru with school . .they cureently work and want to settle down. When you meet a guy that is really ready to settle down, the ball is in your court, really. goodluck |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by oYaTo(m): 8:26pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Ladyjide: See Sista, As much as I want my future wife to bring something to the table as well (so I no go die cos of the whole burden), I wouldn't want her to carry that attitude around the house like some trophy or something, which is exactly what you're doing here, judging by the number of "I've got this, I've got that" you've been so kind bring to our attention. @kokoye How far with the Howard University gal now. .why dont u extend the same service you're rendering to our dear sista to me as well? |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by kokoye(m): 8:33pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
^^^^ Are you in the U.S? If not, sorry. I do not encourage long distance relationships. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by oYaTo(m): 8:36pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Haba bros. .I think that's for the young lady to decide. . |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by kokoye(m): 8:41pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
^^^ plus you are also an unserious fellow. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by occam(m): 8:45pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
@ Ladyjide I don’t have the right answer to your question (honestly nobody does) but this is the way I see things: Fact: most men (including Nigerians) are playas. That’s undisputable. You need to show a guy that you are the woman that he’s willing to spend the rest of his life with. Sistas, you’re not doing enough in this area. Guys need to feel that the girl is not a shaje , or club girl that will disappear after a huge pay day. Nigerian guys are playas because most girls only want to go out with men that can pay their bills, buy them some bling, bling… you get my gist. Listen, the journey of life is not linear, but one of mountains & valleys with speed bumps to test you. A guy may have a solid career today (with nice wheels of course), before getting married and 3 years after the marriage, he’s riding “okada” Guess what? He’s family will blame the woman for his downfall due to her witchcraft. End the marriage; stick with the “quality” guy or what else? You can find a right Nigerian man anywhere. Even your thread has generated email responses from some great guys. Follow them up; you never know. Best of luck and hope you meet the right man. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 8:48pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
kokoye: Specific tribe- I am not so picky there as well. I am Yoruba though- my email is ATCAfricanProfessional@gmail.com |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 8:50pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
occam: Your response was by far the best I have received thus far. Thanks- I appreciate the honesty |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by oYaTo(m): 8:51pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
kokoye: Quite the contrary. .I'm quite serious if the lady is as well. If the chemistry's good, then who knows? |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 8:52pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
oYaTo: Well I guess that is where you got it twisted- being educated and working hard for what you want- never gives any one in any relationship certified permission to have a attitude in any relationship. I was raised in a two parent household- my parents have been married 35 yrs and still counting and my mother was submissive to my father regardless of her education background. That is how I was raised, and exactly what I take in to every relationship I go in- I am a believer that a man should be allowed to be a man and is the head of the household. Please dont make assumptions with out fact ! |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by oYaTo(m): 9:04pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Hey lady. .don't eat me up! Ladyjide: I only made those observations based on what you posted. Ok, I admit I was wrong now that you've made things clear. Wish ya the best sis. . Would have considered ya, but you're a year older. . |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by bawomolo(m): 9:05pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Give me the hardworking, Nigerian man with family values, God fearing,truly single and honest and I will work with him! Until, then most of you are doing nothing but talking!! by god fearing, can sango and ifa worshipers apply? we fear our god well well |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by follypimpi(m): 9:19pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
^ Lebron his gone,UP lakers |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 9:32pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
oYaTo:Its cool- just defending my honor!! Just dont assume something on someone before getting to know them is all i ask! |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by oYaTo(m): 9:40pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
bawomolo: |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by bawomolo(m): 9:55pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
follypimpi: kai kobe has spoilt you people. Ladyjide: on a serious note, can someone with a different religious background from yours holla. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by kokoye(m): 9:59pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
^^^^^ response pls. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
Are you beautiful, neat, fun, intelligent, understanding and submissive? Do you know how to love and take full care of a man? Can you cook? Do you have proper skills in house-care, kids raising? are your attitudes well nurtured (or are you the type that easily hits a man at the slighest provocation?) do you know how to LIVE WITH and cooperate fully with a man, how to respect him and his judgements? Do you know how to love your man for WHO he is? Even if he makes silly mistakes?.,. and understand that just like every other man on this earth, he canNOT be perfect? Well, those are some criteria (not necessarily all) if you want a REAL nigerian man.,. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 10:21pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
bawomolo:I am a LAKERS HATER!!! No- I believe in being equally yoked in religion- a house divided in religion will be a house divided for ever!! Unless one is willing to modify their beliefs for the sake of love, Me I am personally not. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 10:33pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
adolfe bad: YES |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by follypimpi(m): 10:51pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
bawomolo:All Hail King Kobe. @ OP Good things happen to those who wait,if u spot ur ideal dude dont let him outta ur grasp and all the best.God will give u ur very own dude. |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by Ladyjide(f): 10:52pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
follypimpi: Kobe can kick rocks- but thanks for your encouraging words , lol |
Re: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by follypimpi(m): 10:56pm On Aug 10, 2010 |
^ What Disrespecting King Kobe Give me back my words of encouragement |
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