victorian:











My dear , the society won't allow us breathe in peace and live our lives . Also family too will also butt in with their mentalities.

Have dated a younger guy before and I regretted it at the end. There are certain crucial decisions the younger guy is meant to take as a man but cos of his age and his exposure . I will be hearing , my dad said. My mum said . my aunty said , you are kind of older , left to me as a guy I don't really care but when it comes to parents putting their foot down, Victorian am so so sorry and its breaking my heart saying this but it seems my dad is pessimistic about the age difference and tribe .
While my mum is even like over her dead body .

Have heard such excuses way back , when I was still naive and foolishly in love . I won't fall for such traps anymore . Experience is the best teacher .

You are better off with ladies in their 20s. And I'm better off with my age bracket kind of guys .

Thank me later

mrphysics:

Sure. Compare the marriage rate to the population of those between age 25-35; you'd probably get 0.005% marriage conversion rate/marriageable age of the population.

Like I said, the cool and calm ones are so small that they seem to be negligible.


How will a hungry/broke boys like me attract a broke lady too. I should be attracting sugar mummies

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So broke girls should be attracting sugar daddies? Be careful though, I heard some rich people exchange destinys of gullible to make themselves richer.

victorian:




I will find and marry you...*Promise*




I understand too. That's why I need to be very careful and weigh both sides , with naija parents, friends and family factor join. Love and compatibility is not enough in this side of the continent .

Thanks dear .

mrphysics:

Lol, akuko mike ejiagha

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Deep. That was how one was like his mom did this, his mom said that. His mom kept disturbing him to come back to the western part during that election period for safety, that dude is safer with family than alone in Abuja... His mom even waybilled fried chicken and food ingredients for the dude. This dude is in his 30s oooo! Ajekpako like me was turned off by such blatant ajebutter shii... I had to jakpa abeg.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
That question is now the norm among guys o. It's irritating. I don't even need to ask such question, simple interaction and observation and I'll pick that up.

victorian:








That's deep

mrphysics:


I see. But not always. One asked me where I work, I told her Mr. Bigg's restaurant. That was how it ended

Saintino111:
If you say so...

rashfat:


Note today's date please....I like ur openness, sincerity and maturity

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol. How about u guess?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Many of them are fraudsters and connected to politicians.

victorian:











Theyve come again

Can't you just use selective blindness with your eyes and skip my stories part ?

Its not hard, close your eyes when u see Victorian .

mrphysics:

For easy remembrance.


It's a business transaction here. If you meet any new babe for Abuja, the first question she will ask you is "where are you working". She's not interested in what you do in your workplace. If your response isn't among the names on her Next Level list, then she has no business with you. However, you might be shocked to meet same babe along Adetokumbo Ademola Crescent by 9pm today.

rashfat:


Note today's date please....I like ur openness, sincerity and maturity

Raalsalghul:
37 and half

Robnectar:
nah monitoring spirit b DAT

victorian:







tell am o

Robnectar:
lol guess ke..... okay 26

Robnectar:
oh no motherfvcker

lefulefu:
so u guys in abuja how una dey take cope getting a serious girlfriend over there? dat my guy doing sugerboy business in abuja say god forbid he settles with an abuja babe.says wen im wan settle down na non abuja babe im go settle down with.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
He tried

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I'll be very happy if this happens. Atleast this thread has brought two together. Good luck

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol. This mentality though. Does the city one live in affect their true nature? No matter where he goes, his karma will b served hot.

lefulefu:
so u guys in abuja how una dey take cope getting a serious girlfriend over there? dat my guy doing sugerboy business in abuja say god forbid he settles with an abuja babe.says wen im wan settle down na non abuja babe im go settle down with.

Robnectar:
oya tell me.... me guessing 26/26
am ryt

mrphysics:

Bro, for me nah non Abuja babe ooo. It's less risky.