LolaO:


That sometimes he just wants to be left alone, because he is an only child. And I should understand.

He’d get in touch when he’s out of his lone state.

This is someone I’ve known for 5 years, and suddenly he wants to be left alone?

If he’s going through stuff, shouldn’t I know? If there’s a secret he’s hiding, shouldn’t I know?

Too many questions...

LolaO:
My relationship of 5 years ended in the most heartbreaking way.

He got transferred to Asaba from Lagos and months later just stopped talking to me, no communication, no closure, nothing, just like that.
It’s been 5 months now.

This is someone I had planned my whole life around.
Sorry. Look to Jesus, he will never let you down.

Distance does not make the heart go fonder.

I am so hurt, it hurts.

chigoizie7:



Ironies of life.


I do not have a gf at the moment, because I loose lose interest easily, especially when I am not closer to you.

I am a good guy, but there are times I just want to be on my own for weeks. Only one girl understand that. And I feel for her anytime that phase of my life comes, I knew I was hurting her, but I couldn’t help it, I just become emotionless.

I couldn’t be hurting an innocent girl like that, I had to let her go, even though she was ready to cope with me, but I had to travel, if by the time I want to settle down, I would go for her if she is still available and wants to be with me.



Just pray your guy is not like me, because I de pity my gf myself.

LolaO:


That sometimes he just wants to be left alone, because he is an only child. And I should understand.

He’d get in touch when he’s out of his lone state.

This is someone I’ve known for 5 years, and suddenly he wants to be left alone?

If he’s going through stuff, shouldn’t I know? If there’s a secret he’s hiding, shouldn’t I know?

Too many questions...

Gaspardd:

I think i passed my msg correctly tho.
Can i send u a pm?

truthsayer009:


Rest bawo! Oga leave me. Lemme shoot my shot Jejely

Take time please!

thowbie7ven:
Edited...I'm sorry I had to put up your name just wanted to be so sure it's you...You went to laspotech rite? I just wondered why I don't get to see you post anything about him again...it was such a relationship then which I was viewing from afar....All I know all will be well with you...take your time and this time shall surely pass

LolaO:

Caleb uni, imota Thank you

LolaO:


That sometimes he just wants to be left alone, because he is an only child. And I should understand.

He’d get in touch when he’s out of his lone state.

This is someone I’ve known for 5 years, and suddenly he wants to be left alone?

If he’s going through stuff, shouldn’t I know? If there’s a secret he’s hiding, shouldn’t I know?

Too many questions...

franchasng:
Ladies listen to this guy.




One thing guys consider when choosing a partner is: how supportive you have been to him and his life journey.


If he is a criminal, do you support him becoming the best criminal


If he is a public fund looter like Tinubu and Buhari, do you support him to loot public funds completely without any trace like Buhari




Being supportive to your man will make him consider you top among other ladies he maybe seeing or eyeing.


No matter how rich that your man is, he still needs your support emotionally, financially, morally, psychologically, spiritually and intellectually.


And if he is still coming up or struggling financially, he will be considering how supportive you have been and can be to him financially before he decides to marry you.


Gone are the days guys choose a wife based on physical beauty alone, your big bombom like my own is no longer enough quality to get you a deserving husband today.


Me I get big bombom and plenty other qualities, so you see

Emaprince:
So Ladies should rather listen to you, who is advicing them to keep many boyfriends, hence turning themselves to oloshos. Between your advice and the the man you quoted, who is better?

Men should stay away from promiscous woman like you who goes about looking for good women to deceive into living waywardly in the name of having many men to chose as fall back when a relationship goes south.

LolaO:


Thank you for the advice.

LolaO:


Thank you.

I'm fine health-wise...
Plus, I've not seen him in going to 2 years, we just talk on phone before the disappearance.

Would I take him back if he comes back? No

iamdapsyj:


@op what that guy said up there is actually true to some extent. I am in one of such relationship and seriously weighing my decision right now.

Emaprince:
You havent seen him for upto 2yrs, and you still call that a relationship?

Excuse me...Are you saying you have been celibate for two yrs?..No sex with another man?

Stop lieing to yourself.

Distance is usually a disaster in a relationship. Lets not pretend.

LolaO:


Okay sir.

pocohantas:


Why you come quote me na? He is just a transitional bf then. It is normal they breakup. I can't even remember the full name of my bf that year. Wetin I dey use that kind mumu bf do?

E pass "hello, I miss you. Have you eaten?".

Toor! Na ancestor levels we dey now

lefulefu:
abegi the relationship don already get comma and the bros was already looking for a way to escape and the asaba transfer offered a sweet opportunity and talking of the asaba transfer it could be he even formed that excuse to escape .its like op don already dey exhibit traits wey d bros no like so hence he just perfected his plans to leave her.u know some girls wen u bring up things u dont like they start creating drama and calling u insecure and bla blah blah .so to make peace reign just leave her alone,cut off contacts and go ur own way..who cares if she cries..she go see another man nah.i just like the way op boyfriend just handle the whole issue..he didnt quarrrel or b!tch like most weak men do(who even has the time to quarreling over relationship these days).he just made up his mind that enough was enough and cut off from the relationship .and as for the issue on why op no visit her guy for asaba u might not blame her on that oo cos if u want to leave a girl will u let her know ur new address? .

franchasng:

Gone are the days guys choose a wife based on physical beauty alone, your big bombom like my own is no longer enough quality to get you a deserving husband today.

Me I get big bombom and plenty other qualities, so you see

LolaO:
My relationship of 5 years ended in the most heartbreaking way.

He got transferred to Asaba from Lagos and months later just stopped talking to me, no communication, no closure, nothing, just like that.
It’s been 5 months now.

This is someone I had planned my whole life around.

Distance does not make the heart go fonder.

I am so hurt, it hurts.

pocohantas:


Why you come quote me na? He is just a transitional bf then. It is normal they breakup. I can't even remember the full name of my bf that year. Wetin I dey use that kind mumu bf do?

E pass "hello, I miss you. Have you eaten?".

Toor! Na ancestor levels we dey now

Emaprince:
You are guilty of something.

Stop looking for pity from people ..and making the guy look like the devil. You women loves playing the victim all the time even when you are busy committing atrocities secretly.

makydebbie:


Sis, lol I don't know how to start explaining to you.

RealityShot:


























sorry eh... Go and visit him.. See if you can still get him back...

its your turn to woo him... Haha!

LolaO:
My relationship of 5 years ended in the most heartbreaking way.

He got transferred to Asaba from Lagos and months later just stopped talking to me, no communication, no closure, nothing, just like that.
It’s been 5 months now.

This is someone I had planned my whole life around.
Sister, PRAY and God will help you get a mature thinking fellow that will give you peace of mind at anytime....between, NEVER do 5yrs relationship with any guy again please.

Distance does not make the heart go fonder.

I am so hurt, it hurts.

thowbie7ven:



I know you later went to Caleb Uni that was after you finished from Laspotech...

greatnaija01:


wow, sorry BUT your relationship may not have been healthy from the start.... here is why...


WAS GOD INVOLVED?

DID YOU BOTH INVOLVE A COUNSELOR OR FAMILY MEMBERS?

WERE YOU BOTH ON THE SAME PAGE AS REGARDS THE FUTURE?

Was it more PHYSICAL connection than soul satisfaction?

Was your relationship really helping you both become better?

fxx2:




It seems you did not pass your Comprehension Test while in school. Otherwise, you would have comprehended that the writer (lady) is in Lagos while the man is the one in Asaba presently.

Meanwhile, I did not see the post as if she is complaining (to you). She just found herself in a situation where she need to pour out her feeling. I don't think she need someone like you but I believe God will surely heal her and provide the right man for her at the right time.

pocohantas:


Then "What are you wearing now?"

Always Hot. Useless boys, when them no kuku get work- na their prick dey on overdrive.