Jenifa_:

is this a rhetorical question? isn't the answer obvious that whites have the highest status in society and are the most populous. people interact with whites more than other races beside theirs. so it makes sense that they will be seen as potential partners if there is a comfort level.
women aren't silly if that's what you are asking.  to me, I think media has over exaggerated the attractiveness of black male. they are more like sexual objects or exotic attraction compared to white males.
and on the other hand, even males will pick white women over other races besides theirs. at least that's what I think.
it just makes sense considering the population distribution and hierarchy of races in US society.


you mean in bars and night clubs?  lol joking.

yes maam. bars, clubs, office, school, church etc etc   the darker the berry the sweeter the juice

queensmith:

You know me   ayettymama is NOT traditional! lol

So, it's you? Was trying to figure out what old member you are.  Hope you've been good.  

lmao @ chiogo and queensmith. i guess a duel is inevitable. 'en garde'  

^ or you can just pick me. 

chiogo:

^ or you can just pick me. 

sounds like a very convenient and appealing choice. pack ya bags hunny bunch. we are going to vegas to get married at the elvis chapel.

chiogo:

So, it's you? Was trying to figure out what old member you are.  Hope you've been good.  

yea baybay! lol im kool thanx happy new yr x

buzugee:

sounds like a very convenient and appealing choice. pack ya bags hunny bunch. we are going to vegas to get married at the elvis chapel.

what abt meeeeeee!

queensmith:

yea baybay! lol im kool thanx happy new yr xwhat abt meeeeeee!

you are coming too hun. i can marry 2 wives. i have just converted to islam right now

queensmith:

yea baybay! lol im kool thanx happy new yr x

Happy New Year to u too.

buzugee:

you are coming too hun. i can marry 2 wives. i have just converted to islam right now

Oh hell naw. Wait, what are you, Yoruba?

chiogo:

Marry me! 

:-Xseriously?

buzugee:

yes maam. bars, clubs, office, school, church etc etc   the darker the berry the sweeter the juice

erm. . . what abt to the alter?

Jenifa_:

:-Xseriously?

No, jokingly. Hey, it's not everyday you find a non-chauvinistic naija man.
why do you sound like an old member? hmm.

My advice to you poster. Assume that the marriage is over. However, dont give her what she wants cos she would have won then. Play along, give her no reason to push u to divorce. Play well, as long as it takes.

chiogo:

Happy New Year to u too.
Oh hell naw. Wait, what are you, Yoruba?

i am a nigerian. i dont like to ascribe to tribal affiliations. we are all nigerians

Jenifa_:

:-Xseriously?


erm. . . what abt to the alter?

there too lol all the alter boys and best man and the preacher and whatnot. they all hang aroung the alter

chiogo:

No, jokingly.  Hey, it's not everyday you find a non-chauvinistic naija man.
why do you sound like an old member? hmm.

there are a few of us around. you just have to look for that sophisticated look  if a nigerian guy is in london, and he travels to liverpool street to buy live chickens ? chances are that he is chauvinistic.

sir pls i beg of you do not ever think of bringin the children back to nija, either they stain with their mama, just leave the woman ok besides, never tryint o hurt her she can kill you. just keep prayin she might charge if you are still in love with her , , pray is the best , things of this nature happen to most poeple not only you;;;; it a cross just take it ,

^^^^

I enjoyed reading your grammar.

wape2003:

Sir pls i beg of you do not ever think of bringing the children over to Nigeria,  They should stay with their mum. Just leave the woman ok besides, never try To hurt her OR she can kill you. Just keep praying that she might charge as long as you are still in love with her , , Prayer is the best. Things of this nature happen to most poeple not only you;;;; it a cross just bear it .

That is a plea from the heart and from one who truly knows what it is to be married.
ALTHOUGH I emphasize that we have not heard from the wife and even the man's posts here do not paint him as a saint and the wife as a villain.

wape2003:

sir pls i beg of you do not ever think of bringin the children back to nija, either they stain with their mama, just leave the woman ok besides, never tryint o hurt her she can kill you. just keep prayin she might charge if you are still in love with her , , pray is the best , things of this nature happen to most poeple not only you;;;; it a cross just take it ,

AWWWWWWWWWWWW. Matters of the heart can be moving. U just had to sign up to comment not matter what.

buzugee:

i am a nigerian. i dont like to ascribe to tribal affiliations. we are all nigerians

Ahaha, please. Tribal? nah, not in my vocab. How 'bout ethnic affiliations? C'mon spill.

buzugee:

there are a few of us around. you just have to look for that sophisticated look  if a nigerian guy is in london, and he travels to liverpool street to buy live chickens ? chances are that he is chauvinistic.

Lmao!! So funny!!! No use looking further, eh? Got my sexy right hurr

chiogo:


Lmao!! So funny!!! No use looking further, eh? Got my sexy right hurr

roymary:

^^^^

I enjoyed reading your grammar.

my grammar ?

chiogo:

Ahaha, please. Tribal? nah, not in my vocab. How 'bout ethnic affiliations?  C'mon spill.
Lmao!! So funny!!! No use looking further, eh? Got my sexy right hurr 

ethnic affiliations ? i am of the nubian persuasion  a black man from the motherland. a direct descendant of the moors, king shaka zulu and imhotep.
see with tribal or ethnic affiliations ? you instantly create enmity even if you havent done anything to harm anyone. tis crazy like that.

oh yeah you got your sexy alright. slide me the digits 

Jenifa_:

lol

wape2003:

sir pls i beg of you do not ever think of bringin the children back to nija, either they stain with their mama, just leave the woman ok besides, never tryint o hurt her she can kill you. just keep prayin she might charge if you are still in love with her , , pray is the best , things of this nature happen to most poeple not only you;;;; it a cross just take it ,

roymary:

^^^^

I enjoyed reading your grammar.

buzugee:

my grammar ?

Nope, not yours, but the guy (wape2003) with the compulsive grammar.

roymary:



Nope, not yours, but the guy (wape2003) with the compulsive grammar.

lol thanks for clearing that up.

buzugee:

ethnic affiliations ? i am of the nubian persuasion  a black man from the motherland. a direct descendant of the moors, king shaka zulu and imhotep.
see with tribal or ethnic affiliations ? you instantly create enmity even if you havent done anything to harm anyone. tis crazy like that.

oh yeah you got your sexy alright. slide me the digits  lol

oh boy take am easy - this ya toasting is something else - anyway my lips are 

My brother life is a teacher,you have learn.But you have do your best ,God will judge all.If bring her to oversea and she leave you rest your case to God.

just wait and see

eku_bear: I wonder why this doesn't work with Nigerians. Indians for example tend to go back home to marry, then carry their wife back here to live with them. I've never heard any stories about those Indian women acting out.

Hrm, maybe it only backfires for Nigerians if you import a woman much poorer than yourself, rather than someone from a similar educational background, etc?

Kinda interesting, though.

Well Indian marriages are mostly arranged marriages. For Indian marriages you also have different scenarios

You can have an Indian girl abroad who is probably educated and is betrothed to a semi illiterate man back home in India
or you can have an Indian man abroad who is betrothed to an Indian girl back home. However since they tend to live together with parents, the girl can be dominated by her in-laws and is almost a slave in the household (This is for the really bad cases)

We should also remember that Nigerian women do have a lot more freedom than Indian women and Nigerian women apart from the
Muslims are not oppressed in the same way Indian women are oppressed.