I DIS AGREE WITH NO.6 , What if it's ATAMA SOUP ?

Dont beg for money or airtime,
Dont brag or show ur riches/poverty

iamyemiakins:
SEVEN THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO WHEN MEETING YOUR PARTNER'S PARENTS FOR THE FIRST TIME.

This is a major step in a relationship, so the first impression can be a lasting impression, believe me when I say that.

1. PLAYING WITH YOUR PHONE

Avoid being on your phone, texting, checking your mail, facebooking or chatting. Sometimes most of us do it unknowingly. It is true some chicks do that just to keep themselves busy, but your spouse parents might feel dismissed and think you are not interested in getting to know them, especially, So avoid your phone at that first time.

2. LIE TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK GOOD

Being fake instead of who you truly are is a mistake that can upset your partner's parents, and even your partner. Remember, they may get to know who you are later or in your absence, and it could really hurt your relationship. If you have told your partner the truth about you and your partner has accepted the kind of person you are, his/her parents should be able to do same. So there is no need of lying to attract their likeness.

3. BRINGING UP A CONTROVERSIAL TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION

Please don't bring up a topic like Religion, Politics, or s3x for discussion, even if you know that your believe are in line with your partner's parents. Some people still consider it bad for bringing up such topic for discussion before them. Concentrate on getting to know them more rather than those topics. If they keep discussing such topic among themselves, do more of listening.

4. DON'T GIVE LONG SPEECHES, MAKE YOUR SPEECHES BRIEF

Despite the fact that they are very interested in getting to know you, they also do not want to spend the entire time listening to your life story. Don't tell them stories about how your father divorced your mother when you were a teenager, how your community people burnt a woman to ashes for insulting her hubby, and all that. Make your speeches brief and interesting.

5. PUBLIC DISPLAY AFFECTION

Yes, public display of affection can be wonderful,but there is appropriate time for it. This does not mean you have to become cold, distant and robotic. Feel relaxed, interact with them gently, smile and be friendly, but make it neutral, rather than behaving as if you are desperate to have them as in laws.

6. DON'T FINISH ANY FOOD GIVEN TO YOU

Whether the food is small or plenty, and no matter how delicious it is. Never ask for alcohol if you are asked to make a choice of drink. Don't be carried away. This is very important.

7. DON'T PASS THE NIGHT THERE

No matter the persuation, don't pass the night in their house on your first day of visit.


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Bola146:
Nice one, noted

Last rule: don't write nice one, noted

I disagree with #5 and #6

Op That your number 6 u lied, All this your rules is not applicable to everybody.

This lockdown don teach me so many things oooo, even the things when for take me decades to learn....

FVck you ☝️

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LOVE IS BLIND.

Circumstances and families varies, Just be urself with good behavior.

Lamanii22:
Never complain about the food given to you.... Just eat it with love...

Except you want me to vomit there

And No.7 what if there's ORO like it do happen in most part of Lagos..

ieemmanuel:
Don't struggle with that meat that refuse to cut with your teeth

That's very funny but true.

Make I hear say I no finish the food given to me. It has nothing to do with why I was there.

I'd rather not eat at all than leave left overs mbok.

Lol like Galado Spider.... Bro if you have money” I mean enough money even if you mess they will say na In-law mess that it is a sign of good fortune.

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AmazingELixir:



Op on what capacity are you bringing up these your Do Not ?

Well Op hear me and hear me good ...if you're marrying from a family where the woman is approaching menopause if you like carry your side chicks come, the lady's family will cares less

Secondly if you are marrying a lady that is so troublesome to the family...if you like carry 10 phones dey answer calls like mtn customer care, the girl's parent will look the other way and be praying you don't get to know about the girl and change your mind.

Lastly but not the least if you are a money bag you can do all those things you listed there and the calls of our inlaw!, our inlaw!! will fill the air even before the introduction proper.

Buhahahahahahahaha

Nice one. But I have issue with no 6. Be yourself, rule no 2. I will finish it, expecially when prepare my favorite pounded yam with egusi and drawsoup full of assorted.

OP, all these na for broke or not too rich partners.

If you're well loaded, in fact na banquet or buffet them run for you.

If dem serve me any alcoholic drink ehn, I will take it o.
As for the food part, if the food look tantalizing, I will do what I'm expected to do.

Just be REAL anywhere you go, anybody that will like you no matter what will still like you....


*Good behavior speaks volumes
*You can't hide light in darkness

JUST BE REAL

emmabest2000:
That no 7 eeeh
Whether it's your first time or your one million times, even after married their daughter and have kids , guys never ever sleep over at your in law's house... it's a disgrace to Alfa men

Meanwhile this Chinese girl below wan use laugh burst my belly

I totally disagree with you. our in-laws have passed the night in our house and we were very happy. he is also living up as in-law so no big deal. we chat and played like family.

I disagree with you on No: 7
You didn't put into consideration that sometimes they might live in a different state from both you and your partner; example: traveling to Port Harcourt from Abuja to meet with your partner's parents, are you saying that it is possible to leave same day and not spend the night there especially if you are a lady....?

I disagree with NUMBER 6 .

You must eat everything and lick your plate with your tongue even if the soup isn't sweet. After this, ask for more and even take away. Then you look the girl's dad in the eye and say, "chaii... daddy you are enjoying o". Then look at the mum and say, " Mummy this is the sweetest food I've ever eaten". My brother you don pass 80% already.

SweetCunt97:
Never use the toilet! No matter how the shit pushes, hold it until you get home.

Really!! y biko?

If you're not happily married at least 10 years, please don't go about giving marriage advice.

Don't wear krazy jeans, blonde hair(pogba style), don't sagg ur shokoto,

No 6 highlights ALL that is wrong with Nigeria.

Fake lifestyle, wasteful culture

If I like my food, I am finishing it. I might even ask for a second helping.

after all that there is no guarantee