;dy all dis kain people no dey
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NO TIME AT ALL

My Dear Brother,

Has it ever crossed your mind that she is actually in love with you?
That is the reason she has waited all these years hoping that one day you will come to love her but you have been carried away.
For her to tell you that she wants you to disvirgin her speaks volumes of inexpressible feelings,, this is a woman that can confide in you and tell you all her heart but you have been so dumb, she sees you as her world, I really hope you know what you are doing.

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Sorry bro. Sad development. You can only do this in one way: sit her down and talk with her. Let it down easy on her and take your leave!

oga abeg drop her number, she needs a serious advice

If u refuse her , a crack on your friendship or perhaps complete lost of a dear friend. which is temporary cos she will find out later that u did more good than harm when u refused and become a more closer and nicer friend than u guys are right now. But if u accept and do it and things did not work out as she thought they would, then she might never be your friend again cos u saw her going astray and u helped her accomplish it. which would u rather be? friends today enemy tomorrow or enemies today and friends for life. the choice is yours. Just pick one

Whats wrong with u? Settle it out with ur friend,u just said she is ur bestfriend! U know her more than anyone,keep the tone down nd stop yelling,u re betraying her by telling us, learn to handle ur business like a man

If going by wat U said that she's your best friend, then I want U 2 know dat with her open proposal 2 U, she's tired of being your best friend. This is a great set-up by her so she could gain d promotion she dream of, --- YOUR WIFE.

U just try do as she want, & she'll come delivering 2 U d "good news", --- I'm pregnant 4 U.

I bet U, she would not accept U use a condom. Prove me wrong.

Bro, its an unfortunate situation which i found myself sometimes back. Though I can tell you i never did it and the girl was mad wiv me. The friendship gradually stops which i blame myself for, any other chance shall never pass me by. Think wisely bro, the girl in question has been a gud frnd of urs, u ar in a relationshp wiv som1, it still matter. but i tell u she desire u for one reason, dat u shud finds out first before takin a step.

@poster,

the reason why you might be struggling with it is becos u wld like to do it but concerned about your relationship, etc. Are u sexually active in yours? I guess so, which kind off makes it hard for you to tell her not to do it.

Tell her NO! Simply avoid her for a moment until she restrains. Its the best thing you can give her.

Most opinions I have seen here seems to suggest that a 28 year old virgin is an angel
For me this does not really follow, how I see it is that the opportunity for her to be dis-virgined has not presented it self
I stand to be corrected on that!!!

Back to the subject, poster - don't do it

Why does she want u to sleep with her? be careful, lest u cast your foot against a stone

just talk some sense to her, don't do it

so hv u done it?

As this is a very complicated issue, but nevertheless I advice you discharge her politely without causing any emotional harm to her beacuse you are nt dating her and u have ur own girl, and I believ dialogue ll settle it.

virginity is no dignity!!!
It is simply lack of opportunity,
Wat is dinifying in sumbody dat has bin a virgin 4 28yrs n suddnly wants 2 get disvirgined by anoda dats has a girlfriend
Wel,gud guys stil dey naija sha,if na me,

@ Poster,

You are  doomed if you do and you are doomed if you don't. I refused a babe years ago and that was the end of our friendship.
A girl in love is not rational. Sitting her down will not work. She has thought about this matter for years and if she could have avoided it she would have.
If your current relationship is not a serious one then you may consider her offer. If you are in a strong relatioship with marriage prospect, then you might as well kiss her friendship goodbye. Tought but reality.

If she's hot, do that shit!

Absu:

virginity is no dignity!!!
It is simply lack of opportunity,
Wat is dinifying in sumbody dat has bin a virgin 4 28yrs n suddnly wants 2 get disvirgined by anoda dats has a girlfriend
Wel,gud guys stil dey naija sha,if na me,

Dalby:

Most opinions I have seen here seems to suggest that a 28 year old virgin is an angel
For me this does not really follow, how I see it is that the opportunity for her to be dis-virgined has not presented it self
I stand to be corrected on that!!!

Back to the subject, poster - don't do it

Guys, i dont know what your school of thought is, but if you hold Christian values, then virginity is dignity and its not a lack of opportunity. God has called us to be holy meaning to be separated from the world but unto God. God does not support premarital sex, hence when a man or woman does keep his/her body, it honours God.

@ its soooo difficult to ascertain the true intent on humans generally be it men or female, but am looking at this scenario from 3 angles;

1. she has craved your TLC for all the time she's known you but could never/afraid to express it for fear of denial [perhaps you are also aware n afraid to cross the line];
2. she's under the impression that since she's been unable give in to anyone guy for fear of chop and clean mouth, she rather give it to you some1 she perhaps adored and craved for all the while, and live with the "satisfaction" that her "ideal love" deflowered her;
3. she feels if you do it you'd keep it between the 2 of u,as against other guys

but which either way there is this fear/threat that it could affect everybody involved; you, your babe and her so a very tight rope!!!

i guess i have watched a similar scenario as this in a movie cant remember the name

GOOD LUCK friend.

What makes you a man when you can not make a quick decision on a matter as simple as this. It took the lady centuries in thoughts to decide to come to you to disvirgin her, get a Vaseline and Condom and disvirgin her. She will never forget you and will remain thankful for that. Its totall old school to stay virginal. No man of true nature will marry a girl that isnt good in bed needless to say a virgin. Its bull-shiitt.

she's ur friend and i think it would be a nice decision to help her out

my bros, steer clear of that girl till she gets her head all cleared up.
right now she's like a ticking bomb ready to explode on no one else but you. She ain't gonna be thinking straight when it comes to you.
It's most likely she's taken a voyage with you to her fantasy island and back a couple of times already. You'll need to watch it.
And if you notice she's getting obsessive, then flee! Will it hurt her? Yes. Will it be difficult to do? Yes. Will it be the right thing? Doubly-YES!

What makes you a man when you can not make a quick decision on a matter as simple as this. It took the lady centuries in thoughts to decide to come to you to disvirgin her, get a Vaseline and Condom and disvirgin her. She will never forget you and will remain thankful for that. Its totall old school to stay virginal. No man of true nature will marry a girl that isnt good in bed needless to say a virgin. Its bull-shiitt.

you are soooo wrong!!!

Dont do it, you will regret it. I have fallen into this before and I am living to regret it, the lady and I are no longer on talking terms - a potentially rewarding relationship was destroyed because of 5minutes of illicit enjoyment, not worth it man!

What you share as friends is deeper than 5minutes of sex, is that all she means to you?

Be strong for her, and encourage her to hold on for her husband.

More importantly, it is a sin against God.

@ obowunmi


Only ugly girls are virgins at 28.

Follow your heart @ OP. I wouldn't advise you to do it, cos she probably ugly and might keep coming back for sexxx, just let her puhssy be, she'll find her man, maybe at 40.


this is a lie my wife was 31 when we got married and she was a virgin, moreover she was a pretty well brought up girl

@ poster
virgin @ 28 so fucking wat
This is unbelievable

@ poster you are a serious disgrace to both manhood and your bestfriend,

Did you have to betray her trust by telling the world what she told you in confidence,

Virgin @ 28, so what na she be the first, in fact you don't deserve her as a friend and you should be seriously flogged.
what is even wrong with human nature, why do we strive on other people's suffering and misfortune.

would you rather she is on this so called Nigerian website, www.loungebella.com.

mister get a life.

On anoda note, people please what do you think of this loungebella thing that has the girls going crazy, can u imagine wetin naija gals dey do,

Nija do spoil

@Poster,

Any update? Banged her already? Keep me posted.

Oh boy far now my own na be say pls pray the girl alot and yourself also.na real prob be that o.bye the way help her look for a mature,nice man wey don redy to take your role.God will help u.

The lady, from what the poster wrote, seems to be suffering from a past hurting experience that she finds very hard to forget or forgive.

1: What really happened to the failed marriage proposal?

2: Has any of her parent, mother or father, suffered any failed marriage or relationship that went bad?

3: Did any of the parents died as a result of a failed relationship?

4: What is her religious values?

I think the lady in question has set her eyes on you for a very long time and finds it very hard to follow other opportunity. She has her own equation about who and what not to be in a relationship with.

She's confused and probably relating what happened to question 2 and 3 to her present predicament.

OP: please provide answers to those questions.

Goodluck and u may need a Jonathan also

MTCHEEWWWW, DULLING GUY>, GIVE ME HER NUMBER JOR, LET ME HELP HER OUT, I BE SHES NO VIRGIN. IM PINKREX, ILL DO HER PINK, SEE BABE WEY DEY FIND FREE DICK CON DEY TELL YU SAY SHE BE VIRGIN,

Try to make understand the importance of her remaining a virgin until she marries, for her to still be a virgin in this morally debased society we now have is a virtue she shouldn't loose she should please keep it. 80 per cent of us who lost our virginity at a younger age wouldn't have done so if God were to let see the aftermath. Pls show her this reply and tell her that I beg her in the name of God she should desist from that idea cos there is nothing to gain from it rather she has eveerything o loose