| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Agugbadin: 1:32pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Do not trust any woman in Africa. |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by victons(m): 1:37pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Dump her.
Na only you no like better thing??
Find a younger girl, they're more hoely but the heartbreak will be worth it. |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Rushna27(f): 1:59pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
this is indeed a confirmation dat age is just a number. Sir, at this age, u shud be able to choose rightly. dis is a lady you know so well, her ways are not hidden yet u claim to love.... well it's wot u ave choose so it's either u learn to live with it or choose a better decision for a life saving tomorrow.... going out and planning marriage with this type of woman will only shorten ur lifespan with hypertension.... tread carefully so as to live long........ Goodluck on ur decision taken...... 1 Like |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by thedio(m): 2:12pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Zzor:
At 37 and you are still like this,you are even the one looking for her trouble because she didn't hide her wayward lifestyle from you but as a lover boy,you ignored,so enjoy your relationship and go ahead with your marriage plans and stop complaining,you weren't sleepwalking when you agreed to still date her after she opened up to you. wow! I'm impressed so u get sense like this. Honestly av written u off. Smile Back to the topic,life is cruel and love is blind.@Zzor has said it all,I only pity u at 37 when some guys have shut down the baby factory u r still running after an old layer 1 Like |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by slap1(m): 2:24pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Zzor:
At 37 and you are still like this,you are even the one looking for her trouble because she didn't hide her wayward lifestyle from you but as a lover boy,you ignored,so enjoy your relationship and go ahead with your marriage plans and stop complaining,you weren't sleepwalking when you agreed to still date her after she opened up to you. I tire! 1 Like |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by mentored: 2:25pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders
I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.
Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.
Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.
We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.
Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.
Please move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks. You don’t talk like you have a dick |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Oparasunny125(m): 2:32pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
paulolee:
people dey this nairaland o....jus like covid, each day na new cases... you funny ooooo |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Paromarc: 2:44pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
I no fit laugh, to ask for help for nairaland dey like to ask google wetin do you, you go type "headache" google go show you "cancer" for result.  |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by vislabraye(m): 2:45pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders
I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.
Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.
Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.
We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.
Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.
Please move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks. You knew she was wayward, what else do you want to do ? A prostitute or wayward woman can hardly change. Sorry !! |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by egbaguy2: 2:48pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Still a sissy at 37..... |
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| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by sodicom32(m): 2:56pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Elders please talk 
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| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Nobody: 3:07pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Xinox:
Good morning zzor. U always speak my mind Good day dear,hope you are good and cool with your new job.Enjoy the rest of your day |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Penboy: 3:30pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Them no dey marry street girl put for house.
From the street they came, to the street they shall return. |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Nobody: 3:33pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh:
Go and apply for "change of name" on nairaland.. And let people value you lol this people you are talking about actually like me,dont be deceived by what you read about me here.Enjoy your day Mr |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Juliusmomoh: 3:40pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Zzor:
lol this people you are talking about actually like me,dont be deceived by what you read about me here.Enjoy your day Mr Ok.. I rest my case |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Nobody: 3:43pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders
I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.
Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.
Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.
We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.
Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.
Please move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks. Friendship with the World is an enemity with God. Abeg start looking for another one, try through your church if you're dedicated if not, keep trying outside the world. |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by oodua1stson: 3:47pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders
I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.
Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.
Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.
We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.
Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.
Please move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks. if you were my son I'd drown you. I mean it |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Lablover01: 3:52pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
donprinyo:
2 things i have for this guy.
No.1 learn how to kiss and suck ur girl very well.
No.2 Stop being a pussy and move on or start betting or doing online investment when it crashes u will feel the real pain as i am feeling right now. Hope your online investment is not penny-wise? |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by armadeo(m): 3:55pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
dingbang:
Which kyn ode you be sef I just tire. |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by paulolee(m): 3:58pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
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| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by mosefin19(m): 4:04pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Even we never reach this age self no mumu like this...
A gal cheat and from there we losing interest already no matter how we love her... and u at this age readying for marriage still talking like this....!until all ur kid resemble another person before u wake up |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Oga
At 37
From what you said she's wayward
Who born this kind of uncle. Nigerians boys will enter relationship and still close their eyes knowingly
What a pathetic story |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Nobody: 4:13pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Please ensure suicide is completely eliminated from your thought as you seek a way out of this |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by santakris(m): 4:51pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
dingbang:
Which kyn ode you be sef Na Odé aperin |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by zakkxx: 4:51pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
If I slap u your brain go reset; God done warn u ooo but if you fooolissshlly refuse to run, when your wife continue to nag your neighbors u go finally kill your self. |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Lumig: 5:09pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
swiz123:
It is never too late to embrace the red pill. There is absolutely no gain in being a simp. This vagina people will take you for a ride if you are one. To even think you are heartbroken instead of angry makes me wanna puke..... but we won't disown you yet; your redemption from simping shouldn't be negotiable.
Well, look at the bright side of it; you dodged a bullet, or rather a missile. A promiscuous evening newspaper is an unrepentant whor'e who can only give you STDs and even worse make you train other men's children. The probability of you being the biological father of your children will be considerably low. This summarizes it all |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by jojothaiv(m): 5:17pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Intoboy:
Lemme book space
Elders please comman attend to this young man
The OP is an elder too.
His experience is an eye-opener |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Happyfela(m): 5:18pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
Foolish 37 year old man |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by Kingluqman(m): 5:34pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
You mean better lady right? Tori Awon younger ladies yen tun ya were gan ooo.. but this lady na their matron Lee99:
This matter get as e be lol, What do you want us on NL to tell a 37-year-old grown ass man like you, my only advice for you is to dump her and look for younger lady, you are approaching the peak of your SMV and she is in great decline so don’t let her tie you down with marriage. Shalom |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by kolade560: 5:51pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
@37  ?? u no get sense!!! u bleeped up big tym......I think d more aged a lady is, d more they are desperate to marry but this one is still bleeping up and Dan. |
| Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by djon78(m): 6:13pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
HeavenlyHolines:
With the way people have sex before marriage still baffles me and many people will still be saying I am looking for a virgin as a spouse of which you can't keep yourself before marriage. Is it a sign of love or trust or understanding coz someone who doesn't have self control n discipline before marriage might b expose to danger of adultery in many cases. Love is not sex n sex is not love. As a Christian n counsellor, it has never been a recipe for success in marriage. Stay pure and chaste which is God's plan for us because it has both physical n spiritual blessing. The way u won't want to advise your children in future when they ask u about sex before marriage,please let's uphold the sanctity concerning marriage. I am over 30 years old n still a virgin not that I don't feel d urge but I always put my body under subjection because emotions is stronger than knowledge but knowledge is better than emotions. Shalom Even among Christian folks many sleep around, talk less of ordinary folks out there. In fact it's very common If you say otherwise People will think you ain't normal But I know that sex is a very deep thing And not something to be played or joked with And God completely frown at it outside marriage Like Galatians 5 states that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God And that's the fact People may think it's a lie The Bible warns to flee sexual immorality It's the only sin you do against your body And it carries grave consequences And worst eternal damnation People need to begin to see things How God sees them Marriage is an Honourable thing The bed undefiled But adulterers and who.re mongers God will judge |
