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Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by spoilt(f): 9:47pm On Jul 15, 2007 |
leilah all men leave their spoons and cups in the sink. we clean up after them. stop splitting hairs. i try not to be petty with my husband when he doesnt domestic stuff and that drives me crazy. i just do them without complaining because i know he does a thousand other things and runs a billion other errands for me without complaining. honestly without complaining. so live and let live. |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by FBS: 1:51pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
Leilah, why are u complicating issues for yourself, in a marriage, i don't believe the color of your skin or your country of origin matters, what matters is the two of u and your kid and if at all you love him and he loves you, you will make it work and that is when you can truly be called a woman. personally i think you are joking and I don't think you are irish. are u sure u not from kogi state ( just kidding and much love to my kogi people) |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by laudate: 6:07pm On Jul 16, 2007 |
FBS: Uh?? Wetin concern Kogi for inside this matter now? Abeg, make una no confuse me o! |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by FBS: 9:54am On Jul 17, 2007 |
I was just joking, |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Leilah(f): 8:25pm On Jul 17, 2007 |
wow thats an interesting perspective thanks you very much. Kogi, I have been there but really so I see were your coming from, I am irish. |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by FBS: 1:50pm On Jul 18, 2007 |
like I said you been irish shouldn't be the deciding factor, do everything to make your family work and God will be with you. |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Leilah(f): 6:54pm On Jul 18, 2007 |
you too, thank you very much. |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by honeric01(m): 7:54am On Jul 19, 2007 |
still on this, ? well it's all good |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by smile76(f): 12:47pm On Jul 19, 2007 |
its better to file for the divorce in ireland. you can file for divorce in the country you reside in regardless of where you got married. seperation will be consented by the court, then its left for who filed the divorce to file for decree absolute, however this depends if there are children involved, who the children will be residing with during the seperation and divorce, visitation rights, financial settlements i.e, mortgages, savings, pensions, all these have to be settled witha consent order being signed by each of you. the whole process depends on irish law, but n englan it takes about 4-6months if both parties agree amicable with all the decision with the court getting involved with all the settlements and kids stuff. anymore info i can help with dont fail to ask good luck. |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Leilah(f): 7:30pm On Jul 30, 2007 |
This issue has been resolved smile. He either helps me out a little or I will give up work and leave him with all the bills etc |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by mishoo(m): 7:35pm On Jul 30, 2007 |
Leilah: GOOD FOR YOU !!! |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Uche2nna(m): 10:04pm On Aug 02, 2007 |
Did I hear somebody say "Blackmail" |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Emad(f): 9:35am On Aug 16, 2007 |
i dont care whether or not the issue is recolved I want you to Ask for a divorce Who does he think he is nonsense ( lol ) |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by boladonas(m): 12:51am On Feb 07, 2009 |
Simply return his bride price |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by SEgbo(f): 2:59pm On Feb 08, 2009 |
Leilah please stop embaressing yourself and all other fellow people in interacial relationships. All your posts in all different threads are about cultural differences and colour!!! Marriage is for life so surely you should have thought about all this before you said I do! If you are so convinced that he is going to leave you for someone else then why are you even consulting this board? If you spent as much time trying to talk to your husband as you do asking other people about it then I'm sure you would not have any problems. I'm sorry if he has only married you for his papers if that is the case but unless you have proof of this then what is the point in divorce! I am married to a Nigerian man and he is wonderful an I never have doubts about him leaving me for someone else - it is all about trust! How could you marry someone you can't trust? |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Feb 09, 2009 |
i think you should pray for him. |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by 2Legit: 2:03pm On Feb 09, 2009 |
this Leilah is mentalo woman |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by honeric01(m): 6:32pm On Feb 09, 2009 |
Just tell him you have a confession to make, tell him that you tried to use his manhood to make money but failed!!!, that might help |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Emad(f): 11:20pm On Feb 09, 2009 |
honeric01: LMAO |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by honeric01(m): 11:41pm On Feb 09, 2009 |
Emad: Abi do u have another suggestion? |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by spoony(f): 9:00am On Feb 10, 2009 |
2poster: I have read the whole tread and I'm not getting you at all. First you want to divorce him (thats the name of the whole topic) then you say you love him to death and you just want to 'learn' how to be 'more suitable' for him. At the same time you keep complaining about petty things. I know where your insecurities come from, I've been there myself, but you have to put yourself together and make up your mind, based on fact, not imaginations and frustrations and then act on it. Please don't paint his picture of useless, possibly used, probably understated and misunderstood white wife of black (nigerian) husband. Its not fair. I wish you the best luck x |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by plappville(f): 11:14am On Feb 10, 2009 |
Dear Leilah, if u know ur man is hasn't treated u very bad to as beating u up, or cheating on u, i see no reason why u should be talking about divorce, Try to build ur home, a child is involve, dont only think for urself, ur husband need his son too and ur son will be happy to grow up with his both parent, so please talk to ur husband what ever ur worries are, it's not a matter of been Ngozi or Khelechi My uncle is married to a white woman too, they have kids, there is no Ngozi thing in his wife's head. always think possitive ok, all the best. ur name sound's ARABIC, are u related? (Leilah) |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by kokorunna(m): 4:50pm On Feb 10, 2009 |
You stuck with him for good |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Leilah(f): 10:28pm On Feb 11, 2009 |
hey this is an old thread andnow I have given up on the whole ngozie thing, after all he gets money towards the bills off me!! he shoudl be happy! and guess what he is!! so we will have to see!! @plappville, I am half jordanian half irish |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by tolatolu(f): 11:02am On Feb 17, 2009 |
ok so you dont have what it takes to stay married to a fine a** Nigerian man, we get it, loose the sympathy patrol and divorce the man! Enough already, oh I'm sorry we must be on 'oprah' |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by binahmad(m): 3:15pm On Feb 17, 2009 |
tolatolu: on 'oprah' as in, |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by tolatolu(f): 5:33pm On Feb 17, 2009 |
on 'oprah' as in, r u on this planet? |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by PokerFace(f): 1:33am On Jun 12, 2010 |
Divorce isn't an easy thang o. Goodluck sha |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Nkiru74: 5:52am On Sep 02, 2012 |
Leilah: thanks militia, I will certainly take on board your opinion. I will be patient, the yahoo man aint that much better but at least I can understand em. I have been to nigeria, I am very familliar with the culture and way of life. I used to be very interested in the culture more so before but when I realised how women are treated its a big turn off. However I will give him the benefit of the doubt but will not sign any papers no matter how saintly he may be.Leila, I think you should still do his papers. Karma will catch up to him. That's just my opinion anyway. |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by sheniqua: 7:57pm On Jul 10, 2013 |
Memories Where is Leilah This was when nairaland was nairaland |
Re: How To Divorce My Nigerian Husband? by Kanwulia: 9:32pm On Dec 28, 2013 |
MILITIA: You go gal! The good old days! |
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