fattprince:

Come back when you are 35 and still single to tel us this. Whether you wouldn't jump at a 70+ man marriage proposal.

Chii59:

Tell that to your sisters.

fattprince:

I'm just trying to help. Your reality is very distorted.

Chii59:

Cry me a river I modified my post go back to read

jieta:
Not criticizing you, but i think i experience what you pass through, most especially when you are approaching 30 to 31 is not easy the pressure from family and friends.

CalmElder:




No be lie.
But you see friends ehn, some of them actually enjoy the "see finish" that you get from ladies, when you are acting under pressure.
A lady will be showing you pepper, your "friends" will be enjoying the show.

jieta:
The "see finish", is one part that has really put me into emotional trauma, i can't lie have not recover fully.

There is this girl that i met where i wanted to buy sand for my project. I took her digit, so we have been communicating for close to six months, i really like her and i base in the north my intention was when i come back to the south i will propose to her and organise a little introduction , and see if she can join me.

So when i got to the south i invited her to come my place after i have visited her even meet her mom in her place. O boy the Next morning i called her to come to my place the words I heard was I nor dey fear any body me nor dey fear anybody oo.

Then after, she say she will still come because we already agree that she will come by 10 from that ten i waited till one before the idiot came. I've already lost hope of her coming before i saw her call, so i called my kid brother to pick her up, on getting back to the house because i went to the bank to do some transactions i meet her in our family house.

After a little exchange of pleasantries, i propose to her i told her about how I wish to take her to the north then after completing my house we will come back, the next thing that came out of her mouth is that I don't know how to talk. She said that is how there marry her sister to Benin, people that married her could not take care of her and she started using rubber thread to do her hair. Then she started shouting that "if you marry woman make you dey listen to the woman " continuously then i ask her to retract the statement and the fool did then i ask her how she feels.

She was just shouting anyhow, and to think that some of our tenant was outside even my two kid brothers were hearing our conversations. Although i'm married now getting to a year i still think about that scenario and I feel depressed and get angry.

The point that made me share this story is that i was ready to take anything as a wife because the pressure from my mum and most especially my dad was just too much.

SweetBuns:
tell them o