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Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Amya(f): 2:01pm On May 07, 2011 |
agabaI23: Well i actually just asked him what he meant by the infamous update now. i sent him a text just now, still awaiting his response. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by agabaI23(m): 2:06pm On May 07, 2011 |
You have just asked him now since 3 days ago? He has not even contacted you since then? And people are here talking rubbish like you were crying hoax Good now you have removed your email. This is better. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Amya(f): 2:12pm On May 07, 2011 |
^^^^^ been seeing him everyday. we spent some time yesterday and the day before (not in that way) still couldn't ask him to his face. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by agabaI23(m): 2:18pm On May 07, 2011 |
Amya:Really? And what was his reaction? Did he behave like he was referring to you? Did he behave differently from what you are used to? Did he explain why he did not pick your call or reply your text? |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Amya(f): 2:25pm On May 07, 2011 |
^^^^ well, he didn't act suspiciously or anything, The only thing that he did that was a bit strange was, He was used to showing me pranks and funny stuff he tweets and post on FB. He didn't this time. I was actually hoping it was one of his usual pranks, but by not showing me to get get a laugh from me, then maybe it was serious. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by agabaI23(m): 2:29pm On May 07, 2011 |
Amya:. I think he is you friend you should ask him face to face So you were not sure that it was not a prank? You should not have posted it here until you were sure. Nne I metaro ya cha cha. You said you have not been together in your usual way since then which is not normal. hmmmm |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Nobody: 2:38pm On May 07, 2011 |
Amya: ak47mann: Amya: ak47mann: Amya: LOL! @Amya, I would NEVER judge you. it could have easily been any of us in fact some of us may be going through the exact same thing if not worse. I hope you have begun to pick you the pieces and will soon get passed the whole ordeal. I am sure you have or will not only accept(ed) your mistakes but learn(ed) from them. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Amya(f): 2:41pm On May 07, 2011 |
^^^^ people that know me say i overreact. By starting this thread, I'm beginning to believe it to be true. By not asking him all this i guess i was trying to avoid a scenario like this, Me: Hey, i saw your update on FB. What do you mean by that? Dude: Well, ermm, i've been meaning to you tell you this. I'm in love with someone else, an er, ermm, we can't continue with this anymore, agabaI23: |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Amya(f): 2:44pm On May 07, 2011 |
MzDarkSkin: yeah sure, I've drawn a lot from this experience and the advices. . . |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by agabaI23(m): 2:49pm On May 07, 2011 |
Amya:I can understand it esp when you have some emotional attachment now. But I think it is time you let him know your feelings about him. Let him know that even though you were friends with benefit before, you have falling in love with him and would want to take it further. If he does not feel the same, then he does not feel the same. Confront him and lick your wounds now or leak it later. Both ways, it will suck but it is better now than later. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by justiade: 2:54pm On May 07, 2011 |
ok |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by sledge406: 3:07pm On May 07, 2011 |
Loads of crap! |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Amya(f): 3:09pm On May 07, 2011 |
agabaI23: so true, so true, Thing is, i was thinking of ending the whole thing. There's no future for us. I'm in love with him alright, but that's not enough to sustain a relationship. The guy in question is incredibly handsome and gets a lot of attention from the ladies, I can't compete with that! That aside, there's the age difference, He's a nice guy really, with an incredible sense of humor, unlike many other people, i just can't get bored with him. I'll tell we could just become friends and all that, i wouldn't want to lose him that way too. No more intimacy and stuff, |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by agabaI23(m): 3:17pm On May 07, 2011 |
Amya:That is some how difficult if he has a girl friend as he claimed and if he does not, he will always need sex and i am sure you with the description cannot say no to sex to even when you don't want. lol Life's cruel naturally |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Amya(f): 3:33pm On May 07, 2011 |
^^^^ well, i guess i'll just take life it comes, if every thing turns out good at the end, FINE! if it doesn't, FINE! |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by agabaI23(m): 4:07pm On May 07, 2011 |
Amya:Cool! |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by ak47mann(m): 5:19pm On May 07, 2011 |
agabaI23:you too concern about Amya |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by agabaI23(m): 6:16pm On May 07, 2011 |
ak47mann:Yea, do you have problem with that? |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Nobody: 6:18pm On May 07, 2011 |
I love the way the poster avoided my post, but glad she has said exactly what I wrote earlier. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by timaus: 9:31pm On May 07, 2011 |
sometimes if a relationship is over, it might be for the best. you will surly get a better person. most campus affairs are really meaningless is only very few that survive that may lead to something permanent. age differences esp if the woman is older does not mean a relationship with a younger man will not lead anywhere. i am a living example because i am older than my husband with 2yrs. i am just a housewife 4now. he earns more than me so he didn't marry me because of something else. cheers lady your man is coming. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by ajadrage: 10:00pm On May 07, 2011 |
The way you going girl, you just might again end up as some "sex tool" for some undeserving male brave enough to attempt some gratifying involvement with you. I sense some insecurity in your tone, what makes you feel you're not gonna get over this guy and have a meaningful relationship? Are you even thinking about starting a family sometime? Are you even matured enough for that? Best get your priorities straight instead of brooding over some guy who disrespects you enough to discredit your "sex" in a public forum. You sound intelligent and self aware, be those and stop acting like a love lorn teenager. . . |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Nobody: 10:13pm On May 07, 2011 |
This poster sef na correct dunce. Some guy yab you for Facebook, you run come here kon dey complain, and you still dey see the guy everyday, Shoo? I know exactly what your problem is: you are one of those women who will always complain about a guy but will never, never leave him because he is panel-beating your toto like an Ajegunle mechanic. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by maworld: 11:09pm On May 07, 2011 |
Well he played a fast one but not a smart one.his facebook update shows he is still bt a small boy(a coward) who needs to be groomed. Bt don't go makin excuses lik *i enjoyd it while it lasted bla bla bla, Pls move on,let it go cos you'v jst being given a bitter pill to swallow |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by ak47mann(m): 10:48am On May 08, 2011 |
omo_to_dun:is called mission impossible |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by bigl: 1:46pm On May 08, 2011 |
Its d mockery on fb that d bobo use spoil d whole tin. Girl, get moving cos life goes on, Too bad, u were at d receiving end but u should have learnt ur lessons now Relationship is not about u loving d person alone but asking yourself if d other fellow loves u AND IF D WHOLE SHOW LOOKS REALISTIC, OK? Best of luck next time |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by armyofone(m): 3:47pm On May 08, 2011 |
you bad ooooo omo_to_dun: kai!! |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by Atreides(f): 5:17pm On May 08, 2011 |
I don't think there's anything 'cruel' about what the guy did. From what i understand,they were in a no-strings r/ship(or better still,arrangement) and he never made any commitments to her. She went ahead to have feelings for him-that's her problem,not his. She knew exactly what she was getting into and yet went into it anyway. Now that it's blown up in her face she comes here to talk,maybe wanting people to make her feel better about herself and tell her the guy's a jerk. I'm sorry,but i'm just not seeing it. I do admit that he could've been a bit more tactful about it. The whole fb thing seems in poor taste,but then again,if she hadn't been giving him free sex in the first place,he wouldn't have had the opportunity to post that in the first place. Either way,she risked something and got what she exposed herself to. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by zxtos: 8:29am On May 09, 2011 |
^^^^gbam!!! |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by kabarka(m): 11:03am On May 09, 2011 |
Atreides: i don't think the poster felt bad as a result of the guy leaving BUT 4 POSTING THAT STUFF ON FB. She herself has NO future plan for the SEXUAL ADVENTURE and so does not feel bad particularly abt his leaving. @atreides paying for the pleasure is NOT a guarrantee he will not post on fb. Perhaps that's his own myopic thinking way for leaving a partner. |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by opribo(m): 5:45pm On May 09, 2011 |
You are lucky he didnt post your pictures in action. Next time know the man you are dealing with wella. Rubbish post mscheeeeeew |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by ceah(m): 11:50am On May 10, 2011 |
@Amya, God Bless you, Take it easy, you will overcome, |
Re: Isn't This Just Cruel? by otokx(m): 12:04pm On May 10, 2011 |
Some thread |
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