the poster is silly! just because a lady falls for a guy on the web does not mean she fell cheaply. internet dating has come to stay and facebook is just another way of meeting a person, just like meeting someone in the supermarket - so if a lady met a man in the supermarket, would u say, she fell "cheaply"?

just let her go.u dont have to post anything on fb, let her parents know that she has shown that she will end up being an unfaithful wife and u cant risk being wit her.the truth is,she has already disgraced herself.u deserve better.i think posting it on fb is childish and believe me,u may not feel better after that,

@Odunno and Agaba123, u guys are confusing the whole house with this Igbo language especially the OP

Igbo Kwenu o!

@Op, please do modify your post coz its lacking in puntuation.Some peeps may struggle to decipher it.Doing so would make it a worthwhile read.

Most babes like fantasy thats why they are vulnerable to internet. Secondly, its easy for a man to hide his flaws and/or short comming.

As for your babe, she no try o. Being a daughter of a pastor means nothing; are we not all humans fighting the same temptations? Every human, both male and female will sometime feel attracted to someone else even after they are married or in a relationship. But we should be responsible in controlling how we feel.
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How can you be sure she hasnt been cheating all these while? Best thing, if you aint sure about future together, then dont start. There is a pastor who use to say that you should trust your spouse so u dont get disappointed. May be u should have an open mind and think less of her. But my advise for you is to call it quit for several reasons. 1 shes planning to suck another man's "whatever" and secondly she's too demanding.

publishing chat messages is childish, u wud neva trust her again, so leave her and her porn life, u can get some exciting gals on nairaland, free the gal, once a porn star, ever aporn star, dey just cant stop knacking,

Re: I M Finished! I Have Lost My Guy 4my Twin Sister. Any Good Guy Here Plz?
« #45 on: December 26, 2008, 05:01 PM »

send me your others pics of both of you so i can give u a nice guy from the states and your life will never remain dsame. if u are serious mail me at hookloverboy@yahoo.com

Dou Think U Arewhort It Then Read This For Babes Only:
« on: January 31, 2009, 10:26 AM »

hello i need a nice babe in portharcourt 2 celebrate the val with, she must be a student or working class. the fun willbe all round u know what i mean . the first person will recieve a marriage proposal, mail me hookloverboy@yahoo.com

From the two posts above from you, i doubt if you are any different.

Because it takes them away from the reality on 'ground'.
Since we cannot fall in love with them because of their ugliness in reality. . . we would prefer a facade . . .

Notice that once the dee-ek has been sucked and fu-cked. . . it is GAMEOVA!

Simple answer. . .it is sweeter than the real thing. Once you meet 'em. . . it ceases to be fantastic.

Heeeeeeeeey. . . at least we can fall in love with you guys before smelling your breath or your Toes!

Your only chance is the h-internet baby!

Make it gooooooooooood!

Poster. U are real lucky u found out early,dont listen 2 all those folks telling u to talk it out with her,wat do u want to talk abt,cheating is a nature u talk her out of it,her change can only come from a deep conviction, U dont post anytin in fb though, But i bet scooby's backside,she has been xchanging naked pic of herself with the dude, She is a ho straight up fb, bb or twitter,no decent girl will dat crap bored or not,she will screw ur friends n she will say it the distance btw the both of u n she was tempted by the "devil". Just saying,

Poster. U are real lucky u found out early,dont listen 2 all those folks telling u to talk it out with her,wat do u want to talk abt,cheating is a nature u cant talk her out of it,her change can only come from a deep conviction, U dont need to post anytin on fb though, But i bet scooby's backside,she has been xchanging naked pic of herself with the dude, She is a ho straight up, fb, bb twitter or wateva,no decent girl will do dat crap bored or not,she will screw ur friends n she will say it the distance btw the both of u n she was tempted by the "devil". Just saying,

poster runnnn, men, she is a stripeeeee baby, trust me thats wat she dos part-time, run man

so many liars around these days; good job blosomy.

I still cant believe poster fooled me and a good number of us. Thank you Blosomy. Ths is one time I appreciate Mamagee and Tpia the official NL records keeper, they would have 'overhauled' you and found you to be a fake!

hooklover:

i need one babe 2 just for bleeping sake anybody can apply married or unmarried i am good at sucking and excellent at digging i am called d don by people who have tried me/. tell me your location and i will be there. from edo delta, ph etc. i go carry my cash come book u 4 hotel if u want. money dey we go dey fire de go. just mail me at hookloverboy@yahoo.com

this was your post abi? Fake amateur liar. More of your lies are heaped where ths is

Guy just forget that girl now before it becomes too late. You only saw the minor on facebook and reported to nairaland. What if you had seen the major pratical of what she's doing without your knowledge then you have gone to bbc, cnn and maybe nta. I want you to understand that God wants you to know it now and 4get about her or continue with her and ruin your future with pains and shame, My advice to you as a guy like you is, don't disgrace her but gently call her and tell her you've made up your mind to discontinue the relationship based on the evidence you have. Remember someone rightly said PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE.

The poster is a sick dude that has been caught at his own game, do not trust a single comment that comes from him
Check some of his quotes,

Odunnu:

I still cant believe poster fooled me and a good number of us. Thank you Blosomy. Ths is one time I appreciate Mamagee and Tpia the official NL records keeper, they would have 'overhauled' you and found you to be a fake!this was your post abi? Fake amateur liar. More of your lies are heaped where ths is

@Poster
I believe you need to confront her of your findings. i am not so in for you ending the relationship like that  because You are u sure you wont be hooking up with another that would do worst things than she has done. The truth is everybody has one thing or the other that they indulge in secretly that their pattern dont know of (not necessarily a relationship). Forgive and learn ur lessons. Has the saying goes, The Devil we know is better than the Angel we dont know. Report her to her parents, talk things over, understand why she did it, Thank God that u got to know all before ur marriage. if u think you can still stand her and Love her, continue with ur relationship and Believe God for the best.
Peace.

blosomy:

Re: I M Finished! I Have Lost My Guy 4my Twin Sister. Any Good Guy Here Plz?
« #45 on: December 26, 2008, 05:01 PM »

send me your others pics of both of you so i can give u a nice guy from the states and your life will never remain dsame. if u are serious mail me at hookloverboy@yahoo.com

Dou Think U Arewhort It Then Read This For Babes Only:
« on: January 31, 2009, 10:26 AM »

hello i need a nice babe in portharcourt 2 celebrate the val with, she must be a student or working class. the fun willbe all round u know what i mean . the first person will recieve a marriage proposal, mail me hookloverboy@yahoo.com

From the two posts above from you, i doubt if you are any different.

Odunnu:

I still cant believe poster fooled me and a good number of us. Thank you Blosomy. Ths is one time I appreciate Mamagee and Tpia the official NL records keeper, they would have 'overhauled' you and found you to be a fake!this was your post abi? Fake amateur liar. More of your lies are heaped where ths is

But the posts you guys are quoting are at least 2 years old or more. It is possible he changed within that period.

There is a possibility that what he is experiencing is karma knocking on his door since he had no issues with doing married women that time.

I am not hold brief for him but just looking at another angle.

Eve fell for snake! Most women fall for anytin1 Just pray for your own and deliverance will come! Trust me on this!

l wonder why u all are taking this guy serious and also mod why is this on front page?cant you see this is false,check wht blosomy posted.
pls go ahead and post ur rubbish in facebook,legbook,handbook,bellybook,twitter,hi5,blackberry,whiteberry,redberry etc who cares, nairaland is nt a forum you come to drop s/h/i/t.
A check on ur post history shows who u are.
Please l move a motion for this topic to be taken off the front page
those in support say YEEEEEE!!!!

Nigerian gals, , Na big waaah. You are organizing an engagement with a serious dude here while desperately angling to suck thunder out of an unknown abunna over there, Khai.

`@ODUNNU as a lady do you just believe this shit that this guy posted here how possible is it for a woman to do that kind of shit?

Weda d poster is sincere or not,truth b told dis tins hapun, u ll b suprised wot gals nowadays s ready 2do wit virtual online friends when dy mit 4 d 1st tym, i c a lot of gals ere 4ming as if na dem holy pass

yeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!

The only thing you have to do now is to stop having sex with her. Pretend as if nothing happen. since you already know the date and hotel where she 'll meet her FB guy, i 'll advice you monitor her movement that very day. Go thru her FB for more details. When you must have gotten all evidence needed, call her and talk it out. To be honest there is no virtue in her. Infidelity in marriage is a cancerous disease that leads to death. It's better to break courtship than to split after marriage. If you are sure of your evidence then, act wisely.

Sorry my guy

Guys / babes i appreciate ur responses, they are nice ones and i have learnt i am happi i came to nairaland the solution center for advise,

i understand that in the mulitude of consel advise there is safety,

i am still watching here closely for now her activity has reduced but they are still in communication, she keep calling me darling and all nice name i just smile and tell her to watch and pray, although i said it in parables,


i know that if money grew on trees ladies would befriend monkies, this thread is going to be long cos i will update you all for advice.

marriage is a sensitive issue i pray we all get it right the first time,

if money grew on trees ladies would befriend monkies
;Dfunny

Comedian,but you are wrong its only in some societies,not all over.But its possible in Nigeria

Just try and manage your finances very well for a better future because once you go broke God for bid,you will see the other side .There was one bros who did not have money again and one, of the junior guys ,when he was still rich started to Bleep his wife,He committed sucide after he tried to fight and they came back to warn him.

Not like im supporting what she did, but in all honesty, I think internet sex is quite common amongst girls. In more developed countries, some gurls make a living out of phone intimacy but still carry on with their normal lives and relationships.

Like you'v been advised, confront her. I think almost everyone is perverted in someway. A lot of pps have dirty secrets, its just that "na whom dem catch nai b thief" Im sure if you are true to yourself, you would know if she's your wife.

Goodluck.

[color=#990000][/color] Bros!!!! first, i feel wetin you feel!! but if you are really in PH, well i no no the part you dey,  My small advice be say, just run leave dat chick sharpenly, u dey hear me so if u try 4give am, wen u see her on 2go[i][/i] you fit commit sucide oooh,  Meanwhile, if you reallly work in an oil coy i'm sure you own a gud ride,  've u ever strolled around trans-Amadi at lunch time? what about Orazi/G.R.A phase II,  cast your net reach ther,  you go cash fine fish wey go make you 4get that 4ukup girl,  I pray make this your heart break heal ASAP! we still fit meet 4 Casablanca or Baracuda, or anywhere, Finally, just know say chicks dey leave their huby houses go get hot S*X outside their marital homes,  I can prove that Mathematically.  Stop burging yoself n catch your fun Jare!!  tell her to go her own way, , gbam!!

The point is if u are not satisfying her sexually she won't go to the extent of seeking for guys on the Fb to satisfy her cos there are many guys around her who can help her out for free. Ask her and u will see that is just a play thing and a joke.

Another Point: DO THAT THING WELL WITH HER.