goldie thx honey

You welcome sweerie

I refer to the response of " you must be naija chics" but whatever don't quarrel there's no need to do that, it's just a conversation

Nayah:

I refer to the response of " you must be naija chics" but whatever don't quarrel there's no need to do that, it's just a conversation

@Nayah
trust me , the statement isnt discriminatory, you must look at it from the context that am also a Nigerian.
Goldie will understand what am saying better. The worst you can say is that am trying to reinforce a stereotype. and really we shouldnt be taking this too serious.

but really, How will you feel if someone comes online and begin to preempt your every statement and tries to paint your motives bad in the worst possible way ??

Seriously? I'd ignore that, you think no one has never try to put on my nerve? I think we should have to control ourselves and understand we're in a forum of discussion
I've seen a lot of thread in NRL where people argue or insult themselves, what for? ha? think about it

Godie thank you you a real sister, thx for worry.

Goldieluks:

You speak as if you knew me b4.
i was only protecting a sister from you internet vipers,
call it quarrelsome,but you know fully well am DAMN right!
if you ever had good intentions,i don't think my statement would wind you up.
and for the record,am not Yoruba.
neither am i ''Nigeria girls''

@Goldie
I think you are taking this too far

This is the first time we'r having any form of conversation whatsoever
and you already refer to me as a VIPER (SMH).
Doesnt sound too intelligent or polite to me.

And by the way, what exactly were you protectin Nayah from  
Did she confide in you that she's feeling helpless and cant handle this herself (SMH)

@Goldie
which ones na ?
dem send you to me
You should be focusing on your books/work/family or sleeping @ this time of the day.
And allow me to finish my night business




No one is having a bad day,take note!
you were the one who posted this,and it says a lot of your intention,
can you prove me wrong and say what you meant by ''night business''?(sounds like a job you do,every night)
am not upset,its just that you are trying to out smart yourself,you say a word and you eating it.

There is the post Pak,hope your blood pressure is at its normal rate now ,lol.

Nayah:

pak I' ve already responded I got it!! the french phrase
For my English don't forget Cameroon is a bilingual country both Frenc and english, but the point is even though I got some relatives n America and mylittle sister in Canada my english bases were tought in France lol

My bad, she's back

Thanks for the clarification, So what bout the other request ?

Goldieluks:

There is the post Pak,hope your blood pressure is at its normal rate now ,lol.

Yep, it is , thanks

Pak for the other request you should be more discret

pak:

Yep, it is , thanks

Lol,
cheers!

Nayah:

Pak for the other request you should be more discret

Blimey! do you know I never knew Cameroun was bilingual, I thought it was predominantly french. We learn everyday

Goldieluks:


Lol,
cheers!

thanks

Na waooo, Pak and Goldieluks why the fight. Goldieluks allow Pak to do his thing, I believe Nayah is old enough to take care of herself

yep pak both english an french although French is more common English is compulsory, school, government, any official institution. Our Prime Minister is an english sepaking man: Philemon Yang

@ Nayah

GOLD DIGGER

Any woman whose primary interest in a relationship is material benefits. A woman who cares more about a man's bank account than she does about the man.

Savvi?

It would take time to knw if one actually loves the spouse or not. In that light, both parties must have passion for a forseeably functional union.

Basseti if you don't understand the sense of the topic, please ask again before jumping on wrong conclusion, I don't think we know each other so be correct thanks

Logically if every one followed your advise, no one will be married. How thoughtful ha ha ha

Dalby and love has nothing to do with logic you must know that. When I say married to the person who loves you that means LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU DO! and not to someone you don't feel, hope I made it clear now.

I meet you, and find out that you love me more than I love you. If we follow the advise, one would want to marry and the other will not want to! When will we ever have a double coincidence of wants. It beats me!

Well that advice it more common for women! because in life it's difficult to have everything ( beauty, money, welfare) so if someone can make u feel special and want to make u happy then considerate it, even though you're not in love as he is you might have more chance to suceed your marriage.

Why women alone.

Dalby:

Why women alone.

Because men are the ones who say "Would you marry me?"

TheCongo

I think it would have been better put. Loves me as much as I love her!!! Otherwise you will want him to be revolving around you and your every need. In this case what assurances does he have that you will still be there when the tide is down? Factoring that you do not love him as much?

Dalby:

I think it would have been better put. Loves me as much as I love her!!! Otherwise you will want him to be revolving around you and your every need. In this case what assurances does he have that you will still be there when the tide is down? Factoring that you do not love him as much?

Okay, let me break it down this way:

OP is saying: “Get Married to Someone Who Loves You and Not the One you love”

It means this:

Give a chance to the person you can deeply fall in love with, provided that he loves you.
And don’t go for someone you are deeply in love with but who doesn’t love you.

Again, OP never said "Get married to Someone you have zero passion for"


TheCongo

What you just exlained is not workable. Because I also never mentioned zero love!!!

Dalby:

What you just exlained is not workable. Because I also never mentioned zero love!!!

Did I mentioned zero love?

chines4:

Na waooo, Pak and Goldieluks why the fight. Goldieluks allow Pak to do his thing, I believe Nayah is old enough to take care of herself

how does it concerns you?
Mr?

Zero passion was what you mentioned

Nayah:

Basseti if you don't understand the sense of the topic, please ask again before jumping on wrong conclusion, I don't think we know each other so be correct thanks

You do realize that the post I made was in response to some comment made by a different poster and not to you?

You dont have to THINK if we know each other or not. We DO NOT know each other.

When a man loves, he loves wholeheartedly, but same can't be said of a woman because of her nature, so i wouldn't marry a woman i love more than she loves me.