hum Ruq many girls think like me

Nayah:

hum Ruq many girls think like me

You know very well it's not true

Probably a novice or a teenager who is just new to everything about love can't really blame ladies for being like that its the way love as treated them most of them have fallen for the wrong man so they end up being frustrated and seeing every man as the same so they tend to just want to play smart and not lose in two ways if they get money it won't be as painful as just being used without money.

Ruq it depends on women you know I' m not really an adept on generalization

sure,, but for some things you don't need to be an expert to determine facts

from a girl, impressive

THIS IS A UNISEX THING, ESPECIALLY HERE IN LAGOS.THE GUYS CANT JUST DATE YOU IF U ARE NOT SOPHISTICATED, FROM A WELL TO DO FAMILY WITH A GOOD PAYING JOB.THEY USUALLY SIZE U UP TO ENSURE THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE EXTRA BAGGAGES ATTACH TO YR FAMILY.

SOME GIRLS ON THE OTHER HAND ALSO CONSIDER THIS AS A CRITERIAL TO CONSIDER BEFOR DATING OR MARRYING A GUY . EVERYBODY HERE, ESPECIALLY IN LAGOS IS VAIN SEACHING FOR THIER LIFE PARTNERS, WE HAVE THROWN HUMAN VALUES WHICH IS SUPPOSE TO BE THE FUNDAMENTAL FACTOR FOR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE ASIDE, AND IS REPLACE WITH OUR GREED FOR MATERIAL THINGS, THIS IS THE REASON WHY SO MANY MARRIAGES END UP IN DIVORCE AND THESE SAME PPLE WILL NOW TELL YOU WHY NIGERIAN GIRLS OR GUYS ARE NOT MARRIAGE MATERIALS.

I THINK WE ALL SHOULD SIT UP AND KNOW THE NECESSARY CRITERIA TO CONSIDERED WHEN GOING FOR IDEAL LOVE (ARTIFICIAL) OR REAL LOVE(PARMANENT)

Kpolli what's impressive? the fact that not all women are not running after money? if yes I can tell there are some who think like I do, people should'nt generalize, there are some gold digger of course but some who don't really "care" about what you represent but what you are

I prefer having my own salary doing my thing travelling, and doing what I want without being dependant of someone who later might say " you're nothing without me" hell no GOD FORBID

Question:Why are nost girls today gold-diggers?
Answer:
Because it was passed down from their mothers.

Crude oil not always mothers, that could be friends or the environnement, some mothers associate this to prostitution and hate when a girl acts like that. Try to be objective, don't be a generalization please

nayah, wats impressing is not that all women r gold diggers, wats impressing is that a girl accepts that women r gold diggers

i dont generalize n say all of u r, but its good for the ones that r gold diggers to accept it,

hate it when a girl denies it (with reasons that she is earning it)

lol kpolli, really don't accept that
But one thing is maybe if some guys were not be so "generous" to have a girl these women would'nt get used to demand a lot don't you think?

agreed. . . . .

we men r guilty of that, but u gurls never make ur mind, so we have to spend

kpolli money should not be a exchange for dating someone hell no
If you want to buy something for your GF because you real want to ok that's sweet but not because you want buy her love or you're forced to otherwise she'll threat you to leave you

we r saying the same thing. . . .

a guy shines thru his gf, so he tries to get her all the "bling" he can buy

unfortunately relationships are biased now

true

@Nayah

Nice talk

Ototx really I'm so disappointed about what our brothers think about us

me inko,

u see males never support themselves, smh

lol kpolli

Nayah:

lol kpolli, really don't accept that
But one thing is maybe if some guys were not be so "generous" to have a girl these women would'nt get used to demand a lot don't you think?

I agree with this - its at least 30% or the reason there are so many Gold-drillers in naija today

@ poster, you try well well o!!! I actually wanted to ignore this post because i thought it was posted by a guy;
But i am surprised to know it is from a girl, wonders shall never end. so we still have ladies that reason this way in
this Naija?

Rapmoney:

@ poster, you try well well o!!! I actually wanted to ignore this post because i thought it was posted by a guy;
But i am surprised to know it is from a girl, wonders shall never end. so we still have ladies that reason this way in
this Naija?

me Liberian

but yea we still got women that issue this and i hate it more then anything

in a relationship i know love is the number one priority but my guy while loving, the guy needs to be responsible. if u have ur two hands and legs i see no reason why you are incapable of taking care of ur babe my guy me responsible.