Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

Story long.

Run!

A woman you want to marry isn't straight and you are still talking about love? Willingly can you share her with other ladies?

So after giving and receiving orals she will still kiss you with that? Even though one can do orals with his woman, so after that she goes on to do it with a random lady outside?

Think Think man....Too many straight, sweet intelligent decent ladies out there...Jaree.

LGBT should marry LGBT.

Straight must marry straight...

Injustice arise when you treat unequals, equally...And vice versa.

I know it is the mind blowing sex she gives you that is making you reason anyhow But you must know a wife is different from a girl friend o.

They have come.

The defenders of defence.

Even as I want the guy to stay around and work on his love bird don't tell me bisexuality is normal. Its bad that's why she needs to be worked on.

Bro if you love her kindly stay around and make her a better person. Never leave her in that space.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Who makes it evil?

Just imagine man and man. Disgusting

God design sex between man and woman.
How ur papa and mama take concieve you.

90% of them are lesbian

NOwazobia:
Who give birth to gays? Like gay from the womb? Nothing I no go hear for nairaland.

Then we should learn to live with terrorist likewise, they were also given birth to. Emotional terrorism is not that different from physical terrorism. Shikena

if u have heard the word "hermaphrodite" u wouldn't quote me.

People saying that they don't see anything bad in HOMOSEXUALITY should be stoned, dirty things

cherryCola:
I don't have a problem with my girl being a lesbian.

Can you marry one?

this Fernandezisback na de most confused and stupid individual we have on Nairaland here

Righteousness2 need to conduct deliverance on you

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Who makes it evil?

Charisma01:


Just imagine man and man. Disgusting

God design sex between man and woman.
How ur papa and mama take concieve you.

God is an imaginary creature..so he should be brought into reality..

AbujaCitiBlog:

Why should you be surprised? I have been shouting myself hoarse for many years. Most young girls of nowadays are lesbians, coded lesbians but you morose hegoats will never learn, you think because a woman spread her legs and pretend to be moaning that she is really into you. She is just using you to catch cruise. And this is because most men do not pay any form of attention to details. That is also why women catch them ofguard and kill them easily when they are asleep or even poison them. Bunch of fools. One girls told me that her frustration with men is that we are so basic. We can't see beyond our noses the moment we see pussy! She told me and I truly believe her that men are the easiest people to manipulate. You thought you were in love with her all these while but she was never into you. While you are wasting your time she is fantasizing about her real love the one she desires to suck her pussy not your wrinkled and wack dick.

This generation of hegoats have made the penis the most worthless part of a human body. Idiots!

Brother take it easy na
Lol
It is well

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Nothing Evil in homosexuality..it's who they are..stop disturbing everyone with your imaginary creature pls...
He has no business with reality....

It's who they are? Who they are ke. That's evil joo

FERNANDEZISBACK:

God is an imaginary creature..so he should be brought into reality..

No worry, when you die, body go tell you

Her lesbian friend get deek❓❓☺️



If no, then nothing to be worried about✌️✌️✌️

Charisma01:


No worry, when you die, body go tell you

Expected..

Some gals indulge in certain things which they're quite oblivious of. I'm aware of a similar case right now, though not my fiancé. She met this guy in the university and he happened to be her first love. This guy from akwa ibom injected a substance in her system to drive sexx or for sexx urge. This girl later became wild such that, she can't spend a week without doing it. As the situation became worse, she went and bought a Love Machine which still didn't solve her problem. She could leave her work and enter a toilet to use the Love Machine until she became normal again after the urge is subsided. She later indulged in bisexuality by engaging her friends. She'd lodge them in a hotel. She lured one of her friends into it but the gal refused. She's become so addicted to it. Guys and gals do some bad stuffs while in the university unknowingly, which would later hurt their existence and life after school.

OP, your babe could be one of those. Take her to a reliable rehab because 99% of the time, ordinary talk won't change an addicted being. Unfortunately, not many people believe in deliverance . But if you do, I'd suggest you take her for deliverance in a reliable church. You both can even fast and pray about it without seeing any pastor. It's the only panacea I know. Good luck.

That shows she's a bisexual,not a lesbian

Lesbianism is a disease, once you get into it, it's very hard to repent! What lesbians do, especially in Africa is: they try to be bisexual in order to marry to cover family and societal shaming. And after marriage, they go into full blown lesbian life! By that time, no one will believe your story as a man when you accuse them!

.....did I hear someone say there is nothing wrong being a bi-sexual?
Where did we leave our morals?
When have we started seeing evil and taboos as a way of life?
Your admittance to bi-sexuality rendered all your advisories nullity.
Your comment does not differ when one says there is nothing wrong eating in a toilet when pooing?
Disgusting ......

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

Mhen, she ain't a lesbian! She's MORE!! She's double dating actual MEN!!! She played along since you already suggested it.

She's going to clear chats before tomorrow

Deblow:
Well, if she eventually confess to being a lesbian, and she's truly working towards fixing it, go ahead and forgive her and marry her if u truly love her. Everyone has pasts, so take it as her past. Give her aggressive counseling and moral rejuvenation.

If She Confess eventually, She Only did that because she got Caught. Please read your above comment and ask yourself this ➡ will you give your own brother this advice if he ask you? So many wicked people here

LLSAINT:
.....did I hear someone say there is nothing wrong being a bi-sexual?
Where did we leave our morals?
When have we started seeing evil and taboos as a way of life?
Your admittance to bi-sexuality rendered all your advisories nullity.
Your comment does not differ when one says there is nothing wrong eating in a toilet when pooing?
Disgusting ......

Cry as much as you want..

Heathrow44:
the wicked girl played u.like a violin, u shouldn't have let her go, now she has gone home.to strategize on the lie she would tell, and probably fake a strory of.how her father used to.rape her when she was young and how she became a nymph and started doing girls, the only.way to know the truth is to ask her to do a lie detector test cos u messed up the only opportunity at knowing the truth, which was the time u ask her if she was, and u should av demanded a direct answer and let her come tomorrow for the.story, just don't believe when a girl starts playing emotional games with u, after when they go home they laugh at ur stupidity and say phew I dogged this one like bullet”

This is very true. He shouldn't have allowed her go. She surely will come back with reversed psychology on him, emotional blackmail and lots of lies

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Expected..

Take it from someone who has died & come back.

AccessME:
if u have heard the word "hermaphrodite" u wouldn't quote me.

I guess you don't even understand what that term entails, hence, you wouldn't come at me with that weak already defeated line.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

Who told you that?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Yeah absolutely nothing..you don't have a problem with that do you?

Get out of here. You can't have eternal life when you are having carnal and anal life. We don't know who you are... Whatever you are... You know what is good to be...

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Nothing Evil in homosexuality..it's who they are..stop disturbing everyone with your imaginary creature pls...
He has no business with reality....

Lol

This girl you are not well at all

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...

I have always known something is seriously wrong with you

Wetin Carry you go her phone? Just thank God you never get heart Attack as you take type this message

Do you know of any sexual rehabilitation centers in Nigeria?

Eriokanmi:
Some gals indulge in certain things which they're quite oblivious of. I'm aware of a similar case right now, though not my fiancé. She met this guy in the university and he happened to be her first love. This guy from akwa ibom injected a substance in her system to drive sexx or for sexx urge. This girl later became wild such that, she can't spend a week without doing it. As the situation became worse, she went and bought a Love Machine which still didn't solve her problem. She could leave her work and enter a toilet to use the Love Machine until she became normal again after the urge is subsided. She later indulged in bisexuality by engaging her friends. She'd lodge them in a hotel. She lured one of her friends into it but the gal refused. She's become so addicted to it. Guys and gals do some bad stuffs while in the university unknowingly, which would later hurt their existence and life after school.

OP, your babe could be one of those. Take her to a reliable rehab because 99% of the time, ordinary talk won't change an addicted being. Unfortunately, not many people believe in deliverance . But if you do, I'd suggest you take her for deliverance in a reliable church. You both can even fast and pray about it without seeing any pastor. It's the only panacea I know. Good luck.

Since you have known her relationship status it's high time to discontinue the relationship.

Ekejoestar:
Where can I get a lesbian babe, not the one that will do me with dild.o.

The writer said he needed matured advices, but little Kid like you need to leave this thread for mature minded people