FERNANDEZISBACK:

Nothing Evil in homosexuality..it's who they are..stop disturbing everyone with your imaginary creature pls...
He has no business with reality....

It's not who they are, its a distortion of the mind causing them to be confused about who they are.

Some are triggered by abuse early in life by either a male or female. If by a male, they may get to dislike or barely tolerate the male gender. If by a female, they may begin to enjoy the practice and continue. These doesn't absolve the fact that they are traumatized and make decisions based on it.

Some others just become unnecessarily adventurous and become addicted to the practice.

Still yet, some others suffer low self esteem and feel they will be better accepted by their own gender.

If they get to see a good therapist, they might be able to trace the triggers.

It is actually a state of confusion that needs some prodding and help of mental health specialists.

THE PROBLEM with NIGERIA isn't the GOVERNMENT, it isn't RELIGION, it isn't TRIBES, our CORE PROBLEM is "DENIAL and ACCEPTANCE", DENIAL in sense that Lesbianism has either existed since time of Father Abraham and Modernity evolved Humans to Come out of the closet, like haba!!! Most people condemning this Lesbian ladies masturbate in private, most people watch porn, like there's KIDNAPPING,RITUAL and other VICES but na Lesbianism be your own Problem, Oga don't condemn that Lady atall.Its sick of anyone who does. Now ACCEPTANCE, we fail to realise that the earlier we accept the Reality of a Situation the earlier we can Profer a panacea to it, stop the HATE, stop the RESENTMENT, stop the GUILT TRIP......SPREAD LOVE, my Personal Advice if Lesbianism disgusts you Break up with her amicably but let her know you're the one at FAULT, as for me if I date a BISEXUAL Lady and she's all I want in a woman, I really don't mind getting in bed with her partner or watch her do it, as in make she Sha tell me before marriage....PERIOD!!!

Very simple f*ck her n her friend on same bed

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

No problem being bisexual? What if it was a male?

cococandy:
Do you know of any sexual rehabilitation centers in Nigeria?

A male rehab yea. I'd have to find out on the female one and revert. My case was a weird one but thank God I'm out of it already. A couple of years back. One gal wouid never satisfy me. They must be 2 and must be made tired before leaving them, to the extent that I was considering joining a pornn industry.

It entails a lot to get out if it.

Even married women are lesbian talk of girlfriend let her be jo

You failed her and you failed her parent ,when you can use dick and tongue to change her story and sense of reasoning, she will even go to church for testimonies gerarahere jor

Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Na them member, HOMO, by their comments you shall observe them

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Lalami3232:
.... Your serious babe dey chop both preek, cucumber and toto at the same time. Na the mouth wey she don take suck her fellow lesbian na she go take kiss you. Maybe she go even dey pray for you with that mouth . Bros, abeg you fit snap her mouth for us ? Anyways, I no dey shock for wetin our babe dey do anymore because what they can't do doesn't exist.
But on a serious note eeh bros, if she get good character and she's good to you, ogbeni no discard her oooo because good girls are rare to come by. This one dey cheat on you with a babe, what's the possibility say the next one no go cheat with guys? If you love her, una go fit fight this thing and overcome am. But funny enough eeh, maybe this OP get other babes outside oooooo. Men no fit take half of wetin we dey dish out to women, that's the raw truth. Laslas sha, your future pikin don get godmother .


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja girl na either a public or private ashawo"

Very true. Please op, don't disregard this contribution.

Kuriosmynd:
No solution to your problem. Once a lesbian,always a lesbian.
.
Move on or just marry her like that and face the brutal consequences later on.
.
There's nothing like fixing.
She can never tell you the truth of how long she's been a les. What if she's been like that since 16 (secondary schl) do you expect her to tell you that? Lol.
.
Do you even know if her lesbian aspect is the most pleasurable and fullfiling sexual experience for her, while u are just the expendable provider for her needs and emotional baggage?
.
Guy. Run. Run o
Most lesbian or bi dey dey wicked for guys. Cos na Dem carry feminism put for head pass.
.
Na when dem enter ur house, u go see their true colors. They have no regard or respect for men o...Forget the love she's showing. Na fake. She's looking for the societal ring and the unlucky man she go use practice her feminism for marriage...lol

Deep down guys will crave for party ( 2 females , 1 male ) some guys don’t mind watching 2 females make love to themselves. Irony of life . There is an order of life. I’ve not seen a dog ( or any form of animal ) copulate with same dog ( or animal ) of same gender .
We should be careful how we go about forming “ woke’
Invite her and her lesbian partner(s) , and keep on flogging their pussies. You are lucky , you may not even spend on them . You will be charging 2 free pussies.
As for marriage, that’s a no for me .

You must be beautiful ,neat and clean.

Hit me up

Lalami3232:
.... Your serious babe dey chop both preek, cucumber and toto at the same time. Na the mouth wey she don take suck her fellow lesbian na she go take kiss you. Maybe she go even dey pray for you with that mouth . Bros, abeg you fit snap her mouth for us ? Anyways, I no dey shock for wetin our babe dey do anymore because what they can't do doesn't exist.
But on a serious note eeh bros, if she get good character and she's good to you, ogbeni no discard her oooo because good girls are rare to come by. This one dey cheat on you with a babe, what's the possibility say the next one no go cheat with guys? If you love her, una go fit fight this thing and overcome am. But funny enough eeh, maybe this OP get other babes outside oooooo. Men no fit take half of wetin we dey dish out to women, that's the raw truth. Laslas sha, your future pikin don get godmother .


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the average 9ja girl na either a public or private ashawo"

..correct bro....LOLZ...........

Kuriosmynd:
No solution to your problem. Once a lesbian,always a lesbian.
.
Move on or just marry her like that and face the brutal consequences later on.
.
There's nothing like fixing.
She can never tell you the truth of how long she's been a les. What if she's been like that since 16 (secondary schl) do you expect her to tell you that? Lol.
.
Do you even know if her lesbian aspect is the most pleasurable and fullfiling sexual experience for her, while u are just the expendable provider for her needs and emotional baggage?
.
Guy. Run. Run o
Most lesbian or bi dey dey wicked for guys. Cos na Dem carry feminism put for head pass.
.
Na when dem enter ur house, u go see their true colors. They have no regard or respect for men o...Forget the love she's showing. Na fake. She's looking for the societal ring and the unlucky man she go use practice her feminism for marriage...lol

It all depends. She can still change with time

Nairalanders are not the people to confine on when it comes to serious issue as this. Most people here will just say trash and at the end you are more wounded than you were.

Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

Homosexuality is something of alien in Nigeria. The Bible detest it. But we are humans first before what we believe in.


Here's something you should do. It is not easy coming out of the closet. It is obvious you can not marry her again, make her understand that, unless you want to. Try to support her, be her friend because, now she needs a friend more than anything. Also, keep it to yourself.

If you cannot have an open mind towards your girl being a bisexual just end the relationship cos you can't change her sexual orientation and she herself can't help it

At various points in her live she will always be attracted to some girls and sometimes she will act on that attraction and you trying to change her by giving her ultimatum or something like that will only make her hide that aspect of her life from you and make her even resent you so gradually the relationship will still end

I've dated two girls that happend to be bisexuals and trust me a lot of girls are on that table and if i learnt anything during my time with those girls, one thing i learnt is that if they are into a guy, they are fully committed to having that guy as the only guy they love but you'll just have to learn to share her with another girl but just make sure that other girl is not a strict lesbian cos those ones don't like to share and if your girl allows her, she'll definitely wreck your relationship cos their men jealousy can't even compare to theirs.

Instead of trying to outright change her, just try to work with her, you might be surprised at how that will be more effective in helping her curtail that side of her and you just might end up having her all to yourself

So if you have an open mind about the whole thing, go for it but if you don't just end it cos she really can't change who she is, you can't and your pastor can't as well.

If u want to continue to date her very ok...but if is about marriage,run.
If u don't,u will see reason why u should have run earlier.

Marriage does not forgive anyone's lapses,rather it opens up a lot of things about either party. Now that u have seen this,is it not better u desist from this relationship before regret sets in?

Think about it...u cannot change her after all u are not her parents.

Why does this sound like the woman hanahHitler gbenshed last

AbujaCitiBlog:

Why should you be surprised? I have been shouting myself hoarse for many years. Most young girls of nowadays are lesbians, coded lesbians but you morose hegoats will never learn, you think because a woman spread her legs and pretend to be moaning that she is really into you. She is just using you to catch cruise. And this is because most men do not pay any form of attention to details. That is also why women catch them ofguard and kill them easily when they are asleep or even poison them. Bunch of fools. One girls told me that her frustration with men is that we are so basic. We can't see beyond our noses the moment we see pussy! She told me and I truly believe her that men are the easiest people to manipulate. You thought you were in love with her all these while but she was never into you. While you are wasting your time she is fantasizing about her real love the one she desires to suck her pussy not your wrinkled and wack dick.

This generation of hegoats have made the penis the most worthless part of a human body. Idiots!

you said the truth in a brutal way

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

Sometimes you make sense and most of the times you don't. Nothing wrong in being bisexual You guys will copy the west black and white. The west sets a standard of morals for lots like you. Oga or whoever you are, there's everything wrong in being bisexual. I can't even believe what I read by some of you guys.

And now to the OP, give her a listening ear, see if she's willing to change; even though I know such orientation is very hard to break free from except a force more powerful than her or the habit enables her and then search yourself to see if you are willing and ready to deal with it. Take it or leave it, cheating is cheating; and that's probably what she's doing (that's if she agrees to having a female sexual partner). But if after searching yourself and you discover you'd at some point or the other use this revelation to hurt, taunt or love her less, then I advise you peacefully let her go. She deserves to be happy

You've given her time to fabricate lies nd dish out to you, you should have insisted she tells you her story there n then... now am afraid she ain't gonna cut it to you bro.

Here's an opportunity for you to do twosome.

Every woman is by nature bisexual. The line separating their sexuality is very thin. It's how God created them.

But some suppressed theirs while others can't. If you think your girl is not bisexual, watch lesbian porn with her and see how she react.

First, she will try to mask it. Try it another time and another time and you will notice this.

Or

Try a three.some with your girl and another hot babe. You will see things you don't believe.

Other things that show ladies are bisexual

1. Girls can comfortably walk down the road holding their hands but non-gay can never.

2. Girls can peek their fellow girls and see nothing wrong with that, but men can't.

3. Girls call themselves babe, but men don't

4. Girls can freely caress themselves and see nothing wrong with that

5. Girls can press another girls breast as a form of play but men don't.

6. Girls are emotionally attached to their female besties than how men attach themselves emotionally to their male best friends. Girls can actually shed tears when their female friends leave them like they do when a guy dump them.

7. Girls can hug themselves in a very tight embrace but most men feel comfortable when a fellow man comes very close, talk more of hugging.

These are bisexual tendencies but almost all girls do that without seeing themselves as bisexuals.

Like I said before, every woman by nature has bisexual tendencies

AccessME:
Have u forgotten the bible says, Don't judge? kill him and his sins/blood will be on ur head. It easier said than done!

Una go just dey hate gays as if terrorists, ritualists, politicians, fornicators r better off compared to them.

Leave me to deal with the blood part. God showed us in Sodom and Gomorrah how to deal with such.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

What figure of speech is this oga?! I know your mind be telling you that you that you are woke, but you are just another rotten plantain forming sweetness.

How can you encourage a woman having sex with a fellow woman?! Is that what your so called formal education have thought you?

No wonder there has not been a visible change in this country since this every Dick and Harry started extending the university.

Wannabenz:
Here's an opportunity for you to do twosome.

It is actually tirisome

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys..
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..

Would you share this same view if it were a guy having homesexual chats with another guy even though he has a girl that loves him and believes they'd be married?

Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

Real lesbians dont have boyfriends. Naija lesbian na for fun and adventure. No be like Oyibo own

Kuriosmynd:
No solution to your problem. Once a lesbian,always a lesbian.
.
Move on or just marry her like that and face the brutal consequences later on.
.
There's nothing like fixing.
She can never tell you the truth of how long she's been a les. What if she's been like that since 16 (secondary schl) do you expect her to tell you that? Lol.
.
Do you even know if her lesbian aspect is the most pleasurable and fullfiling sexual experience for her, while u are just the expendable provider for her needs and emotional baggage?
.
Guy. Run. Run o
Most lesbian or bi dey dey wicked for guys. Cos na Dem carry feminism put for head pass.
.
Na when dem enter ur house, u go see their true colors. They have no regard or respect for men o...Forget the love she's showing. Na fake. She's looking for the societal ring and the unlucky man she go use practice her feminism for marriage...lol

As brutal as your comment is, you are right. Very right.

Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

And you could not even wait till tomorrow you are already here. I am sure by the time she opens up to you and confides in you tomorrow,you will still run to this place and tell us everything.