Fabricated!

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DOWN2HeartLoved:




The rent is expiring this month,and she's telling me to get 2 separate bedsitters that is close to 230K is that not throwing more money into the drain?

Can't you fucking say NO
How woman go dae control you fgs
You no be Man

Weak men Everywhere

When we tell men to stand firm and control their environment, they will be busy screaming women is useless, women are hoes.
How can a grown man leave his house for a woman he didn’t even pay bride price.
What a weakling !

WatchYourSix:
Did u say u have to leave your house??


What i dont get is how people get this weak

I guess too,
How can a man be spewing this rubbish

Freddo99:
Fabricated!

WatchYourSix:
Did u say u have to leave your house??


What i dont get is how people get this weak

You are underrating what humans have in between their two legs..Be it male or female..

Them use pussy cage the SIMPle guy...come even knack one child on top... He is now painting it like the lady deceived him...Na him even find the lady go her place after the meeting sef

He should carry his smooth cross jeje..

Good for you.

Until you men begin to think with your head and not your third leg, you'll continue to fall into such problems.

Once you see a woman, you lose control and the ability to think and reason normally.
You see a woman and the next thing is sex until you put her in the family way even without knowing her family or where she comes from.
Does that make sense?
You too reason it.

Esan don do this one wetin esan women dey do their husbands

How can I unread this?

Baba, ur case is different. Choi!

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

leave now is early and open a special account for your kids and tell bank how much she will be able to withdrew for your child upkeep, walk away and rebuild it never to late to start a fresh as a man. Be careful who you court with, always ask questions and make sure you do a background check. Peace.

This one she's 28 every year maybe she pause her age.

Go get you some money stop worrying or thinking about what money can buy

Get paper and fuvvvkk them all

The woman don jazz u be that cos I see no reason why someone is so weak to vacate his own house for a woman who is not even ur wife for the sake of bearing a child for him.
Bet me if u'd survive that.
Weak up bro and be strong like a u are biko.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

Hahahhahahaha when we are shouting that gender on nairaland many of you think we are misogynists, you will learn the hard way my brother, I have swallowed the redpill

Maverick777:

You're in warri yeah?
if yes, send me your contact.
If no, ignore.

make sure its a call contact
I don't do WhatsApp

I've called you already
Ignore the aforementioned.

What did you deduce on the matter after you called him?
The guy don chop vegetable right?

killmods:
You get liver to dey do Rawlins with girl u just met, steady digging and pouring yet u knew practically nothing about her. Even now u no even know anything about ur baby mama? I np dey insult u oo but u be real big fool. Na veteran okpo u add join ur life so.. old Tele Tele. Ur problems never even start yet. Na only the type of life u introduce that innocent child enter just dey pain me inside. Goat head

Hahahhahahaha when we are shouting that gender they think we are misogynists

This story no clear.
Give us the full gist joor.

This op must be kidding with all this half details

Albertone:


What I'm about to say is the plain truth:
She just used you to get pregnant as age is no more on her side.

She wanted you to say you're her brother because to her, you are not dating.You are just her sperm donor.
Also,she doesn't want people to see her,as old as she is,dating a small boy.[You are the one dating her,she is not dating you].

She used juju to tie you because she wants to have more children with you.
She also wants you to keep pleasing her and spending money.

I removed my cap

toujurs:
Most guys lack wisdom, i think that's the problem. You will see fire o, yet. You put your hand into it.

Pity him abeg

OlawaleBammie:
Bros u re older than me but it seems u re too dense and imbecilic in nature, sorry for bn disrespectful to u but u re too weak.

The day u learn how to handle lady, the day u learn how to make ladies avoid ur problem and not u avoiding hers, the day u learn that not all money made are spent in the name of marriage, the day u learn that for u to give a woman 50k, she must have provided u something worth 80k that is the day u wil learn. But its unfortunate that u would have passed ur prime before u realise all these. So i can say u re a loser. Am sorry bro

Hahahhahahaha

No marriage, Just living together and you are lamenting over a woman that doesn't exist. Bro you are so funny o.

Nackzy:
My Brother Run, they're called narcissist, i had one the best i did was to withdraw my emotions and i ran

Chai brother you have the right word "narcissist". I had one lady myself. After 6 terrifying years of endless lies, manipulations, emotional, mental and psychological abuse, I fled for my life. When I look back almost 4 years now, I say Jesus thank you o!

abiolamitodun:
Ur story is kinda funny

Am telling you.

So I coherent.

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She told me plainly that she doesn't love me,I should go and die,she probably doesn't want me to die on her neck,this lady(mature one at that), Knows I love her and just look at the nonsense am facing[/quote

Na which kinda mumu love be this you still dey mention sef? This gal don jazz you ni? You better clear your eyes and be a man. If you be my bro ba, I know wetin I for don do you, you for don act right and know say the street na military. Mtww

DOWN2HeartLoved:


You don't understand,I still love have if she can come clean to me about the whole truth,but Pride won't make her admits her lies

I cast out this word love you're still mentioning here. So till now ya eyes never clear? You just need Jesus I swear down.

Albertone:


What I'm about to say is the plain truth:
She just used you to get pregnant as age is no more on her side.

She wanted you to say you're her brother because to her, you are not dating.You are just her sperm donor.
Also,she doesn't want people to see her,as old as she is,dating a small boy.[You are the one dating her,she is not dating you].

She used juju to tie you because she wants to have more children with you.
She also wants you to keep pleasing her and spending money.

You dissected the story and came up with good points.

I guess you forgot BROCODE before you embark on this shit...


Oluwa a wa pelu e

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

You're a big Simp and this woman has probably given you Concoction Vegetables to eat...Being a Simp is not just about spending on a woman You're dating a lady that disrespect you even cheat on you But because of your lovey dovey weak simp cum boy attitude, you don't want to leave her, Don't worry when she finishes you off she will dump your weak ass off!!

DOWN2HeartLoved:



She told me plainly that she doesn't love me,I should go and die,she probably doesn't want me to die on her neck,this lady(mature one at that), Knows I love her and just look at the nonsense am facing

that is y is good to marry d one way like us than d one way we like

Savourt:


What did you deduce on the matter after you called him?
The guy don chop vegetable right?

Bro, the issue is an extremely dicey one, the guy only gave an iota of the story here.
for the sake of being discreet, I wouldn't go into details.
But, I'm trying my best to remedy the situation...