Since she's behaving like a poisonous draw obono soup then you need to act like a sharp EGUSI soup.

If am to say further, as long as you're the biological father of the child and the child is no longer sucking breast then you have every power to take your child and end the relationship SIMPLE!

How people get into issues they never bargained for baffles me most times. @op, u seem so emotional and kind from ur write-up but some situations don't require emotional outpour. If the lady wants to make u uncomfortable, then free yourself from her bondage on time. Which one is she had a child for you? Just sit her down and find out what she wants exactly, then if you can't afford it, show her the boundary on time before she ends ur future.

Lastmankc:
Nah Edo babe ooo

The name is blessing... Who?

she's always 28 every year,
Na dis statement off me.
Women are chronic liars when it comes to age.
I'm 42 and some ladies dat were my classmates in secondary School who are my agemates are parading with 25yrs. That's by d way. OP, look for a Bible believing church for a serious deliverance. You're in a bottle and also very big simp being. Leave dat evening newspaper with fallen Olympus for ur dear life. She will use alum and wash her wide and rotten vg for another[b]simp[/b] to entangle.
Run for ur dear life, forget whatever u hv spent on her and move on. Go to ur family, reconcile with dem and change location

Na die you dey like this

Have you married her legally? If yes, divorce her from your life. If you have not married her legally, report her to the police both state Cid and your area police tell them she is threatening your life and you want her out of your life. But you must give the police money that will make them work.

DOWN2HeartLoved:


She threatened me with Vigilante in the GRA area am living that am frustrating her,what do I do?,I left everything I worked so hard for in the house����

GboyegaD:


He should take care of the child whenever the child is in his custody. He made the child and not the sister. He should make arrangements with the mother on visitation rights since the relationship seems to be heading for the rock.

Well u are right with this sha

Toktee:
The name is blessing... Who?

The simp said she's from auchi

This nigga would have been shouting mature man up and down when we been dey talk say no marry woman with promiscuous past.

Anyways the real GS don talk true for here , no additional comments. If you like no take the advice.

Why will you be in a relationship without knowing the family and home of the person?

DOWN2HeartLoved:


I know it sounds too good to be true,but this lady is saying am not man enough for marriage,I need to go get money for her?,all the money we have been spending is enough to start businesses,yet she collects money baselessly,If am asked to trace her I can't self,I met her in a bedsitter then we moved to Warri, right now people are seeing me as crazy and she as the good person

You are a finished man. I don’t have strength to type.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

Na street girl she be bro she dey use you. Leave her before she drain your.

DOWN2HeartLoved:


I know it sounds too good to be true,but this lady is saying am not man enough for marriage,I need to go get money for her?,all the money we have been spending is enough to start businesses,yet she collects money baselessly,If am asked to trace her I can't self,I met her in a bedsitter then we moved to Warri, right now people are seeing me as crazy and she as the good person

she dey manipulate you bro, leave before it’s too late.

Lastmankc:
The simp said she's from auchi

He's not serious.

Soon pusssy go carry him go begging the daughter of Jezebel.

You do come to read advise on niaraland u said right,...why don't you make use of the advises u get and you are seeking another one.
Bros forget the free woman.
Learn ur lesson .
Find God for wisdom because you are so empty inside

DOWN2HeartLoved:


Bro she hears and speaks Yoruba too,her ex did her father's burial, bought her a car,still yet this girl moved with his properties,and didn't look back,am suspecting that's what is going to happen to me too

What do I do?,the child is just 8 months old

she told u all this wayback when things were going fine between u guys u smile about it,u didn't reason

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

You met a lady, one month after you impregnated her without the need to know her background. After giving birth you still didn't see the need to know her family and background.

Okay.

The strong shall choke the weak.

As simple as that.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

You can't be shocked! Big toto na shock absorber.
You saw free but ancient tọrọ and you felt on top of the world then.
If I remember rightly well, someone was talking against fornication and the rest, but your likes called him mú.mu and social irritants.
Now who is Mú.mu now?

Are you supplying Gas to Europe that you now got excess money to be investing dangerously on this said woman and thereby leaving your house and ran away to "who knows. " Go back to your house and find a way to get her out or get her ready; so you can take her to her parents; a long the way, you can do the needful..

DOWN2HeartLoved:


If not for love,what else?

she’s not in love with you op she has been pretending. Better count your loss and move on now if not you’ll spend more and still move on later so end everything now.

WatchYourSix:
Did u say u have to leave your house??


What i dont get is how people get this weak

You don't know what she must has cook for him to eat.

She is not manipulative. You are simply senseless.

DOWN2HeartLoved:


Seriously I have loved her, although I cheated once that was last year,we allowed it to slide, she's acting as if she's God,the unforgiving type,and blames you till you feel useless, always complaining am about to take the same step my dad did by abadoning her and my child,am really confused,she even dropped a voicenote on WhatsApp that the child is not mine,due to everyday fight, everyday quarrels I left,

OP you’re not a man, how can you let a bitch control you on top your own money.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

My Brother Run, they're called narcissist, i had one the best i did was to withdraw my emotions and i ran

lol

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

Very very foolish man. Easily manipulated by women. Unless and until you learn not to be distracted by sex, you will never be a man. This is the problem of youth nowadays. Very very useless. All they think is sex sex sex. What were you doing in the nonsense you call relationship that you didn't know you were being manipulated? Why won't she call you a small boy? Because of how you behaved. Pussy is your religion. You are senseless.

Next time, don't be distracted by sex, look deep. Most women of nowadays are lesbians and prostitutes. They just sleep with men for money, nothing more. Know that and know peace.

DOWN2HeartLoved:


When she wants to give birth I took BG risk, she's from Orogun,if anything would have happened to her I would have been held responsible,still yet

A point I skipped,why did she say I should say am her brother at the Hospital.

Can you believe same thing happened on the Onset of the relationship,I should say am her brother

I was reading your post but when I saw this one, I just had to comment. oh my God! this is pure evil. she is bent on destroying your life. it's obvious you love her so much but she doesn't love you back. you said you initially cheated on her. did she start all these after you cheated? the fact is she has other lovers and she doesn't want them to know about you. she is a real player and she has been doing this before she met you. sadly, there's nothing you can do at this point and you won't be the last victim. just let her go and move on with your life. next time, do a proper background check on any woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.

OP, I like your humility. Despite all the insults, you're still keeping calm. The mistake has been made already and we all learn everyday. I think the first thing is to eject her from your house (Is she mad or something?).
Meanwhile, let's learn to advise people politely.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

She is the manipulator and you are the manipulated right?. BTW she ought to have been a womanipulator why did you let her take over your role by abandoning your house for her? You should be a school boy.

Your story get K leg.
Jus passing...

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

You're dealing with a possessed lady..
This type of lady brings badluck to you whenever your semen enters her body, or her fluids enter your body.