aniola01:

ok here is my own tory, she broke up wit me for anoda guy after an 8years relationshp, i was so hurt that i had to send her all her petty petty things wit me like love frames, our memories and pictures we took together e.t.c, mehnnnn last time time we met she was so pissed wit my actions and since then its bye bye except that i do text her sometimes and she neva replies, i miss her and i dont think she misses me at all cos if she did she will at least reply my msges and we cud still maintain a cordial and platonic relationshp, one thing i know she is my first love and i am her first love and we shared alot of memories, so first impression stays 4ever.

POSAKOSA1:

wow 8 years is a long time. I bet u're a virgin ? someone else musta stole her heart.


Virgin ke! we had more than enough sex u can imagin, we had everythin taken care of, bt she still go, wat do u women really want sef?, i am just curios, she will find it difficult to cope wit her new guy, i mean it has been me all her life, women re devil and worst than men!

Virgin ke! we had more than enough sex u can imagin, we had everythin taken care of, bt she still go, wat do u women really want sef?, i am just curios, she will find it difficult to cope wit her new guy, i mean it has been me all her life, women re devil and worst than men!

POSAKOSA1:

No im not gonna attack you, you're a sweet gyal. and NO I don't need counseling.  

<I wish I could him one day see and just BEAT him to a pulp> I didn't think that it was a fair fight, what he did to me, thats ALL.

I wasn't praying for you, I was saying that there is clear difference between LOVE and HATE and I know what I feel is NOT LOVE.

and that if you consider CURSING and ABUSING someone LOVE, then maybe you have issues.  

sexybabes:

Believe me hun i understand where u coming from, i understand why u feeling d way u do. I just dont want u waisting your energy & time on hating a jerk like him.  

POSAKOSA1:


Were you a good man to her ? did you treat her with love and respect throughout that 8 years?  Were you good in bed ? I mean I don't know what could make a woman make this decision. To each his own.

Maybe someone saw a vision for her that you were not her husband. Women also listen  to fortune tellers/babalawos/pastors. 

aniola01:

thats more like, thats exactly wat i tot, cos imagin u wake up to find ursef still dreamin, something like a mirage, the broke up is best known to her and she claims she just want out simple, i tried all eforts to regain but its like she is possessed!

aniola01:

i think u re right, cos when she left was i move closer to God and some how some things change abt me, a whole lot like a new world, but my problem is trusting any woman now and 4ever, i am not sure if i can fall in love again!

POSAKOSA1:


But when your real woman comes, not only will God reveal her to you, but you will already be in love before you know that u're in love. To me Love just HAPPENS! Love is a risk but with God on our side, love is possible. It might take time though.

When I start thinking and analyzing about a particular person I know its NOT love. The analyzing should come after as we work together towards a perfect union not before.