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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by qtguru(m): 3:03pm On Aug 28, 2022
The house always wins. No one builds a gambling business to give out free money.

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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Eniolohunda: 3:03pm On Aug 28, 2022
[quote author=Kobojunkie post=116115960] First thing first, if you haven't already informed your wife and family about your problem, I suggest you do so immediately as they are the only ones who can provide you with the necessary support you may need to help you quit from this point on. Your wife needs to realize what it is that is going on with you.... it is her right as your partner in marriage to know these things. Hopefully, from there you both can work towards a solution together as a couple. undecided

Second, addiction is most likely the problem here and it is a mental illness that requires treatment. Consider seriously seeking help from a professional mental health therapist or a psychiatrist as soon as possible. With the help of family members, you can beat addiction or at least take the reigns back from it in order to manage your life better. undecided

Third, look into finding a local clinic or any mental health facility with a good track record that offers Ibogaine therapy for addiction, and try to get yourself the treatment as soon as you can afford it . https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-17666589



Just follow this� advice, cos only your family, psychiayrist and God that can help you in this situation.
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by cfree14(m): 3:04pm On Aug 28, 2022
Antimarraige:
2 odds won me almost 8 million today, gamble with sense and enjoy your moolah.

PS I have no wife or kids
Bro, if u played that both teams should not score in this particular game I'm seeing here, it means u lost............or is there something I'm not seeing?

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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by favour32(m): 3:08pm On Aug 28, 2022
Since this your account is fake,
therefore, continue to gamble without greed.
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Alawode01(m): 3:08pm On Aug 28, 2022
newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME, gambling is most faster way to penury, most time it doesn't happen ordinarily, because I don't know how someone we get his hard earned to play gamble if not, even God don't happy with gambers, it's an act of convetouseness,greed,if you can adopt the heart of satisfaction on anything you get in your legitimate work and be taking it home for your family use and for the work of chairty either in church or elsewhere and pray to God there is going to be a big different.



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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by darexolu16(m): 3:09pm On Aug 28, 2022
newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Only one solution to this bruv... surrender ur life to Christ...and see wat the great turn around will look like
Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME



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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Lovelydaisies: 3:10pm On Aug 28, 2022
Melap:


Good night Kobo kiss
Man dey blow kiss give fellow man? Abi you are a lady? grin grin
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:12pm On Aug 28, 2022
OBA117:
Firstly, seek the help of God by surrendering your life to Jesus Christ because by your human strength you can not stop addiction by evil spirit has taken advantage of your vulnerability to addiction. You need the help of God.

I pray for you, you shall testify of your victory in Jesus name.
Can an evil spirit be countered by the taking of medication? undecided
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Nickson6969(m): 3:13pm On Aug 28, 2022
Thank you for opening up, but I can only provide the solution that I know will work out, as righteousness has said..This stuff is a wicked spirit same as masturbating, alcohol, womanizing and the likes...they are out for one thing..to.render Gods creation useless...no other way works brother..you can't combact spirit physically..don't say you will fight with will power it will always be fruitless...First I ask..are you a Christian...if yes...have you ask Jesus for help...have you really ask him...then is time you did..allow him..only He can help you out... which church do you attend..have you let your pastor know as well.....the time you use to cry yourself out...then try this with all your heart... really ask Jesus you need his Help...and allow him minister to your mind what you need to do...
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Slmgirldippussy: 3:15pm On Aug 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
First thing first, if you haven't already informed your wife and family about your problem, I suggest you do so immediately as they are the only ones who can provide you with the necessary support you may need to help you quit from this point on. Your wife needs to realize what it is that is going on with you.... it is her right as your partner in marriage to know these things. Hopefully, from there you both can work towards a solution together as a couple. undecided

Second, addiction is most likely the problem here and it is a mental illness that requires treatment. Consider seriously seeking help from a professional mental health therapist or a psychiatrist as soon as possible. With the help of family members, you can beat addiction or at least take the reigns back from it in order to manage your life better. undecided

Third, look into finding a local clinic or any mental health facility with a good track record that offers Ibogaine therapy for addiction, and try to get yourself the treatment as soon as you can afford it . https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-17666589





Have you try your hands on ? Goal goal
That is the bomb of this new season

Try am make he finish you patapata

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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:15pm On Aug 28, 2022
Kubin:
I can relate we are going through the same thing, but for me I think am regaining myself,this addiction have hold me down more than 4yrs,if I should remember the what I have lost I feel like killing myself,but I have a good news for u, u can stop it if can follow this step mind u no amount of advice here will make you to stop it is a matter of personal decision, don't try to force urself out, if u do it by force u will still go back and worst, am talking out of experience, 1st step, see gaming as fun and not means of getting rich, 2nd reduce ur stakings don't stake more than 200,mind u nothing like sure game, with that 200naira be aiming millions,gradually as the game is cutting u will began to lose interest, 3rd,if ur playing online,stop saving money in ur on account, because online gaming kill faster, 4th,as a rational human being ask ur self this money am trying to win how are they making this money, if it was avenue business and people are winning the company can not last a day, after paying taxes, rents, data, workers, fuel, site maintainance, etc and u still expect to come and collect from them.finaly gambling name scam betting na big scam, I have lost all my life earning to betting, before I use to stake 100k 2sure odd, but now I don't stake more than 200per day, always aiming million I still know it still cut,
Please seek help abeg! No let the thing come master you well well... that 200 per day is about N73 000 a year. No be chicken change! undecided
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:16pm On Aug 28, 2022
Nickson6969:
Thank you for opening up, but I can only provide the solution that I know will work out, as righteousness has said.. This stuff is a wicked spirit same as masturbating, alcohol, womanizing and the likes...they are out for one thing..to.render Gods creation useless...no other way works brother..you can't combact spirit physically ..don't say you will fight with will power it will always be fruitless...First I ask..are you a Christian...if yes...have you ask Jesus for help...have you really ask him...then is time you did..allow him..only He can help you out... which church do you attend..have you let your pastor know as well.....the time you use to cry yourself out...then try this with all your heart... really ask Jesus you need his Help...and allow him minister to your mind what you need to do...
Can an evil spirit be countered by the taking of medication? undecided
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by iguita: 3:17pm On Aug 28, 2022
Lastly, adding to your point. Maybe the fire should allow his wife manage his money. I know it sounds like simping but if you are not responsible with money, Omo give the responsible partner your atm, online banking and control of the funds. Let he give you monthly allowance from your salary. It will do you good and help your children

Kobojunkie:
First thing first, if you haven't already informed your wife and family about your problem, I suggest you do so immediately as they are the only ones who can provide you with the necessary support you may need to help you quit from this point on. Your wife needs to realize what it is that is going on with you.... it is her right as your partner in marriage to know these things. Hopefully, from there you both can work towards a solution together as a couple. undecided

Second, addiction is most likely the problem here and it is a mental illness that requires treatment. Consider seriously seeking help from a professional mental health therapist or a psychiatrist as soon as possible. With the help of family members, you can beat addiction or at least take the reigns back from it in order to manage your life better. undecided

Third, look into finding a local clinic or any mental health facility with a good track record that offers Ibogaine therapy for addiction, and try to get yourself the treatment as soon as you can afford it . https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-17666589

Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Nobody: 3:18pm On Aug 28, 2022
is high time u make arrangements if u av a brother or sister 4 ur money t be transferred t dem, proof of funds would be released t ur wife when genuine reasons re given for withdrawal, check ur monthly expenses and make plans 4 it t be given t ur "Wife" on monthly basis, u re only entitled N200 everyday till u change cheesy grin
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by romunu(m): 3:18pm On Aug 28, 2022
You don’t have a strong will power, just do yourself this favor, give your wife all your next salary,let her keep the money, then stay off gambling for on week, and see what happens next.
newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME



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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:18pm On Aug 28, 2022
iguita:
Lastly, adding to your point. Maybe the fire should allow his wife manage his money. I know it sounds like simping but if you are not responsible with money, Omo give the responsible partner your atm, online banking and control of the funds. Let he give you monthly allowance from your salary. It will do you good and help your children
In an ideal case, sure, but what if the wife is even less competent in the handling of the family's finances? I think it is typically best to let a couple decide what to do on their own. undecided

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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by maasoap(m): 3:20pm On Aug 28, 2022
Melap:


Hahaha is that all you gonna say. grin grin grin

May be it will be a good thing if your wife leaves your sorry ass because you are powerless to quit anytime soon
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by brosom(m): 3:23pm On Aug 28, 2022
Mrkumareze:
Oga, take decision. You can do it
yes u re correct.

He should take decision, he doesn't need deliverance from any pastor, and what's happening to him is not from village or anywhere but from him and I'm talking from experience.

I was once addicted to that demons he was in to for over 5yrs, the demon gulped me up to 10m for that 5yrs,. The bitter truth is that u can never win them no matter the amount u stake. It's a long story from me bro because I seek helps here and there but not avail. but it came to a time when I summoned my inner self and cautioned it and before I knew it the spirit Left Just like that like magic..

His greed is preying on him big full time, in fact it's and occupant in his life which is very dangerous for a family man..

The solution to his problem is him, nothing else..

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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by iFESTAC680(m): 3:25pm On Aug 28, 2022
Antimarraige:
2 odds won me almost 8 million today, gamble with sense and enjoy your moolah.

PS I have no wife or kids


God saved you ooo
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:26pm On Aug 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
First thing first, if you haven't already informed your wife and family about your problem, I suggest you do so immediately as they are the only ones who can provide you with the necessary support you may need to help you quit from this point on. Your wife needs to realize what it is that is going on with you.... it is her right as your partner in marriage to know these things. Hopefully, from there you both can work towards a solution together as a couple. undecided

Second, addiction is most likely the problem here and it is a mental illness that requires treatment. Consider seriously seeking help from a professional mental health therapist or a psychiatrist as soon as possible. With the help of family members, you can beat addiction or at least take the reigns back from it in order to manage your life better. undecided

Third, look into finding a local clinic or any mental health facility with a good track record that offers Ibogaine therapy for addiction, and try to get yourself the treatment as soon as you can afford it . https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-17666589

Can you drop your email so I can reach you?

Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:26pm On Aug 28, 2022
Mscheeew. This one na talk?
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:27pm On Aug 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
First thing first, if you haven't already informed your wife and family about your problem, I suggest you do so immediately as they are the only ones who can provide you with the necessary support you may need to help you quit from this point on. Your wife needs to realize what it is that is going on with you.... it is her right as your partner in marriage to know these things. Hopefully, from there you both can work towards a solution together as a couple. undecided

Second, addiction is most likely the problem here and it is a mental illness that requires treatment. Consider seriously seeking help from a professional mental health therapist or a psychiatrist as soon as possible. With the help of family members, you can beat addiction or at least take the reigns back from it in order to manage your life better. undecided

Third, look into finding a local clinic or any mental health facility with a good track record that offers Ibogaine therapy for addiction, and try to get yourself the treatment as soon as you can afford it . https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-17666589


Can you drop your email address so I can reach you?
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by mayorelum(m): 3:29pm On Aug 28, 2022
Call this number 09066786524
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:30pm On Aug 28, 2022
Kindly drop your email address so I can reach you.

quote author=newold post=116115475]I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME



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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:31pm On Aug 28, 2022
newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME



Kindly drop your email address so I can reach you.
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 3:34pm On Aug 28, 2022
cfree14:

Bro, if u played that both teams should not score in this particular game I'm seeing here, it means u lost............or is there something I'm not seeing?

Did you not see "both teams not to score in one half - NO"?
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by adisem26: 3:35pm On Aug 28, 2022
Ok,from now henceforth,start keeping your money with your wife,she will manage it better.
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Orlu15(m): 3:36pm On Aug 28, 2022
Stallionhorse:
Gambling is not a bad thing.. We all play gble every weekend last week I lost 8k this week I just won 27k tomorrow I might win again. Just use your head.. Don't be a mum u man.
Exactly, I have been gambling for a very long time but I have never lost my head in it for once. I only gamble when I'm broke, once received my salary I no stake again. Bottom line, no when to quit!
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Oqw1: 3:36pm On Aug 28, 2022
Really
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Nobody: 3:38pm On Aug 28, 2022
maasoap:


May be it will be a good thing if your wife leaves your sorry ass because you are powerless to quit anytime soon

Read well, I am not the poster with a gambling problem whose wife wants to leave
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by lilbarracuda(m): 3:38pm On Aug 28, 2022
The over 2.5 wey cut you game na im make another person millionaire

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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by sammirano: 3:39pm On Aug 28, 2022
newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME




I relate perfectly
newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME




I relate perfectly. Two days I was in thoughts and I was able to see a pattern between gambling and mental disorder. The complusive behavior of always wanting to get back losses could be linked to a behavioral disorder. In this part of the world where help for mental health is almost non existent, I think the only solution is a re-engineering of the mind, but this will require a concreted effort.

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