It’s perfectly fine.. infact you are to young for her.. most 20+ prefer to marry 30+

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Nonexisting1:
22 is a bit old, why not go for someone 18. Una go get sense by force. Keep marrying them in their hoe phase and continue fathering bastards.

Lol

Nonexisting1:
22 is a bit old, why not go for someone 18. Una go get sense by force. Keep marrying them in their hoe phase and continue fathering bastards.

Damn!

I didn't finish reading ur comment before I liked it. U r very spot on bro, more wisdom

superCleanworks:
you want to marry her. does she want to marry you?
is she fully aware of what she is about to get into?
You need to be sure of the answer to these questions before she wakes up one day and tells the world that you manipulated her, took advantage (this is their favourite line) and she is now aware and no longer interested. Most of them at this age bracket act on impulse and would say yes to anything that fulfils their cinderella or cardi-b fantasies and they get bored easily when the fanfare dies off.

How about you? Are you sure you are aware of what you are about to do?

Wallade:


Please consider a more mature lady in age and orientation. Marriage to an 18 - 25 years old can be very challenging. I hope you survive it, if you do.

That's their "whoring" phase

advanceDNA:


35-22 is not an issue...as long as no ody is forcing anyone.....look out for red flags. dont just marry a woman for beauty or youthfulness....

That aside

Has she graduated...?? If you are planning on funding education before marriage dont be like emeka who did the same thing....paying school fees and upkeep yet her fine boy mate was offing pant on campus...

by the time emeka's babe became a graduate of law...emeka don clock 43 years plus thanks to ASUU....

26 year old babe say emeka too old for am that the heart cannot be forced to love....and u know how women talk..." shebi its ordinary help emeka did" why is emeka trying to make it look like she mist marry him.....

Hmm this is exactly my brother's story. Well everyone has moved on Sha.

hey bro to marry younger lady is good but are you ready to handle their wahala?

Cos your understanding and theirs are not same.

That age is their prime and they still want to explore life.

Cutting it off and subjecting them as a mother in a family way comes with a lot that you have to deal with.

If you are not a patient kind of guy then you have to learn it.

If you are the hot tempered guy then you need to drop it in totality.

If you are the I don't take shit from anybody kind of guy just know from the day you marry her you”d become a shit taker

You will be thinking about building the family while the will be thinking about flexing and holidaying comparing themselves to their other friends both married and unmarried.

They hardly listen to advice they most often behave just like the behavior and attitudes of juvenile.

Please note that what I have written here does not mean to translate or generalize as per the behavior of every married lady at 22 it still mostly depend on family upbringing I mean her background and some other factors.

Be sure to know her root and family background very well before you move on to marriage.

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

25yrs is the least age a woman should marry. Let me make it 26. At that age, she's past the Bloom and Youth and ready to settle. (Read 1 Corinthians 7:36)

virginprincess:
Really!,to me 10yrs is too much,i can't marry a guy above 30 for now,i'm still in my early 20's so i probably need a guy in his late 20's.

My princess,hmmm you can't marry above 30 guy,hope you no be type wey go see John Fashanu or RMD in their late 50s or early 60s and fall in love.

Don't ask us questions o jare. If anything goes wrong tomorrow you will act like adam acted against God, and say "it is the wife that Nairaland gave you o"..

Whether we advice or not, you will still go ahead and do what you like.

So suit yourself

virginprincess:
Really!,to me 10yrs is too much,i can't marry a guy above 30 for now,i'm still in my early 20's so i probably need a guy in his late 20's.

Sooo if a good man above 30 come to marry you...you will say no? Stop deceiving yourself my dear

You are good to go man.. i love it when there is good age gap.. i personally prefer older women sha

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Bayyajidda:


Not everyone is a hoe and there's nothing like hoe phase. Hoeing has nothing to do with age.

Trust me, there is something called the hoe phase... And most (not all) naija girls go through this phase between 18-24. Trust me on this one. Yes, they can still be sleeping around after 24,but you see that age bracket of 18-24, the things most girls do can make their fathers cry all night.

You can only be true to yourself. Nothing anybody will tell you here that your mind or the girl ways have not tell you.
On this issue, you can only be sincere to yourself.

Lemme just ask you some few questions which you have to provide answers to them yourself.

Does the girl love or like you?(this stage you are, you have to be very sure)
Does the girl mature to go into marriage with you?( is her eyes not still outside chasing guys around)
Is her parents okay with her going into marriage with you?
Is she a type that can cope with you when there's no much in your hand as per cash?
Lemme stop here


As I said earlier, you are the only one that know if you can truly marry the girl and the girl herself. You asking us here is just for formality sake.

Reason the mattire well guy man.
God bless us

Wahala dey o! My neighbour 46 has already impregnated a 19 years old girl, heading to East for marital rights, na every night we dey settle wahala for them.

She's ok. But the little challenge you are going to face is this: your family won't have any secret. The day you have sex twice in a week, she will call the mother. The day you chat another lady, she will inform her mom. If your dick is long, she will tell her mom. The day you insult her the mom will call you for explanation. The day your sibling especially a lady, comes around, there will be quarel. The day she eats once in a day, you will hear stories. She will invite all those negative vibes to influence your decisions.. marrying a 22years old girl is equivalent to suicide. She's not mature for marriage. You will enjoy the sex of course but the negatives overweight the positives.

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

Is it that she is too old or what?

22 is prime puna.

You want to marry all these post wall retired oloshos that are in their 30's?

The age gap is OK.

Anything above 27 for your age I'd too old.

Go for that premium puna and enjoy your sex life for the next 15ys

I dnt see anytin wrong in it, especially as it's a case of 'man' is older. But if Reverse was the case, it wud hv been a course to worry for others... Based on society perspective.
Personally, I got no gross wit it, as long as u double checked other important areas of the lady.
May God bless ur heart with the best decision

AyePappy:


Is it that she is too old or what?

22 is prime puna.

You want to marry all these post wall retired oloshos that are in their 30's?

The age gap is OK.

Anything above 27 for your age I'd too old.

Go for that premium puna and enjoy your sex life for the next 15ys

For the next 15 years ? Are you cutting his life short or what ,. With a fresh puna like that I expect him to reach 80 years peacefully

superCleanworks:
you want to marry her. does she want to marry you?
is she fully aware of what she is about to get into?
You need to be sure of the answer to these questions before she wakes up one day and tells the world that you manipulated her, took advantage (this is their favourite line) and she is now aware and no longer interested. Most of them at this age bracket act on impulse and would say yes to anything that fulfils their cinderella or cardi-b fantasies and they get bored easily when the fanfare dies off.

How about you? Are you sure you are aware of what you are about to do?

You get the gist.. you are talking to a guy that has first-hand experience here.

Go for mature mind. He get why. 28 is perfect for you.

pocohantas:


Why do guys always say this thing whenever an older man goes for a younger lady?

I am asking because every other day I read how you men fire down until 100. Who is lying here? You or redpillers?

men like to console themselves. In my 20s i dey do 4 rounds easily. But now 4 rounds na stress. My friend who is a pharmacist said younger looking men are the ones coming to buy enhancement drugs lol. Only few men will be able to fire well till they reach 60s.

Palmyra:
Wahala dey o! My neighbour 46 has already impregnated a 19 years old girl, heading to East for marital rights, na every night we dey settle wahala for them.

Hahahahaha! And it is not stopping any to soon, trust me.

mmadu5:



For the next 15 years ? Are you cutting his life short or what ,. With a fresh puna like that I expect him to reach 80 years peacefully

Sex life

Parachoko:
Did you have any evidence to back this up? With wetin I don see in marriage, age does not matter.

Marrying a lady that is more than 25 years does not mean the marriage will last.

Yes, there is no guarantee that anything will last however, we are looking at the best possible situation that can translate into sustainable marriage.

Younger ladies tend to be erratic, unstable, adventurous, fun-filled, demanding emotionally and easily given to disputes and temptations.

22 cannot be ready go check your environment for stories.

Palmyra:
Wahala dey o! My neighbour 46 has already impregnated a 19 years old girl, heading to East for marital rights, na every night we dey settle wahala for them.

arantess:

That's their "whoring" phase

No be me talk am ohhhhhh.

In some few years, she will start to see you as zaddy and cheat on you

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

at 35 years you still not ready to be a man

pocohantas:


Why do guys always say this thing whenever an older man goes for a younger lady?

I am asking because every other day I read how you men fire down until 100. Who is lying here? You or redpillers?

The guy exaggerated a bit, guys in their 40s and 50s are still okay, although it isn't like when you're in your 20s. But you can still do 2-3 rounds and keep up with most girls.

But by 60s is when to do two rounds becomes almost impossible. But some men defy this with good diet and exercise.