@Ariztos
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Let's Blame those Girlz too,

[quote="chinani"]@Ariztos
Are you afflitated w/ ARIZTOS magazine? It's also based in D.C.
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yes, indeed

lovely_S:

Thanks 2 ORIKINLA, DARKMANZO, DEARZI and others 4 there great effort 2 make this topic more interesting 2 read, if i could blame anybody @all, i will blame our GOVT 10times b/4 the so call Aristars(Aristo ladiez), Believe me or live it, 99.9 of this Aritos are connected 2 the Govt in one way or the other.what i'm really saying here is that most of the Aristos will directly on indirectly fall in the following .

PRESIDENCY
STATE GOVT/AGENT
LOCAL GOVT/AGENT
MINISTERING
HOUSE OF SENATE. etc

They r using our money 2 ruin the career of our young campus ladies,can't they help without sleeping with them ? Well, i leave them 4 HIV/AIDS 2 judge , I may be wrong for the above list, but i simply know what i'm talking about.

When a child sees honey she must throw away akara , thats what is happening!

u hav all spoken!

I have a friend who is an Aristo to the core. God the kind sexual acts he engages with these girls from anal to oral to party ( as in with two girls) he relates to me tome with gloating satisfaction. He sleeps with three different girls every week. Seriously I am thinking twice about marrying from within Nigeria. My friend that just returned from India told me that their girls are the best choice any man could make if you are looking for strong, independent, resourceful women who are practically omnipresent in all professions.

_yawns


next!!

Young guys like to feel like playas and traet girls like shit, esp naija guys, they dont know how to treat a girl good at the end of the day the girl does everything. I used to know a girl who dates an aristo and uses the proceeds to spoil her broke ass boyfriend and buy him everything he needs.
And still the guy will be sleeping around. just imagine for example beyonce's irreplaceable song and imgine she wasnt a superstar but got the things from her aristo, but the scrub still messes up.

I'm not saying is right but i'm saying i understand, while small guys dont take care of you and treat you like shit, the aristos might teat her like shit but damn it, they getting paid for it.

There are girls that are doing it to put themselves thru school or take care of their families and the ones who already have and are doing it out of greed.
i guess aristoism is refined prostitution, girls just arent standing on the road.

I'm not saying its right, but i understand.

Man-eater:

i guess aristoism is refined prostitution, girls just arent standing on the road.
I'm not saying its right, but i understand.

So do I, I really do understand.

what i noticed with nigerian uni girls is that an Aristo has become part of their dressing. not having an aristo nowadays is as bad as not waering a pair of shoes.
anyways it's one of the signs of the end time.

I am a Certified ARISTO. It is sort of a natural progression in life. Once I was the odd Campus Bobo who used to watch the then Sugar Daddy's take our Campus babes for weekends. Now as one progresses you find yourself stepping into the same role. Especially, when you are coming in from abroad-the choice is all yours. The babes are very beautiful and you do not have to waste time chasing them. They prefer the temporal security the ARISTO provides. A friend of mine had 3 University babes performing an erotic strip-tease on his DVD camcorder just because he came from abroad (of course they were all naked) .

Yes i agree aristo is bad n it widespread in Nigerian Universities but I think we also should debate on the sick rich old men too

LETS LEAVE THE ARISTO AND TALK ABOUT THE REAL ISSUE: ( THOSE DISGUSTING OLD AND UN BEARABLE LECTURERS IN THE UNIVERSITY OF NIGERIA) I MEAN IT IS 1 THING TO SLEEP WITH OLD MEN TO SEE U THROUGH SCHOOL BUT IT IS UTTERLY UN BEARABLE FOR A LECTURE TO FORCE THE FEMALE STUDENT TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM OR GIVE THEM MONEY BEFORE THE CAN PASS OUT, IN THE DICTIONARY OF LAW U HAVE TO GIVE A MAN UR FULL CONSENT BEFORE HE CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOU. ANYTHING FROM THAT IS RAP! AT LIST THE ARISTO GET THE GIRLS FULL APPROVAL.

I find everybody's posts to be true and interesting as well as educative. But my question is, what do you call a girl who is not dating an aristo and is dating a regular guy and she pays the guy's bills, gives him money and co.? Because it is frequently mentioned here that it is only the guy that pays the bills? But i know of girls that buy things for their ''regular'' boyfriends and are ready to die for them and yet, these guys dump then for a younger girl (after they've used and aborted pregnancies for their ex-girl). What do you call that?

Guess if some Mums see what their wards are doing in school,they will really die of heart failure.

1. this is just seriously sickening, if a woman wants to date an 80 year old man and she is 16 she should go right ahead, that is her own stupidity.

2. husbands die an average of 10 years earlier than their wives, so its quite intersting to see the 13 and 14 year differences between u (orinikila ) and some other human beings here that are claiming to date girls my age. so if u chicks want to live another 25 years with out ur husbadn then marry a man 11 years ur senior (ewus)

3. last but not least, the only reason y women are withered out by 25 is because u moronic 30 year olds, use and abuse them in their early 20's, a reall man can tell a woman who has had too many experiences with older, men, she is not as naive,a dn not as enticing. Girls try dating men a little closer to ur age, our parents time is not ours anymore.

the irony is that there are still a lot of great ladies in our schools, it is like one spoilt egg in a crate of 30, the stench will permiate the whole place. while i agree that there are rotten eggs amongst the girls on campus, there are a lot of great girls also.
and point of correction it is not when you date an older working guy that it is aristo, aristo girls keep a string of older married, or unmarried guys for the sake of financial rewards.

In my opinion i think the plain truth is that these girls are either greedy or twisted (sick).
How do you explain a 24year old girl (sometimes younger) having sex with with a man twice her age. Try to imagine in your mind the picture of a 25yr old girl beside a 45yr old man (sometime even older)in bed naked (its not something i particularly like to imagine).
It takes a lot of guts to pull a stunt like that (and they say women r the weaker sex. lol)
Anyways my question to everyone on this thread is what do you think (honestly) r is d reason behind this sudden upsurge in this trend.
Is it the money,

Is it for the kicks,

Is it greed,

Is it a fantasy,

Do this 40somethings plus do it better than we do,

Is it jst a passing trend,


What do you all think is the reason and is there anything that can b done to stop or reduce this horrible trend.

hmmmm uhhhhhhhhhhh babie baaby

i no know say nigerian old men get too much power in their magic stick.

hmmm things don spoil 4 my country ohh

by the way OpeLovely show me some love ha

i t,s crab,senseless and disgusting thing to do wit aristo is better 4 them to date their dad or mum cos datin aristo is like u datin ur parents nonsense.

Just to make a long story short, with the invention of viagra and sildenafil, i highly doubt that aristos will end anytime soon. so they will keep on sleepin around as long as the girls keep spreading their legs. just imagine a nigeria without stupid girls.

u know the ones who dont spend all their money on thier cheap boyfriends
the ones who dont jump on the first guy from the US knowing full well that he wont even marry u
and the ones who dotn sleep with married men twice their age for things like thongs, and mufties.

hmm i wonder what nigeria would be like without that. i gave up wondering what naija would be like without useless men, because i realized some of them get dafter the older they get, so im prayin for us ladies to wake up, and smell the coffee. janded boys are not coming home to marry any more, they know whta the hell is going on in nigeria, and i have heard them make jokes about going home to catch some fun and coming back and marrying. hmmmmmm really really sad

This a very intereresting subject. I don't think any one of us can authoritatively speak unless you have walked in the shoes of these girls. I'm not condoning the behaviour at all, but whom am I to point fingers I can only speak on what I've seen from afar & from the observations that I have seen in movies & speaking with my girlfriend. What is a girl supposed to do when her own parents cannot afford to pay her school fees but YET expect her to graduate college!! She's facing pressure from all sides, mr. Lecturer is in one corner hounding her for sex in exchange for passing credits, her sibling are probably calling her asking for some money, I even read on this board about some parents coming to school to get money from their daughters!! (Very Sad). I believe everyone of us seeks a certain level of security i.e financial, emotional, spiritual etc.
The Aristos as you've labeled them are just a pawn in the grand scheme of things
Sometimes it's a matter of the female just wanting to belong, wanting the finer things of life that she see's on her friends / clique, lack of self worth cuz she feels that the material stuff is what makes her.
The greatest gift that we as humans have been given is the God the power to "CHOOSE". Whether we know this or not their is always a choice for us, we just have to decide on what to choose & be ready for the consequence that follows because there will always be a price to pay no matter how long it takes to pay it!!!

Oh by the way not all Aristos are FAT, 50yrs & POT-Bellied. Some are younger, in shape, well-manner & sophisticated. LOL

katherinae:

1. this is just seriously sickening, if a woman wants to date an 80 year old man and she is 16 she should go right ahead, that is her own stupidity.

2. husbands die an average of 10 years earlier than their wives, so its quite intersting to see the 13 and 14 year differences between u (orinikila ) and some other human beings here that are claiming to date girls my age. so if u chicks want to live another 25 years with out your husbadn then marry a man 11 years your senior (ewus)

3. last but not least, the only reason y women are withered out by 25 is because u moronic 30 year olds, use and abuse them in their early 20's, a reall man can tell a woman who has had too many experiences with older, men, she is not as naive,a dn not as enticing. Girls try dating men a little closer to your age, our parents time is not ours anymore.

well said jare,

janded boys are not coming home to marry any more, they know whta the hell is going on in nigeria, and i have heard them make jokes about going home to catch some fun and coming back and marrying. hmmmmmm really really sad

I think janded boys should be running away from you, you know too much. oya stop spoiling market

loverboy

i happen to have male friends, ansd the stories i hear, chai i tire for htis world. and guess what most of them have fiances in teh US who tehy are going to marry, but whenever they go home, all u hear is the nonsense that is going on. as for the chicks who sleep around with those men for money, well they will claim to have their reason. its one thing if ur parents can not help u financially but another thing to sleep with some one who for money out of greed.

Finally i blame the girls the least, its the men who i dont get. how would u like someone three times the age of ur daughter sleepin with her. ur old school boy, who u went to college with. turn around and screw ur own daughter adn abuse her in degrading ways. heck some even videotape their rendevous. well all i have to say is karma's a bitch. and u fools will never get it until one day u hear of ur daughter ggetting an abortin, or not being able to get married because the wrong person heard of her runarounds with ur class mates.

like the person said, we all have a CHOICE to make and its up to us. im constantly hounded by useless men some i know are married. and i make my CHOICE. each time that choice is made i know its the right one, and the only reason y i ahve this much insight is because im very mature and perceptive. so like i said karma karma, y u are there chasing a 16 year old, u dont know what is being done to ur daughter or even son, ( assuming he is an alter boy ) just kidding about that last statement.

well, i think the men do it just for sexual gratification while the girls go for the money. simple!

Aristo is Simply The Shortened Slang Word For Aristocrat

aristocrat

a·ris·to·crat [ə rístə kràt]
(plural a·ris·to·crats)
noun
1. member of highest social class: a member of the nobility or the highest social class in a country

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2. supporter of aristocratic rule: a member of a governing aristocracy, or somebody who supports government by an aristocracy

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3. superior person: a person, thing, or group believed to be superior to all others of the same kind

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Hmmmmmm,
Aristo!!!
i think its number 7 on my list of five year short term plan!
its a simple case of demand and supply!!!

hi everyone,

who is Orikinla

It really depends on who is writing, cos me too i was suprised when i "play" enter unilag the other day and was supposed to go see a friend on a day the hostel was observing their week, i was asked to pay "because i be aristo"!!!

well in all truthfulness i think lots of girls abuse the "freedom" that comes with staying in the hostel. In as amuch as a girl has the right to accept a guy of her choice irrespective of age, its annoying to see a girl moving out with a guy like twice her age, a married guy and one she obviously has zero feelings for and sadly, a guy she would dump in another two weeks for another of same age range!!!

annoying,

Hey nairaland,

What do u call the haggard looking guy in old won out jeans on T-shirt craving for a rich pouched sugar mummy, OTSIRA abi?

u should wait for ur time boy.

leave the girls alone to use their head to go for gold. Don't you know what it cost to buy perfume, pomade, do hair etc?

Forget this ARISTO foul cry by you youngis. We are rather the generous, caring club members, GENECARE!