Why should I care what you have upstairs? Everything I need, I see right already.

my nyash AND my fore head are both big. one a bit more flattering than they other but i didnt make nor fashion myself. God created me as i am for a reason so ive learned to appreciate and deal with them both. luckily ive yet to find a man who disliked either one or used either one as a tool to put me down.

I can say for sure that we women with big bottoms and tops have to be careful what we wear because it will attract men attention no matter what!

I remember one time I had on a white t-shirt without a brassiere and my people start playing water fight with water guns.

Just say Mr. Chima wasn't happy with the attention I received.

^^^

i have a feeling shes just a fat girl.

pleep:

i have a feeling shes just a fat girl.

Or maybe she's not pretty! In a situation like this, only her endowments counts. . .

Wat u've upstairs matters dou bt I Loooooove Phat Gurls, d re Fabulous
hit me ma fat lovly babes

@OP You are among the lucky few, So enjoy d attention now dat u get it,

Good morning bittatruth, the most important is that you feel good and well in your head, then the others will feel the same about you
I know I've got big features , talking about my face but I feel good that way, so as my surroundings so don't worry

The truth is that the first thing guys see in girls is the outside which might range from how she walks to her backside

@ pweety, are u same as bittatruth?

@:

bittatruth:

Ok lets say i am very well endowed.

Do you think this is more of an advantage or disadvantage?

People will see my assets before GETTING TO KNOW what i got in store?(MY BRAIN)


My friend has this issue, she's really such a sweet person and very intelligent babe, but she gets quite self-contious at times?as she feels guys especially go after her primarily because of just her endownment(s)?

What do you say about this?Ever felt this way as a woman?or had a friend/girlfriend who felt this way about herself?guys ever just went after a chic based on her boom ba doom, bakasssi, heavy load, huge bosoms even when she looked responsible?

if you dislike the attention you are receiving because of your huge backside, go and see a plastic surgeon and have them removed. then come back to Nairaland and rant about the lack (or diminished) attention you are now receiving from men. Why do you women complain for God's sake? God has given you an asset that other women with flat yansh pay sometimes tens of thousands of dollars to have a butt augmentation, yet you are here lamenting about having a huge butt.

Do you want to experience how life may be hard if you had a flat butt? Ask the legions of Naija women with flat butts, single or married, and they will tell you how life has been hard. That is why the husbands of flat nyansh women cheat on them with a girl with a big butt.

moral of the story is that crave the attention and use as means to select the guy who is good for you. Imagine you were not getting attention from men, how will you find a large selection of guys from whom to choose?

Be proud of your ample assets and be double proud of the inner qualities you have to offer. Any man would be happy to have a smart, sexy & voluptuous women who can challenge them mentally and satisfy them sexually.

This is a good problem to have.

^^exactly

Real men love women with big titties and ample arses! Trust me I know!

No matter what you put on your endowments are printed against the fabric and the men go crazy!

Ladies with big arse DO NOT wear any biking shorts without panties. You are asking to be molested.

Mrs.Chima:

Real men love women with big bosoms and ample arses! Trust me I know!

No matter what you put on your endowments are printed against the fabric and the men go crazy!

Ladies with big arse DO NOT wear any biking shorts without panties. You are asking to be molested.

Even though I usually disagree with you and fight with you most of the time, especially on other threads, I do agree with you this time around. Men go crazy when that big butt is pushing against that fabric. Biking shorts is for flat nyansh girls who are trying so hard to front the "tinny winny" flat nyansh they have so as to create an optical illusion of having a big butt. Nigggaz like me don't get fooled.

What about face? and soul? my dear don't focus on your behind and foregroud, too many things you can put on relief!

@ poster,u should be very proud of ur big features.i admire women with big features alot.SO BE HAPPY.

Nayah:

What about face? and soul? my dear don't focus on your behind and foregroud, too many things you can put on relief!

Girl! You know men IS NOT going to pay you any attention when you are preaching about face and soul. EVERY MAN ON THIS PLANET likes a woman with titties and ample arse. I have never met a man who liked flat chest and arse.

Now do not get me wrong there are men with women with flat features and the first thing a man look at is her OUTSIDE BEAUTY then work his way to her INSIDE BEAUTY unfortunately women are judged by their OUTSIDE BEAUTY first.

I have seen men with their wives or girlfriends DOUBLE TAKING when they see women walking pass with those LARGE FEATURES.

Mrs Chima don't be so sure!! I know some men who can not date a girl with "average" face, oh yes they will pay attention to curves of course! but what I want the poster to understand is that there is no reason to have any complex because she surely got more than big features to attract guys!

@ Chima
GBAM
How on earth are you going to expect us get attracted to your heart/soul by mere looking at you.
It's all about the oversize albeit moderate key feautures  

^^^Did I say the contrary? I just say she should FOCUS on something else she likes more about her and be proud of herself

Nayah:

Mrs Chima don't be so sure!! I know some men who can not date a girl with "average" face, oh yes they will pay attention to curves of course! but what I want the poster to understand is that there is no reason to have any complex because she surely got more than big features to attract guys!

I knew what you meant and I agree but we talking about MEN here.  They aren't hip to that advance theories we women are known for.  You got to talk them like they are babies and show them books with pictures.  

Men are visual creatures and although OP may have other things that attracts men but the FIRST THING attracted a man to her was HER ARSE AND bosoms.  

My husband told me HONESTLY the first thing he saw was my BACK AND FRONT and my face is a bonus!

Nayah!  Mr. Chima's cousin TOLD ME in my face that HE wants a woman that looks EXACTLY like me.   Nothing about soul and substance which is sad my sister!

^^^^
Ohhhhh i didn't decipher properly. Didn't have me thinking cap on
BTW: What if that's all she got going for her? At the end of the day most bimbos do bank 'em rich dudes so it must surely be about the body not the soul.

Mrs Chima, my dear don't worry I've got brothers and cousins I know how some guys react when they see shapes, but the poster should not be ashamed of herself, accept herself and if she thinks she has too big features, she should focus on something she likes on her and put it in relief then men will focus on, that's what I'm talking about: making your complex your strengh

We are saying the same thing different packaging but I got you.

Am I the only one who noticed that the picture in original post has just one leg?

The other leg is in front of the first leg.