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Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by baba11(m): 6:59pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Fulaman198:Can she do something for you if the needs arises? |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Fulaman198(m): 7:00pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
baba11: Can she do something for you if the needs arises? You would have to be more specific. Marriage isn't something where you can just abuse your spouse. You have to be gentle and kind to your wife. She is your wife! You can not treat her like some servant or someone who is beneath you. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by baba11(m): 7:30pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Fulaman198:l know. I'm the type that do not deceive myself as a comfirmed Lagos boy(born,breed,eat,sleep),infact everything about me is Lagos. I would not tell my lady what I can't do because I want to marry her!never!! loI .l know that's your own ways but wait ooo,I thought your tribe love their animal more than wifey as Independently garnered by me over time?? |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Fulaman198(m): 7:48pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
baba11: l know. I'm the type that do not deceive myself as a comfirmed Lagos boy(born,breed,eat,sleep),infact everything about me is Lagos. I would not tell my lady what I can't do because I want to marry her!never!! loI .l know that's your own ways but wait ooo,I thought your tribe love their animal more than wifey as Independently garnered by me over time?? I hope that is not a joke man. Fulani men love their women (whether the women are Fulani are not). The Mbororo'en even have the Gerewol ceremonies where the women pick out the man whom they think is best suited for them. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Sissie(f): 8:40pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Fulaman198: true |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by baba11(m): 8:57pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Fulaman198:According to my sources,I was told that if a cow die and a wife died,they would grieve the cow more than the wlfey and that relocation is necessary in this case because they'll think the environs is not conducive to them.We have had several cases where killing a cow leads to wanton destruction of houses, properties and life and if it happen that a person died,nothing will happen... I think I have to stop here so that I ll not be termed ethnic bigots.. I have lots in the offing but for the sake of what binds us together!!! |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by onegig(m): 9:13pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
maclatunji:Biggest mistake someone would make. So because he/she loves you stop making an effort? Their eye go clear. Don't worry someone outside is ready and willing to help you "maintain" and shower them with lots of love. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by onegig(m): 9:25pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
deols:Yes na. You aren't expected to be straining your neck to look at the other yard when you have made your choice. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by onegig(m): 9:32pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Fulaman198:Very noble ideals my only sincere problem with people with this "love conquers everything" thoughts is that they are sometimes too far away from reality. I just hope and pray you can match the thoughts with equal actions. Amin |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(f): 9:40pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
onegig: Very noble ideals my only sincere problem with people with this "love conquers everything" thoughts is that they are sometimes too far away from reality. I just hope and pray you can match the thoughts with equal actions. Amin If he says it with this much dedication, practicing it would not be a problem. People I have problems with are the 'idealists' who are too comfortable with what position they think the world is and fail to dream of a better world. Your dreams are what you become. If you dont ever dream big, you cant make it big. Fulaman198 is more likely to be good to his wife because he has the thoughts and can easily make it happen than some1 who never thought that, ideal. And dreaming his way is very different from being unrealistic. 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by Fulaman198(m): 10:02pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
baba11: According to my sources,I was told that if a cow die and a wife died,they would grieve the cow more than the wlfey and that relocation is necessary in this case because they'll think the environs is not conducive to them.We have had several cases where killing a cow leads to wanton destruction of houses, properties and life and if it happen that a person died,nothing will happen... I think I have to stop here so that I ll not be termed ethnic bigots.. I have lots in the offing but for the sake of what binds us together!!! No that's just wrong man, to Fulani people, cattle is like money. Just like to most people money is very important cattle is very important. We measure our wealth by our cattle. We use cattle sometimes to even pay for things, some people value money more than women just like some people value cattle more than women. Very few Fulani actually value cattle (money) more than their loved ones. We are not materialistic. Fulani men love and appreciate and celebrate women. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by onegig(m): 10:09pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
deols:You sound like you are giving a speech. Last time someone gave such speech i went home, slept and dreamt of landing on the moon. You should know what happened after. Lol. It's good to dream for something better, it just needs a bit of work to make it a reality. Every good thing does need a bit of hard work. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by sino(m): 10:23pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Assalam alaykum, the piece you are about to read was inspired by one of deols post, it is therefore dedicated to her as well as the esteemed Muslimaat of this section. I hope it resonates with you all, and i pray the effect creates that which would be pleasing to the soul. Allah's pleasure should always be sought, He is the Comforter, and the Cherisher of His beloved. The Muslimah Normally, I wouldn't do this, Perhaps, I should face my work & mind my biz But I’ve come to know you I have always known you all my life The Muslimah, my sister, my pride How can I be gleeful, when you hurt? Your tears shed never goes without thought I dare not look away when you are down, I have been trained to comfort, and treat you like the queen you really worth I should never be harsh, nor should I be too docile I should always be just, and fear Allah in my dealings with you For If I don't, then I have failed, and I fear Allah's rancour on my soul When I think of your boldness, I remember ibnata Imrana, the mother of Isa alayhi salama When the Angel came bringing glad tidings She was bold, an epitome of righteousness How can I give birth to a child? No man has ever touched me, she charged But such is the way of Allah, The Supreme, The Sublime And when I see your steadfastness, I remember Sumayah, the first martyr She gave her life for the deen, she never learnt about Janah, She only surrendered to the will of Allah Is Allah not the only one that can reward such a sacrifice? And when I witness your love for Allah, I remember the wife of Firaun Who gave up the dunya for the akhira Build for me a home in Jannah And save me from kufr were her lofty words Words that resounds at every corner of the world and shall remain so till the end of time These were the iconic women of the past, And you are the icon of our time The generation behind thee shall learn Learn of your boldness and your righteousness, Learn of your steadfastness and your ultimate love for your Creator. I am always proud of you Any day, anytime and anywhere And so thus I plead, Never be fooled by the fleeting world's lure Nor the sweet whispers from the lips of callers impure You shall remain my sister, the pride of the Ummah And I'll continue to love you for the sake of Allah 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by onegig(m): 11:04pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
maclatunji: They forget that the grass looks greener on your side when you mow it. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by deols(f): 12:00am On Jul 25, 2014 |
sino: Assalam alaykum, the piece you are about to read was inspired by one of deols post, it is therefore dedicated to her as well as the esteemed Muslimaat of this section. This is one of the most beautiful things I have read. Thank you 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tbaba1234: 12:25am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Now, that Sino has written a poem for sisters, (clears throat) In the spirit of fairplay, (coughs) it is only fair for one of the sisters to write a poem, telling us how awesome muslim men are.... Thank you AAMM (Association of Aggreived Muslim Men) Signed Tbaba Chairman 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by maclatunji: 3:18am On Jul 25, 2014 |
tpia1: I have never said a woman should never complain if her husband decides he wants a second wife. All I have always said and say is that she should know that Islam permits it and her objections are limited within this scope should he decide to go that route. How does this translate into preferring polygamy? Do you think that because I personally prefer monogamy, I must automatically bash polygamy? You are projecting here. #LOL |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tpia1: 4:15am On Jul 25, 2014 |
^ lets leave the matter. you like polygamy, you currently prefer to "go monogamy" right now for reasons best known to you, cool. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tpia1: 4:16am On Jul 25, 2014 |
baba11: Are u not tpia 1,2,3,4,5.....10 etc 1, 1, 1, 1... 2, 2, 2, 2... 3, 3, 3, 3... 4, 4, 4, 4 |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tpia1: 4:17am On Jul 25, 2014 |
deols: is this quote not based on sharkboy and lavagirl? 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by sino(m): 4:55am On Jul 25, 2014 |
deols:Alhamdulilah, glad you liked it and you are welcome. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by sino(m): 5:02am On Jul 25, 2014 |
tbaba1234: Now, that Sino has written a poem for sisters, (clears throat)Never knew there is an association o, this one you are coughing and clearing your throat, are you fearing ni? |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tbaba1234: 5:07am On Jul 25, 2014 |
sino: What is good for the goose, is good for the gander. It is all about justice and fairplay, nobody is fighting for men rights. The marginalization must stop. Join the struggle. Aluta continua!!! 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tpia1: 5:43am On Jul 25, 2014 |
here are poems written to Muslim men by Muslim women: When i get older i want a nice Muslim man 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tpia1: 5:44am On Jul 25, 2014 |
Where are the good men? 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by maclatunji: 6:30am On Jul 25, 2014 |
tpia1: ^ lets leave the matter. No madam, I have always preferred monogamy but I am ready to defend polyamy as defined by Islam as a viable alternative for those who choose it whether male or female. Thou shalt not misrepresent moi based on your misconeption of my robust defence of polygamy where attempts are made to completely denigrate it and those who practice it. #QED |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by maclatunji: 6:59am On Jul 25, 2014 |
In case you did not know, tpia is a literary icon. By the way tpia, I am looking to work with writers, are you interested? The same applies to Sino and whover else is interested. |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tpia1: 8:11am On Jul 25, 2014 |
even in my mind, I'm not a literary icon. I am looking to work with writers, are you interested? sounds interesting, would you like to share more information about it? |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by tbaba1234: 12:44pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Looks like last night was layl latul Qadr, did any one take note of the sun rise this morning?! Rayless and diffuse in many parts of the world. And Allah knows best. 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by baba11(m): 5:07pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Fulaman198:okay |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by baba11(m): 5:10pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
tpia1:What about 5,5,5,5? |
Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by baba11(m): 5:11pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
tbaba1234:Victoria ascerta |
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